# I recently said that I never see guys staring at me... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 30, 2008, 1:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562 "2008-07-30T13:50:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 1:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/1 "2008-07-30T13:50:54Z")
Yesterday, I got to see my Cheshire (ex boyfriend, though we’re still very close) after about eight months. He lost a lot of weight, but he’s still pudgy enough to prod at. Heheh. IHx6, top of head, back of hair, chest ISx3-4, forearms Covered in (removed), which doesn’t seem to do anything special for me. I just love the perfume of it. I read on the LP forums that it has a LOT of EW in it, and in the ingredients on the site, EW is listed before EST, so it probably does (I thought it had much less…) So, Cheshire and I are hanging out, and he wants to look at clothes (he’ll be buying after I leave). We head into a little (and I mean LITTLE) boutique-type shop, where there are mostly suits and one older-middle-aged shopkeeper (he’s pretty tall, maybe over 6 feet). He starts asking Cheshire what he’s looking for, riffling through his wares etc. So the guy hasn’t really paid me any mind, which is normal since it is a men’s store and I’m obviously not buying. I’m looking around for purple things (there were ties and shirts) and I turn to the guy and ask if he has any purple suits. “For you?” No, him. “Ahh… _purple_? _grin_” …Yeah. Purple. Now, this guy had a really thick accent (purple=burkle) so I can’t give a transcript or anything lol, but basically what happened was, his body slowly turned to face me and he moved closer as he talked until he was about a foot and a half away (and that’s really close especially with someone so tall). He kept eying me up and down while he recommended another store… in the City. In Harlem. On 125th street. Do I know how to get there? Have I been to the City? Where am I from? He keeps talking and continues eying me like a piece of meat, and I’m sitting there thinking to myself “Jesus Christ, I was just asking.” Eventually I’m able to get out of the conversation and the man continues helping Cheshire, while also watching me, as I hide behind a clothing rack. When he talks to Cheshire, he splits the eye contact between the both of us, and he hadn’t even looked in my direction when we first walked in. I ran out after Cheshire was able to wrap it up, and the guy followed us out of the store and watched us walk away. So yeah. I never see guys staring at me, and I think I’d like to keep it that way. Yuck. Enough about creepy shopkeepers! An [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) / Instant Shine combo always seems to work very well for me, in the sense that I get more obvious hits; I’ve gotten noticeable hits with just a spray of each (though I have both in x2 strength). Generally, a 1:1 or 3:2 (H:S) ratio serves as my “base.” It makes people feel good about expressing themselves. Including creepy, leering old men. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 12:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/2 "2008-07-31T00:00:22Z")
LOL!!! Yay!!! you actually witnessed your hit!!! 🙂 Reps to your report! Very funny! ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 3:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/3 "2008-07-31T03:22:05Z")
> [@](#): > > as I hide behind a clothing rack Hahahahahah! That just totally hit my funny bone. I imagine you peering thu the hangers, whispering to Cheshire “Is he gone yet?” And your new beau searches for you up and down the aisles trying to find you so he can ask you to marry him. And then you have to sneak from clothing rack to clothing rack, keeping your head down so you can get out of the store! Must be like being Angelina Jolie! 😃 Great hit! Love it. XO Kitten ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 4:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/4 "2008-07-31T04:00:46Z")
> [@Tealeaves](#): > > _ **He keeps talking and continues eying me like a piece of meat** _ > [@Tealeaves](#): > > I never see guys staring at me, and I think I’d like to keep it that way. Yuck. Sometimes it feels like ya got _ **sliiiimmed** _…lol Enough about creepy shopkeepers! An [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) / Instant Shine combo always seems to work very well for me, in the sense that I get more obvious hits; I’ve gotten noticeable hits with just a spray of each (though I have both in x2 strength). Generally, a 1:1 or 3:2 (H:S) ratio serves as my “base.” It makes people feel good about expressing themselves. Including creepy, leering old men. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 5:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/5 "2008-07-31T05:05:49Z")
