# I scare people, lol.

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [June 22, 2009, 9:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064 "2009-06-22T09:25:12Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 13\
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**Author:** ![Nicoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Nicoke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoke)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 9:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/1 "2009-06-22T09:25:12Z")

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Hey everyone!

My name is Nicole and I am 20 years old. I live in Mass. and absolutely love it. I hope to live in Boston, or south of Boston forever. I am an early ed major and I have lots of energy and I am very outgoing.

However, this often is not the best way to get GIRLS ☹. I am too open and too outgoing and just to crazy for them it seems. So I figured I’d just come here for the fun of it, and I’ll try it out, and if the product doesn’t work, I can say, “hey, at least I gave it a shot.”

I am 5’7" about 140. _I am not fat,_ but I would like to lose 10 pounds just so I can feel better about myself, lol. I don’t know why I am so self conscious, yet so outgoing, God just made me that way I guess 🙂.

Anyway, what suggestions do yall have for me, as I am outgoing/scare/intimidate/overwhelm other girls that I am attracted to with my outgoingness? Oh, and by the way, I am gay, so I’m trying to attract girls lol (that was prolly an important thing to add haha, so I prolly should have clarified that earlier, but whatevs).

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**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 9:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/2 "2009-06-22T09:35:50Z")

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Hello Nicoke,

Welcome to the forum!

Judging by what you have said so far I would probably look at the socials that are avaiable in the consumer line. Check out the descriptions uner the products. IO, IH, Instant shine. They may help to soften your image and encourage people to convesate.

I am sure one of the girls will be by soon to give you their take. We have alot of knowledge people here who are willing to help, so feel free to ask questions.

Again, welcome

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**Author:** ![Nicoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Nicoke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoke)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 9:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/3 "2009-06-22T09:48:06Z")

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Hey Jesse!

Thanks for the quick response! Will the consumer line be more appropriate for a beginner like me?

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**Author:** ![jessejester](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jessejester/32/1683_2.png) [@jessejester](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jessejester)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 10:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/4 "2009-06-22T10:22:40Z")

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> [@Nicoke](#):
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> Hey Jesse!
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> Thanks for the quick response! Will the consumer line be more appropriate for a beginner like me?

Absolutly. The products on the consumer line have proven time and time again. They are ALL amazing products, and come with a money back garrantee. The experimental test mixes are just that, experimental. The Putatives are single molicules that are believed to be phero’s. They are still in the testing phase.

We always recommend to try out the consumer line to new users. They give you an idea of what to look for as far as responces from people.

Hope this helps a bit. The ladies will be here shortly i’m sure.

By the way, born and raised Gloucester, MA 😉

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**Author:** ![Nicoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Nicoke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoke)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 10:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/5 "2009-06-22T10:26:54Z")

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By the way, born and raised Gloucester, MA 😉

OOOOOH, Nice beaches 🙂

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**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 10:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/6 "2009-06-22T10:48:35Z")

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Hey NIcoke, Welcome to the forum. Jesse always had great advice, and I don’t have much to add, except if you maybe want to take a look at the Womens [Pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) Guide in my signature. See if anything sparks your interest. And if you have any miore questions, we are glad to help.

Cheers, and best of luck.

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**Author:** ![Nicoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Nicoke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoke)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 10:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/7 "2009-06-22T10:58:47Z")

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Hey there! I was actually doing some research and apparently androstenone hasn’t very much scientific evidence to back it up. However androstadienone is backed by a little bit of scientific evidence. Are there any products offereed by andro direct that contain androstadoenone? [Androstadienone - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Androstadienone)

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**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 11:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/8 "2009-06-22T11:40:44Z")

