# I Need Advice Please **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 27, 2008, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-advice-please/20435 "2008-09-27T21:50:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tinav101805](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/67e7ee/32.png) [@tinav101805](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tinav101805)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2008, 9:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-advice-please/20435/1 "2008-09-27T21:50:57Z")
I am 22 years old female in college and I am totally NEW to this. Well I been liking this boy for so long. I know that he also sort of have an attraction towards me but he can’t do anything about it because he has a girlfriend. What type of [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) can I use so that I will get attention from him and also make him feel comfortable approaching me and tell me his feelings? please help me. ---
**Author:** ![Siren](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/siren/32/2186_2.png) [@Siren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Siren)\ **Post date:** [September 27, 2008, 10:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-advice-please/20435/2 "2008-09-27T22:29:50Z")
Hi TinaV: Well I can only speak for the pheromones I have used. For starters I know [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will make people come out of their shell and be chatty and friendly. It really is an ice breaker. Instant Honesty also has had that effect for me but on a more intense personal level. It makes people get down to the nitty gritty of their feelings. MX235 will make you the center of attention. It usually only takes me a few minutes after I enter a room for people to just be super nice to me and pay me compliments. IS/A gives me a sexy, confident vibe which I like and so do men. Tisha which is the Pheromone Goddess on this site will give you the total 411 on any other pheromones that might help. Actually she is really the Pheromone Pharmacist of this forum. She knows every mixture, potion, quantity and every possible effect and side effect. I hope this helps some. Good luck!!!.. Siren 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 12:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-advice-please/20435/3 "2008-09-28T12:14:49Z")
> [@](#): > > I am 22 years old female in college and I am totally NEW to this. Well I been liking this boy for so long. I know that he also sort of have an attraction towards me but he can’t do anything about it because he has a girlfriend. What type of pheromone can I use so that I will get attention from him and also make him feel comfortable approaching me and tell me his feelings? please help me. First off at the top of the womens section here there is a post called “what pheromones can do and what they cant do” I think you should check that out. You mention this guy is involved with someone already but showing signs of attraction toward you. This is normal male behavior. They are visual creatures and when they see something they like have a hard time masking it. However it doesn’t mean they will leave there currant relationship to approach or pursue the object of there attraction. If he loves her there is no pheromone in the world that will change that. Pheromonaly I would suggest one of the Instant sexiness products Choose the one you think he would be more attracted to as you know his personality. Instant Sexiness A is a strong sexy confident female vibe Isex B is a soft sexy kittenish female vibe Next I suggest [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) which is a deep communication mix that brings comfort and a connected close feeling. Next I would suggest P74 which is bonding. I normally dont suggest putatives to new people but MX274 is out of stock > [@](#): > > Pheromone Pharmacist LOL hey thats good I like that, now say it 5 times really fast LOL Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Butterfly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/butterfly/32/1942_2.png) [@Butterfly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Butterfly)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 1:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-advice-please/20435/4 "2008-09-28T13:13:53Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > You mention this guy is involved with someone already but showing signs of attraction toward you. This is normal male behavior. They are visual creatures and when they see something they like have a hard time masking it. However it doesn’t mean they will leave there currant relationship to approach or pursue the object of there attraction. If he loves her there is no pheromone in the world that will change that. Also, if you do anything sexual with him while he is with her, you will seriously undermine potential for a future relationship. He will either assume you wont trust him, or wonder why you are dumb enough to trust him. He will also see you as an unethical bad girl, more suitable for short term sex than for love. If all you want is a roll in the hay with him, intense sex pheros in combination with a sexy dress and alcohol will do the trick. But as you have been liking him for years, I suspect that road will bring you intense misery. If I were you, I would just enjoy the flirtation but not expect anything and date other guys. If he happens to break up with his girl, this will give you a better chance with him as you wont be too too invested. Use IS/A or IS/B to attract new guys sexually and Openness or Honesty to help create social bonds. Learn what different combinations of pheros suit you and attract men you like. Then later if target gets single, you know just what pheros to use to drive him wild beyond all wildness and to help him bond deeply with you. Having been the attractive friend makes you far better girlfriend material than being his old hidden bootycall. ---
**Author:** ![tinav101805](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/67e7ee/32.png) [@tinav101805](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tinav101805)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-advice-please/20435/5 "2008-09-28T17:39:28Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > First off at the top of the womens section here there is a post called “what pheromones can do and what they cant do” I think you should check that out. > > You mention this guy is involved with someone already but showing signs of attraction toward you. This is normal male behavior. They are visual creatures and when they see something they like have a hard time masking it. However it doesn’t mean they will leave there currant relationship to approach or pursue the object of there attraction. If he loves her there is no pheromone in the world that will change that. > > Pheromonaly I would suggest one of the Instant sexiness products > > Choose the one you think he would be more attracted to as you know his personality. > > Instant Sexiness A is a strong sexy confident female vibe > > Instant Sexiness B is a soft sexy kittenish female vibe > > Next I suggest Instant Honesty which is a deep communication mix that brings comfort and a connected close feeling. > > Next I would suggest P74 which is bonding. I normally dont suggest putatives to new people but MX274 is out of stock > > LOL hey thats good I like that, now say it 5 times really fast LOL > > Tisha The reason why I said he shows signs of attraction was because before he had a girlfriend we used to be really good friends and one day we were at a party and we started making out and he asked me to be his girlfriend but I had a boyfriend at the time so I told him I couldnt , even though i really liked him I couldnt do anything at the time. So now he has a girlfriend which I respect that and I’m not trying to break them apart. I guess I just miss what we used to have. I dont want to use the pheromone to break them apart or anything; and I know the pheromone is not meant for that. I just want to use it because I want to know if he still have feelings for me, I hate the fact that we hang out around the same group of friends.. but there’s an awkward silence when im around him. I want him to talk to me about his feelings.. if at least we could come back and be friends (or hopefully something more, but I dont want to expect much). I’m not asking for much. But anyways thank you I will try the instant sexyness and instant honesty. What do you mean by [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) is a soft sexy kittenish female vibe?? .. by soft you mean it won’t have much strong affect??