> [@Tealeaves](#): > > _ **He keeps talking and continues eying me like a piece of meat** _ LOL…you tender succulent little morsel you…😃 😮 > [@Tealeaves](#): > > Eventually I’m able to get out of the conversation and the man continues helping Cheshire, while _ **also watching me, as I hide behind a clothing rack.** _ Run Tea Run!!! LOL…try to get out of sight…sounds like something I’d do. > [@Tealeaves](#): > > _ **I never see guys staring at me, and I think I’d like to keep it that way. Yuck.** _ Yeah…sometimes it feels like ya been _ **sliiiimed!** _ It’s _sooooo_ creepy. However when it’s the right guy staring…notsobad. You never know who you’re going to run into. Whadaya gonna do?..lol…it’s a crap shoot. > [@Tealeaves](#): > > _ **An Instant Honesty / Instant Shine combo always seems to work very well for me, in the sense that I get more obvious hits It makes people feel good about expressing themselves. Including creepy, leering old men.** _ > > _ **Enough about creepy shopkeepers!** _ Hum…OK Tea, let’s imagine the next hit involves a shopkeeper…who looks like David Duchovny…who follows you into the dressing room to help you…🙄. One can dream… 😃 That was a nice, albeit, creepy hit…lol…but a really good hit nonetheless. Reps! 🙂 Bella ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 9:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/6 "2008-07-31T09:03:43Z")
> [@Bella](#): > > Yeah…sometimes it feels like ya been _ **sliiiimed!** _ ![Slimer.jpg](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/e/e44dec5ca6c82e0bacc69ad36f901e858628ad1c.jpeg) Excellent report but too bad the guy was slimy. You saucy Tea, you! No one can resist your signature now 😃 Sorry to ask, but what is (removed)? ---
**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 3:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/7 "2008-07-31T15:47:28Z")
Thank you for the reps and replies, everybody 🙂 > [@msselva](#): > > LOL!!! Yay!!! you actually witnessed your hit!!! Yeah… it’s times like these that I’m glad I’m usually a really oblivious person :o > [@Kitten](#): > > I imagine you peering thu the hangers, whispering to Cheshire “Is he gone yet?” And your new beau searches for you up and down the aisles trying to find you so he can ask you to marry him. And then you have to sneak from clothing rack to clothing rack, keeping your head down so you can get out of the store! Must be like being Angelina Jolie! That’s about the gist of it… 🙄 Add some Mission Impossible music and a few barrel rolls from rack to rack, and you’ve got it 😃 > [@Bella](#): > > Yeah…sometimes it feels like ya been _ **sliiiimed!** _ It’s _sooooo_ creepy. However when it’s the right guy staring…notsobad. You never know who you’re going to run into. > Whadaya gonna do?..lol…it’s a crap shoot. I’ve had more than one guy tell me that the reason I don’t usually _notice_ when guys “check me out” is because they’re _good_ at it. Guys get a lot of practice. Okay, makes sense… that’s why it’s so damn _creepy_ when I _do_ notice! If they don’t hide it, it’s a blatant come-on, isn’t it? This man was probably 20-30 years older than me 😮 > [@](#): > > Hum…OK Tea, let’s imagine the next hit involves a shopkeeper…who looks like David Duchovny…who follows you into the dressing room to help you… Hmmm… 😃 Is there a story you’d like to share with the class, Bella? > [@Takhisis](#): > > ![Slimer.jpg](https://us1.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/uploads/pheromonetalk/original/2X/e/e44dec5ca6c82e0bacc69ad36f901e858628ad1c.jpeg) > > Excellent report but too bad the guy was slimy. > You saucy Tea, you! No one can resist your signature now 😃 > > Sorry to ask, but what is removed ? LOL. That almost looks like him. CB is a pheromonally-enhanced perfume oil with EoW and EST sold at (Store Name removed). I don’t think I should post a link because they sell [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) and could be considered a competitor of Androtics (maybe?), but if you do a google search for “removed,” you should get it 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 4:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/8 "2008-07-31T16:13:19Z")
Thanks Tealeaves. I had a look and I wonder what the PGl one smells like… Honeycomb and Honey sounds interesting 😉 ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 31, 2008, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/9 "2008-07-31T17:00:40Z")
