# I think have to stop: They work a little \*too\* well. **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 8, 2007, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544 "2007-05-08T10:08:06Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/1 "2007-05-08T10:08:06Z")
With the attractant pheros in particular. I haven’t figured out how to handle these yet, and my life has been nothing but chaos since I added them into the mix. They definitely work. a little too well. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 11:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/2 "2007-05-08T11:18:51Z")
> [@Nunya](#): > > With the attractant pheros in particular. I haven’t figured out how to handle these yet, and my life has been nothing but chaos since I added them into the mix. > > They definitely work. a little too well. [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are definately fun at first until you realize _anyone_ that had feelings prior to you wearing them now has an invitation to TELL YOU AND THE WORLD about it 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 11:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/3 "2007-05-08T11:21:21Z")
Omg, what happened? Is this a grand total of all the hits you’ve had so far, or has like, ONE crowning incident said, “Ok, Nunya, you’re turning everyone into love zombies…” I totally have been here. Especially with copulins. I get the, “holy crap, I’m getting too many of _those_ stares…”-feeling. What are you going to take a “hiatus” on? ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 11:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/4 "2007-05-08T11:29:53Z")
Well things have just gotten too dramatic. I was comfortable, pre-phero, with being unattainable and too much effort, for most ofthose that were attracted to me. it was safe. But now some of those same people have gone into “Must have you, by any means necessary” mode - and it’s causing drama in my primary thing. There’s just someone ALWAYS trying to get in the middle. And i know it’s because I’m tweaking them. So to get a breather, I’m going to go naked for awhile. I’ll still be using the work stuff, but the sexy stuff, no mas. ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 11:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/5 "2007-05-08T11:33:57Z")
Sounds like you _have_ awakened the inner caveman. I wonder how it feels to be on the male side of this lusty crushy desperate equation! Is there a need for Androtics to sell anti-[pheromone](https://a314.com/) baseball bats, to fend off wannabe suitors? ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 12:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/6 "2007-05-08T12:42:34Z")
what is this _daily_ mix your using? im afraid if they have associated a signiture with you, the luve-damage is done.go naked if you like, but you _may_ have etched a habit there 😕 this will be a _killer opportunity_ to test whether going naked can make things go back to normal or if your signiture is a permanant fixture in the eyes of all who have smelled you 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![ash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@ash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ash)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 1:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/7 "2007-05-08T13:46:53Z")
Sadly, from my own observations, both in person and in the forum, it seems that people get a phero-impression that tends to last. I base this primarily on how difficult it is to effect those who know you the best, because their brain “knows” your phero-sig and when it doesn’t jive, their brain DISCARDS the new sig and just ignores it. Therefore, I hypothesize that once your custom-sig has taken root in their gray matter, they will ignore your normal sig, internally suspecting you have simply bathed too recently or something and that your custom-sig will return, en force, shortly. I agree that it will be interesting to see how things unfold, but I am sorry for you Nunya that you will be in the situation. Good luck. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 2:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/8 "2007-05-08T14:01:01Z")