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> [@Nicoke](#):
>
> Hey everyone!
> 
> My name is Nicole and I am 20 years old. I live in Mass. and absolutely love it. I hope to live in Boston, or south of Boston forever. I am an early ed major and I have lots of energy and I am very outgoing.
> 
> However, this often is not the best way to get GIRLS ☹. I am too open and too outgoing and just to crazy for them it seems. So I figured I’d just come here for the fun of it, and I’ll try it out, and if the product doesn’t work, I can say, “hey, at least I gave it a shot.”
> 
> I am 5’7" about 140. _I am not fat,_ but I would like to lose 10 pounds just so I can feel better about myself, lol. I don’t know why I am so self conscious, yet so outgoing, God just made me that way I guess 🙂.
> 
> Anyway, what suggestions do yall have for me, as I am outgoing/scare/intimidate/overwhelm other girls that I am attracted to with my outgoingness? Oh, and by the way, I am gay, so I’m trying to attract girls lol (that was prolly an important thing to add haha, so I prolly should have clarified that earlier, but whatevs).

an outgoing, selfconscious, scary gay dude that wants to attract women? i am so confused my man

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**Author:** ![Nicoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Nicoke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoke)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/9 "2009-06-22T22:38:06Z")

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> [@meow333x](#):
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> an outgoing, selfconscious, scary gay dude that wants to attract women? i am so confused my man

haha when did i say I was a dude lol

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**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\
**Post date:** [June 22, 2009, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/10 "2009-06-22T22:49:56Z")

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> [@Nicoke](#):
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> haha when did i say I was a dude lol

oh yah hehe makes a lot more sense now.

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**Author:** ![Nicoke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/b9e5f3/32.png) [@Nicoke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nicoke)\
**Post date:** [June 23, 2009, 9:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/11 "2009-06-23T21:40:00Z")

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Hey guys! Thank you to everybody for the help.

I just wanted to ask a question. I am thinking about going for [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), but don’t know what strength.

Economically (pheromones/dollar), it would be more rational to buy Heavy Ammo (as it’s only another $20 for $50 worth of pheromones). And after the gc it would only be $45 for Heavy Ammo 🙂

Does anyone have any insight?

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**Author:** ![meow333x](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/ecae2f/32.png) [@meow333x](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/meow333x)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2009, 3:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/12 "2009-06-24T03:25:06Z")

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> [@Nicoke](#):
>
> Hey guys! Thank you to everybody for the help.
> 
> I just wanted to ask a question. I am thinking about going for Ammo, but don’t know what strength.
> 
> Economically (pheromones/dollar), it would be more rational to buy Heavy Ammo (as it’s only another $20 for $50 worth of pheromones). And after the gc it would only be $45 for Heavy Ammo 🙂
> 
> Does anyone have any insight?

just settling on one product is a bad idea in my opinion. i wanted to do the same thing when i first started. ammo and shine doesn’t do anything for me. thank god i ordered the other products like jerk and openness which did end up working for me.

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [June 24, 2009, 5:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-scare-people-lol/30064/13 "2009-06-24T17:38:12Z")

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Welcome to Pherotalk Nicoke!

You certainly did grab my attention with your introduction.

The consumer lines are great for starters and with your situation I would pretty much recommend :

Instant honesty : This will allow the ladies to feel close enough to get to know you and share their thoughts with you on a deeper level.

[Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A/ or B depending on what role you want to play or what type of girls you are into. Instant sexiness/A is the Angelie Jolie sexy, female dominatrix kind of sexy whereas B is more soft and girly.

Instant shine which will give you a youthful, happy vibe and draw others to you and it has self calming effects.

I think you should try reading some posts by KatieA who happens to be a bisexual and she can give you some good advice on what products are best to buy.

I think the female products will work well in your situation.

Ammunition 2X is for men over 40 and we females only use ammmo in very small amounts. A little dap over the lip for sexual effects.

I wouldn’t try the male products just yet.

If you are playing the dominant role with these woman you definitely want to tone it down. You should be open and forward but at the same time mysterious to draw them in for the kill.

_Wait did I just say that_😮

Your GC is on it’s way!