> [@Takhisis](#): > > Thanks Tealeaves. I had a look and I wonder what the Pherogirl one smells like… Honeycomb and Honey sounds interesting 😉 oh man, oh man. removed smells like sex in a bottle! a must try! 😃 I even put that stuff when I go to bed cause it smells so good! ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/10 "2008-08-02T16:52:13Z")
Great report Tealeaves. Bet you ain’t gonna complain about not seeing guys staring at you anymore huh? 😛 I’ve had a couple situations of being leared at by women, and it’s just as creepy for us guys too. Just last week I was at my usual nightclub and had a woman come stand like 2 feet away from me, say hello and stand there staring at me. I was polite and said hello back to her and she just just stood there and kept staring. Then after about a minute or 2, she taps me and asks me a question. I answered and looked away, as I didn’t want to encourage her any further. After another minute or 2 she finally walked away. But, she came back several more times throughout the night and and would just stand there staring at me. CREEPY!!! On another note the mens version of the product over at LP (the unmentionable place) smells like cinnamon buns. And you are right in that links are not supposed to be posted since they do sell pheros. I am pretty sure mentioning the name of that company or the names of their products is still off limits, due to their previous association with an unscrupulous supplier and a few other issues. ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [August 2, 2008, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/11 "2008-08-02T20:19:28Z")
> [@Tealeaves](#): > > Hmmm… 😃 Is there a story you’d like to share with the class, Bella? Ahhh…no…lol. 😛 > [@Takhisis](#): > > Thanks Tealeaves. I had a look and _**I wonder what the (removed) one smells like**_… Honeycomb and Honey sounds interesting 😉 It’s divine. You can order a sample size to see if you like it. 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2008, 5:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/12 "2008-08-03T05:17:37Z")
> [@mark-in-dallas](#): > > Great report Tealeaves. Bet you ain’t gonna complain about not seeing guys staring at you anymore huh? 😛 That was enough staring to last me a long, _long_ time. Ick. > [@](#): > > Just last week I was at my usual nightclub and had a woman come stand like 2 feet away from me, say hello and stand there staring at me. I was polite and said hello back to her and she just just stood there and kept staring. Then after about a minute or 2, she taps me and asks me a question. I answered and looked away, as I didn’t want to encourage her any further. After another minute or 2 she finally walked away. But, she came back several more times throughout the night and and would just stand there staring at me. CREEPY!!! That sort of staring is probably worse. It’s aggressively passive, like she’s sitting around quietly waiting for you to make the move. Who the heck knows how to deal with that sort of thing? People are weird, yo’. > [@](#): > > On another note the mens version of the product over at LP (the unmentionable place) smells like cinnamon buns. And you are right in that links are not supposed to be posted since they do sell pheros. I am pretty sure mentioning the name of that company or the names of their products is still off limits, due to their previous association with an unscrupulous supplier and a few other issues. Yeah, I read about that in the men’s section… it’s too bad. I really like the people at LP, and hope their reputation isn’t damaged. They really pour their souls into their work. I’ll PM Tisha about it and ask if it’s okay to post about them yet 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2008, 10:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/13 "2008-08-03T10:23:52Z")
> [@](#): > > I’ll PM Tisha about it and ask if it’s okay to post about them yet 🙂 No not at this time, there are some other trademarked product issues that need to be looked into legally before we can once again talk about them. Believe me no one wishes more then myself and the Androtics crew that these new issues didnt occur. Hopefully it can be worked out peacefully and without mudslinging because we do love the people and the products there. I do agree they pour there heart and soul into their scents and they are incredible. But pouring 20% of a trademarked product into your scent and selling it is another story. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [August 3, 2008, 12:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-recently-said-that-i-never-see-guys-staring-at-me/16562/14 "2008-08-03T12:00:56Z")
Sorry Tisha! I didn’t know we couldn’t mention them, otherwise I’d have taken my questions to PM… 🙂