> [@Jasmin](#): > > Sounds like you _have_ awakened the inner caveman. I wonder how it feels to be on the male side of this lusty crushy desperate equation! > > Is there a need for Androtics to sell anti-pheromone baseball bats, to fend off wannabe suitors? yeah pretty much, and it’s a shame too - because i’m seeing the ugly side of guys i considered good people. _lol_ at baseball bats. That’s awesome. > [@Lor](#): > > what is this _daily_ mix your using? > > im afraid if they have associated a signiture with you, the luve-damage is done.go naked if you like, but you _may_ have etched a habit there 😕 > > this will be a _killer opportunity_ to test whether going naked can make things go back to normal or if your signiture is a permanant fixture in the eyes of all who have smelled you 🙂 It’s not a daily mix, and it changes in proportion. there’s always androstenols present, and some cops. Soemtimes a dab of edge thrown in. That’s usually when things start going haywire. TAL - which is what’s making my primary all gooey. Sometimes TAH, and P79 - the P79 seems to give laserbeam focus, on me. But i can’t pinpoint jsut one thing. It’s like everyhting has jsut gotten more intense, and attention, and the need to get in the middle and monopolize me is coming from some strange corners. My primary has always given me a long leash but I think now, he’s beginning to wonder what I’m doing to make these other guys think there is any chance. And it’s cuz I’m tweaking them in ways they can’t control. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 2:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/9 "2007-05-08T14:15:28Z")
> [@](#): > > My primary has always given me a long leash but I think now, he’s beginning to wonder what I’m doing to make these other guys think there is any chance. And it’s cuz I’m tweaking them in ways they can’t control. its possible they do in fact have control, but they choose to not excersize it. this is why i mentioned that there may have been pre-existing feelings you knew not of. this isnt the first time they have been exposed to pheromones, but maybe the firt time in this strength. that leads me to believe people have choices, people are in complete control, but that these mixes bring any and all of their “stuff” to the surface faster,stronger,whatever. give yousself more credit,nunya. maybe they have just been quiet until recently… (devil’s advocate here,you know i wouldnt be using every mix androtics makes if it wasnt extremely effective 😃 ) if your primary is blaming you ( i know he’s not, but for the sake of argument) for the attention, then maybe its good he gets used to the attention that you get. its breaking him in. nothing wrong with getting attention, your not with _them_. i dont get the attention you get normally. when my ex realized i got attention while bartending , he imediatly assumed i was fooling around. after all, what man would give you flowers unless you were encouraging it? 🙄 \<—sarcasm ---
**Author:** ![SeducerBeast](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b487fb/32.png) [@SeducerBeast](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SeducerBeast)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 3:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/10 "2007-05-08T15:52:14Z")
Okay, So basically, pheromones work BEST on those that havent been around you long enough to know your “signature” What if enough time has past since the very first couple of encounters. Does one ever forget ones signature? I ask because there are many “targets” i have not seen in a while and want to use this on. There are also “targets” whom I see once a couple of months as well. Is there a specific duration ones signature lasts with another? I kind of feel, that if enough time has passed between encounters, they can become anew. Sort of like: “WOW! Who IS this person? It’s not like I’ve remembered…” Is this just my wishful thinking?:o ---
**Author:** ![ash](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f19dbf/32.png) [@ash](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ash)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 4:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/11 "2007-05-08T16:15:06Z")
I would think that they would forget over time. I mean, memory fades… ---
**Author:** ![HotMama](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hotmama/32/1786_2.png) [@HotMama](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HotMama)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 4:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/12 "2007-05-08T16:18:57Z")
> [@SeducerBeast](#): > > Okay, > > So basically, pheromones work BEST on those that havent been around you long enough to know your “signature” > > What if enough time has past since the very first couple of encounters. Does one ever forget ones signature? > > I ask because there are many “targets” i have not seen in a while and want to use this on. There are also “targets” whom I see once a couple of months as well. > > Is there a specific duration ones signature lasts with another? > > I kind of feel, that if enough time has passed between encounters, they can become anew. > Sort of like: > > “WOW! Who IS this person? It’s not like I’ve remembered…” > > Is this just my wishful thinking?:o No it’s not wishful thinking, it’s actually a reality for a lot of us.. Is it a new haircut? Have you lost weight? No, I just put on massive amounts of Mx135, that is all 😃 I don’t say that of course 😮 I have to say, I’d like to get a peak at Nunya 'cause I suspect she’s also gorgeous.. where’s that profile photo, hun? I don’t get as much attention either, and now that I am not in my twenties and not a hot young thang, I feel like I don’t get the stares as much anymore.. kind of sad, but that’s a reality I must face and get used to. I do have to say that pheros have been a great help in getting attention, but who wouldn’t want more? Too bad EoW hasn’t worked for me at all… What about this Edge, what’s in that? ---
