# i need help! :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 13, 2010, 9:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921 "2010-12-13T09:00:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![locomoco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/35a633/32.png) [@locomoco](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/locomoco)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 9:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/1 "2010-12-13T09:00:58Z")
**hello everybody! my name is Jonathan and im from Upstate NY** **i’m 28 years old! im a lil Short ( 5’4) and chubby guy and i’ve only had 1 serious relationship in my life i got no luck with females and i really try hard talking to girls, im not shy at all and im outspoken and open minded and im always respectful when i talk to females! i go out frequently to bars , clubs i even try going to church to pick up girls and nothing** **i need help guys!** **and the thing! that bothers me the most.. its that i seen ugly dudes and really heavy set guys! holding hands and kissing hugging with really cute girls…untill one of them dudes that i meet in buss told me… buy a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) dude!** **well to make the story short! i need help guys..to find the right girl! or at least get laid!** **☹** **thanks!** ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 9:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/2 "2010-12-13T09:07:32Z")
Hey, welcome to pherotalk! How was your weekend? Was it cold up there in Upstate? Try not to be too hard on yourself and think positive. Yes, mones will definitely help you with ladies. But first, you need to become stronger and more attractive inside. Think positively. Think of all the good attributes that should help you with ladies. Also, to improve physically, work out more. Also, eat more healthy and dress right. There are some boots that can help you stand 2 to 3 inches taller; go to sketcher stores, if you can’t find anywhere else. For mones, I suggest AMMO + IShine. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) should increase sexy appeal. Instant shine would give you added healthy, youthful glow. Plus, it would make ladies feel great. Check out the men’s forum and learn more! Enjoy and good luck! ---
**Author:** ![locomoco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/35a633/32.png) [@locomoco](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/locomoco)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 9:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/3 "2010-12-13T09:18:55Z")
lol thanks dude! and yeah its Freezin out here!! i got a question bro ! howcome AMMO cost like S49.95 and **ALPHA A314** $109.00 why what makes it different ! and wich **pheromone can i use to…get laid!** **thanks!** ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 9:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/4 "2010-12-13T09:21:45Z")
Dude, you can get some TO-GO bottles… those are like 10$ each… I suggest ammo, instant shine and instant honesty… if those help you, get the regular $30 bottle… They should help; but remember, you still have to talk and interact with ladies. From your intro, it seems like that wasn’t the problem. It was more of your being down to rejections and less confidence. These should DEFINTELY give you some boost and less rejection 😉 ---
**Author:** ![locomoco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/35a633/32.png) [@locomoco](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/locomoco)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 9:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/5 "2010-12-13T09:33:50Z")
thanks dude! you are the man! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 11:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/6 "2010-12-13T11:12:15Z")
Hi there loco 🙂 Welcome to the forum Yes its cold upstate. My family has a farm in the Saranac area. Winter starts in late Oct and lasts clear into May sometimes. Its still the most beautiful place on earth though 😃 I think you should start with the to-go bottles and see what you think. AMMO is for general attraction and mild arousal. Its masculine sexy interesting and gives a cool guy you wanna get to know vibe. Ishine for a warm charismatic charm. IO to increase comfort and interaction and draw people to you. > [@](#): > > got a question bro ! howcome AMMO cost like S49.95 > and **ALPHA A314** $109.00 > why > what makes it different ! AMMO has three pheromone in it. A314 has 19 [pheromones](https://a314.com/) in it. A314 is the alpha respect mix. Great for upping your status and increasing your presence. Be aware that it gives the alpha vibe though and the alpha leads so if your not congruent with that vibe it can be a tough one to use. You mentioned your outgoing so I dont see a problem with you using it though. > [@](#): > > wich **pheromone can i use to…get laid!** Pheromones dont get you laid. You get you laid they just make it a little easier. They can increase arousal and attraction but you take it from there. Think of it like a shirt that looks great on you. The shirt wont get you laid but it will draw attention to you and give a impression. What you do with that is up to you. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [December 13, 2010, 3:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/7 "2010-12-13T15:13:21Z")
A common bit of advice I give and based off of something I did for a heavy set friend of mine here where I live is this. Follow Tish’s advice on mones, try the three she suggested and experiment with them one at a time to see how each one works. That way you can know what to best spend your money on when going for a larger full size bottle purchase. Personally I think Ammo and Shine are awesome products…but anyway, the thing I had my friend do was he went with two sprays of Ammo a day and followed the Style Life 30 day Challenge (you can google it) to help up his confidence and social skills. Mones won’t do the whole job, but they make the job a whole lot easier. I think the combination works great for guys in your situation. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [December 14, 2010, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/8 "2010-12-14T18:28:29Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Locomoco! You already received some great advice and your $25 gc to get started on these amazing products. When you purchase your products make sure you come back and share your experiences with us. It will also give us an opportunity to guide you along and assist every step of the way. Your gc was issued! ---
**Author:** ![locomoco](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/35a633/32.png) [@locomoco](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/locomoco)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2010, 10:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/9 "2010-12-15T22:15:51Z")
thanks alot! people! for all the advice!~! its very helpfull ---
**Author:** ![samuraitea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/samuraitea/32/1998_2.png) [@samuraitea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/samuraitea)\ **Post date:** [December 15, 2010, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-need-help/43921/10 "2010-12-15T22:40:02Z")
Loco that is so funny a guy told you to buy some pheromones! He is going to be your new best friend!!! 😃 My family is actually all from Rochester and yeah it is cold! But I freakin love the snow and skiing so what can I say! But welcome here and you should def listen to everyone above they are all some of the best here! A314, AMMO, maybe IG, IO, and some IS would be some great choices for you! Hey I know how you feel to some extent only having 1 serious relationship, it kinda hurts the game, but I guarantee you in no time you’ll be back on your feet! Just use your best judgement, ask us if you have any questions and BAM you are set 😉