# I need help badly. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 9, 2006, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help-badly/484 "2006-07-09T19:37:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 3
**Author:** ![sigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dec6dc/32.png) [@sigma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sigma)\ **Post date:** [July 9, 2006, 8:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help-badly/484/3 "2006-07-09T20:46:04Z")
To me A314 is like a really nice looking suit. It carries a lot of power, sophistication, status and class, however, much like a suit, worn in the wrong context, it can create some undesired effects. Part of what gives a ‘power’ suit its sense of presence is the way you carry yourself while wearing it. Some people wear suits and begin to stiffen up and carry themselves in an awkward, self-conscious manner - they aren’t used to sense of status a suit implies, and there’s a lack of congruency between the way they look, and the way they carry themselves. They may look nice, but may not always be taken seriously. Being fully comfortable in a nice suit, carrying yourself in natural, inviting and open gestures, creates a projection that status and authority are a second nature to you…not something you’re trying to falsify. A314 operates behind the same principles, it projects a strong, authoritative, leader type image, however this can create some downfalls if worn in a setting where you it isn’t in your best interests to take on a alpha like role, or if you can’t naturally and comfortably carry yourself in an authoritative type of way. It isn’t a matter of having to be an asshole, but in order to have people follow, you must FIRST take a position to lead. You can support and socialize with others in an open, inviting way with A314, but more often than not you’ll have to be the one initializing interaction with others. If you really are a shy type, then A314 really isn’t a product for you. The biggsest advice to you is to learn to crawl before you try to walk…scale your scope back a bit and experiment with each of the products a bit. Before you can really benefit from complex mixes, its vital that you build an understanding of how pheromones work and how the different products individually complement the overall image you’re trying to project. Think of pheromone mixing like creating a complex, yet tasty dish. You wouldn’t blindly throw in ingredients into a pot and simply hope it tastes well would you? You’d focus on a central flavor, and use your knowledge of various ingredients to spice it to your liking. SOE seems have worked with you (alpha androstenol) based on your results. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) should produce similar (if not better) results, so try working with that. Really focus in on the social mones first (IS, IH, IO) as they carry less potential for undesired effects. A314, IFM, and TUTH take some time to really hone in on an ideal dosage…and the negative effects of getting a dose wrong can really dampen things when you’d like everything to go well. Lastly, taking everything into consideration, while pheromones can provide a significant leg up up in our social and intimate relationships, they cannot a solution all on their own. When using pheromones, take the advantages and opportunties they can superficially create, to consciously make improvements upon yourself. check out this thread > [@Pheromone Evaporation : Top, Middle, Base?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-evaporation-top-middle-base/478): > > Maybe we should categorise products, [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/)/putatives based on their perceived evaporation rate & tenacity? Could be useful in gauging which mones need to top-up or let roll over? Below are those chemset & products which I’ve used regularly & recently (Androtics), in a South East Asian country (humid + hot). Please indicate “notes” category according to your standard/successful dosage (i.e. non-OD) & country/weather. TOP notes (evaporate fastest, finishes quickly) (lasts no more than 2.5 h… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help-badly/484)._