**Author:** ![SeducerBeast](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b487fb/32.png) [@SeducerBeast](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SeducerBeast)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 4:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/13 "2007-05-08T16:27:46Z")
> [@HotMama](#): > > No it’s not wishful thinking, it’s actually a reality for a lot of us.. > > Is it a new haircut? Have you lost weight? No, I just put on massive amounts of Mx135, that is all 😃 I don’t say that of course 😮 > > I have to say, I’d like to get a peak at Nunya 'cause I suspect she’s also gorgeous.. where’s that profile photo, hun? > > I don’t get as much attention either, and now that I am not in my twenties and not a hot young thang, I feel like I don’t get the stares as much anymore.. kind of sad, but that’s a reality I must face and get used to. I do have to say that pheros have been a great help in getting attention, but who wouldn’t want more? Too bad EoW hasn’t worked for me at all… What about this Edge, what’s in that? EW hasnt worked for you!?! Man, the first night i wore it and went out to the club, we all came back to my place and this guy basically attacked me. Nothing too super serious, but it was basically the equivilant of trying to pull Lindsay Lohan away from her cocaine stash. It just wasnt happening, lol! I do wonder if maybe that was just a fluke incident and perhaps it had nothing to do with the EW, but I have never been so pursued in my life. Thats kinda why I am wondering WTF was up with my IS/A and EW concoction. But according to these posts, I had a massive overload, lol! I wonder how many drops you used and in what context they were used? How many times have you tried it? ---
**Author:** ![chirimoya](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chirimoya/32/1538_2.png) [@chirimoya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chirimoya)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 5:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/14 "2007-05-08T17:16:47Z")
Wow Nunya, very interesting news here. I’ll be interested to hear if going without has any affect on how determined your various suitors are. ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/15 "2007-05-08T17:32:59Z")
> [@](#): > > im afraid if they have associated a signiture with you, the luve-damage is done.go naked if you like, but you _may_ have etched a habit there But if it’s a reaction to cops, the lack of them will=a lack of increased testosterone in Nunya’s presence, so even with the memory of her former signature, that should make an impact, right? ---
**Author:** ![m3turbo](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/e274bd/32.png) [@m3turbo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/m3turbo)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 5:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/16 "2007-05-08T17:41:52Z")
I’m a guy and I have to say that once a girl puts you in to that cave man state of mind you really want it bad. The only way to stop them now is to really piss them off. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/17 "2007-05-08T17:50:12Z")
> [@LaurieNY](#): > > But if it’s a reaction to cops, the lack of them will=a lack of increased testosterone in Nunya’s presence, so even with the memory of her former signature, that should make an impact, right? i would think so.:o i mean, i can remember digging a guy,and not smelling him may put a damper on his memory but because i dug him the memory will always be fond. im sure those attracted to nunya will still be attracted but not _raging_ anymore. i think people want to make it sound healthy to be wired on testosterone, but my experience is that anyone with that much of it truely is what androtics likes to label “instant jerk” too many negatives to make 45 minutes of great sex worth 23.25 hours of a$$hole.🙄 ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [May 8, 2007, 6:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/18 "2007-05-08T18:10:44Z")
Heh…I’ve yet to have a dramatic reaction from wearing EoW, personally. And I’ve worn as many as 6 drops in public; I’m 20 years old and not on BC. _shrug_ ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 1:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/19 "2007-05-09T01:21:06Z")
Maybe a little more assertive mix? If a guy just _has_ to have you and you spell it out to him that cavemen don’t appeal, he will figure out a way to behave himself around you. ---
