# I Need Assurance **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 13, 2009, 10:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835 "2009-01-13T10:32:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![hoopla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b4bc9f/32.png) [@hoopla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoopla)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 10:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/1 "2009-01-13T10:32:40Z")
I know the pheros have worked in the past. I’m nervous now. I’ve met a woman and I like her a lot. I just ordered more AMMO, IS, and Turn up the heat. How should I apply [Turn Up the Heat](https://a314.com/product/turn-up-the-heat-tuth/)? I haven’t wore my other pheros in a long time. I know the AMMO works great. I really want her to like me. Should I not put on Turn Up the Heat unless we’re really intimate? Help me please. ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 10:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/2 "2009-01-13T10:58:14Z")
Hi hoopla, You say you’ve met a woman, have you actually had a date or just getting round to asking. The reason I ask is that, if you have had a couple of one on one dates, now may be the time to go for Turn up the Heat. If not, then ammo and I Shine should help to make the first couple of dates go smoothly. As I am sure you are aware, TUTH is normally best left until the relationship is about to get physical, otherwise it can be too much and scare the ladies off. Tell us a bit about your target lady, age, race, what sort of personality is she? That can also have a bearing on what to use ---
**Author:** ![hoopla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b4bc9f/32.png) [@hoopla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoopla)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 11:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/3 "2009-01-13T11:13:34Z")
She’s 26. We’ve been chatting online and on the phone. If things go well, I may see her this weekend. We’re hitting it off great so far. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 11:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/4 "2009-01-13T11:15:10Z")
> [@hoopla](#): > > She’s 26. We’ve been chatting online and on the phone. If things go well, I may see her this weekend. We’re hitting it off great so far. I suggest you stick to AMMO. YOu can try TUTH after a few dates and she has been closer to you. ---
**Author:** ![hoopla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b4bc9f/32.png) [@hoopla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoopla)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 11:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/5 "2009-01-13T11:16:23Z")
Thanks JamesBonded. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 11:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/6 "2009-01-13T11:26:05Z")
Yeah, absolutely, TUTH could well be too much for the poor girl to take! ammo will give that nice, subtle, sexual edge without overpowering and the shine will help the date along nicely!! Good luck 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2009, 12:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/7 "2009-01-13T12:21:42Z")
I agree with the guys, You dont want to lead with TUTH. TUTH is more for after the first few meetings. Sure its great in a sexually charged atmosphere like clubs but people generally expect a strong sexual signal there. Lead with your AMMO and Ishine and once you have established some comfort and are in a intimate environment use a little TUTH. Good Luck 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![hoopla](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/b4bc9f/32.png) [@hoopla](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hoopla)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2009, 9:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/8 "2009-01-14T09:25:59Z")
Thanks everyone. I don’t think the meeting is going to take place now. She appears to have flaked out on me. I guess that’s the internet for you. 🙂 I’m rather restricted in terms of the caliber of women around here to date. A lot of meth heads. I’ll see what I can do with the next shipment. ---
**Author:** ![d23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/d23/32/1465_2.png) [@d23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/d23)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2009, 6:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/9 "2009-01-14T18:05:45Z")
Personally i only use TUTH with [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) which is now my joint fav product along with Instant Shine. I find it works real well when buffering the high -none TUTH has. It’s also a great product on its own literally does what it says on the bottle!! ---
**Author:** ![SCoupe](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scoupe/32/2101_2.png) [@SCoupe](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SCoupe)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/10 "2009-01-15T13:55:09Z")
> [@hoopla](#): > > She’s 26. We’ve been chatting online and on the phone. If things go well, I may see her this weekend. We’re hitting it off great so far. Diamond is exactly right hoop … eventhough you two have been chatting online & by phone she hasn’t been exposed to the [pheromone](https://a314.com/) you. EASE in by using some socials and go from there. Not sure you wanna bowl her over from the get go. If she wants to have her way with you from the beginning … well, there you go. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/11 "2009-01-15T19:44:50Z")
The thing that jumped out at me first and foremost was… you like her a lot. As in, you’re probably pinning too much hope on one female. That is always a mistake, no matter what [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) you do or do not have or use. Have other options, even f you don’t. Always. No expectations, no problems. ---
**Author:** ![Rovot](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rovot/32/5179_2.png) [@Rovot](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rovot)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2009, 9:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/12 "2009-01-15T21:18:06Z")
I agree with catlord17 ---
**Author:** ![unknown0001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/unknown0001/32/559_2.png) [@unknown0001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/unknown0001)\ **Post date:** [April 19, 2010, 5:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-assurance/24835/13 "2010-04-19T05:17:59Z")
> [@d23](#): > > Personally i only use TUTH with Instant Female Magic which is now my joint fav product along with Instant Shine. I find it works real well when buffering the high -none TUTH has. It’s also a great product on its own literally does what it says on the bottle!! Where did you get your IFM? and AMMO both are out of stock…☹ happytappin