**Author:** ![Nunya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/ac8455/32.png) [@Nunya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nunya)\ **Post date:** [May 9, 2007, 11:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544/20 "2007-05-09T11:54:02Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > its possible they do in fact have control, but they choose to not excersize it. > this is why i mentioned that there may have been pre-existing feelings you knew not of. > > this isnt the first time they have been exposed to pheromones, but maybe the firt time in this strength. that leads me to believe people have choices, people are in complete control, but that these mixes bring any and all of their “stuff” to the surface faster,stronger,whatever. > > give yousself more credit,nunya. > > maybe they have just been quiet until recently… (devil’s advocate here,you know i wouldnt be using every mix Androtics makes if it wasnt extremely effective 😃 ) > > if your primary is blaming you ( i know he’s not, but for the sake of argument) for the attention, then maybe its good he gets used to the attention that you get. its breaking him in. > nothing wrong with getting attention, your not with _them_. > > i dont get the attention you get normally. > when my ex realized i got attention while bartending , he imediatly assumed i was fooling around. > after all, what man would give you flowers unless you were encouraging it? 🙄 \<—sarcasm Yeah - i know that with most of them, there are pre-existing feelings of some sort. it seems like some of the mixes seem to give them the idea that the feelings WILL be a reality. by the end of the night. It’s a wierd sense of urgency. And i think that while you are right - these people are exercising choice in their actions, i think if they are following my cues to see how I will respond to their approaches, they are getting the wrong message, because my mouth is saying one thing, but my scent is telling them another thing entirely. Because remember I am basically walking around smelling like a highly aroused female, ready to have sex. > [@HotMama](#): > > No it’s not wishful thinking, it’s actually a reality for a lot of us.. > > Is it a new haircut? Have you lost weight? No, I just put on massive amounts of Mx135, that is all 😃 I don’t say that of course 😮 > > I have to say, I’d like to get a peak at Nunya 'cause I suspect she’s also gorgeous.. where’s that profile photo, hun? > > I don’t get as much attention either, and now that I am not in my twenties and not a hot young thang, I feel like I don’t get the stares as much anymore.. kind of sad, but that’s a reality I must face and get used to. I do have to say that pheros have been a great help in getting attention, but who wouldn’t want more? Too bad EoW hasn’t worked for me at all… What about this Edge, what’s in that? The Edge has -none in it. It’s powerful stuff, so take my advice and leave it for use with hubby. As for what I look like - _lol_ i’m really not that special - just exotic and attractive enough to rule the roost in my particular setting. And I had posted a pic once, but this is an alias of an alias of mine, so I don’t really want to come out of the closet here. As for attention - I guess I don’t mind it sometimes but sometimes it’s jsut a little too much, because some men just don’t know how to act in general, and it’s not fun. > [@m3turbo](#): > > I’m a guy and I have to say that once a girl puts you in to that cave man state of mind you really want it bad. The only way to stop them now is to really piss them off. Oh i think I’ve done a good job of pissing one off. big time. But he deserves what he gets. The other’s I actually like as people, and they haven’t really crossed me in a way I can’t forgive, just irritated the hell out of me, so I’ve going to try to salvage the relationships, and call it a day. > [@LaurieNY](#): > > Heh…I’ve yet to have a dramatic reaction from wearing EoW, personally. And I’ve worn as many as 6 drops in public; I’m 20 years old and not on BC. _shrug_ Girl - I don’t even wear EoW. The only cops I wear is PCC and that’s just 2 dabs. It’s weak stuff. That’s why I can’t really pinpoint and say it’s this or it’s that. Basically as Lor had mentioned, I think it’s pre-existing feelings, combined with the combination of what I’m wearing, that’s giving off a really hard to ignore signature, but one that I don’t really think I want to be giving off. > [@Kitten](#): > > Maybe a little more assertive mix? If a guy just _has_ to have you and you spell it out to him that cavemen don’t appeal, he will figure out a way to behave himself around you. Maybe just a little more assertive ME. Most of the guys haven’t crossed the line, they just suck up all my attention and repeatedly ask if they can get some. Which is annoying and irritating, but harmless. But one guy did actually push my boundaries further then I am prepared for, and that’s what’s set this whole thread off. I sorted him out, but god I hate drama. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-think-have-to-stop-they-work-a-little-too-well/3544.md?page=2)