# I will stop greeting any ladies in Intro section for now:(

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751>\
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**Created:** [July 2, 2008, 2:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751 "2008-07-02T02:12:55Z")\
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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 2:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/1 "2008-07-02T02:12:55Z")

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Hello to my phero buddies, friends & others, i have put up this thread to inform you all that i have to come to a decision to stop greeting any ladies in the Intro section for now due to my insufficient knowledge in Women pheros for now.

Here is the link to my mistake there\>  
**[Another total noob I’m afraid](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-total-noob-im-afraid/14743/8)**

So for that mistake, i’m very sorry for that:o & i will stop greeting any ladies in the intro section for now until i have sufficient knowledge of Women Pheros. So the others who have better knowledge in Women pheros can do the intro to the ladies in intro section, be my guest 🙂

I will be doing a lot of intensive research on Women Pheros soon.

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 2:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/2 "2008-07-02T02:32:10Z")

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Well don’t be too upset Phatsounds we all make mistakes. I see where you could have been confused and she did ask for advice for both herself and her husband so you weren’t so off with your suggestion. 🙂

Just read Tisha’s [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) guide for women, you’ll do just fine!

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 2:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/3 "2008-07-02T02:45:17Z")

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> [@inkling](#):
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> Well don’t be too upset Phatsounds we all make mistakes. I see where you could have been confused and she did ask for advice for both herself and her husband so you weren’t so off with your suggestion. 🙂
> 
> Just read Tisha’s pheromone guide for women, you’ll do just fine!

Hmm, well inkling i still feel that i have done a bad mistake there & with that i will stick to my decision. Thanks for recommending Tisha’s Pheromone Guide 🙂, i will do some reading on it but i will check more in the Women section as well.

Btw you can do the intro to the ladies as i have seen your intros there & they are good 🙂

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**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 3:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/4 "2008-07-02T03:57:07Z")

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> [@PhatSounds](#):
>
> Hmm, well inkling i still feel that i have done a bad mistake there & with that i will stick to my decision. Thanks for recommending Tisha’s Pheromone Guide 🙂, i will do some reading on it but i will check more in the Women section as well.
> 
> Btw you can do the intro to the ladies as i have seen your intros there & they are good 🙂

Awww Phats,

You are wonderful at greeting new members, seems like you do that best around here…certainly made me feel welcomed when I joined aboard. Okay, so you goofed, it wasn’t on purpose, and it’s clear you feel really bad…maybe you should reconsider, because it seems like you welcome people cause you genuinely like doing so (okay so you get points to) but I don’t believe you do it solely for that.  
anyways, even if you don’t reconsider, I feel privileged that I got one of ya warm welcomes.

djacquelyn 🙂

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**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 4:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/5 "2008-07-02T04:06:37Z")

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Aw PhatSounds. You didn’t make a mistake. You just worded your advice in a way that could possibly be misunderstood. It was still good advice. You were recommending those products for her guy, not her. And then you said that the ladies could help her choose her products.

You seem like such a friendly person, it would be a real shame if you stopped sayin hi to the ladies. So you know, the 3 best surefire products for women are Instant Sexiness A, Instant Shine, and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). They all come in togo sizes, they are all accessible to newbies, and they all work really well for nearly all women. You can recommend them to any new lady–unless of course she says she _doesn’t_ want to attract guys. If you want, you can even say that I (a genuWINE lady) recommend them in your hello post. 🙂

XXOO Kitten

Edit: GMTA Mockingbirdy 😉

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**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 4:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/6 "2008-07-02T04:07:22Z")

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hey phatsounds, our new member Blue wanted something for her husband too, so ammo can work too 🙂

And they can both wear turn up the heat for best effect too. So there is no mistake 😉

> [@Another total noob I'm afraid](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-total-noob-im-afraid/14743/1):
>
> I am female and want something (for me and for him) that can spice up the bedroom activities.

And even you said something totally wrong, there wont be any problems for any of us, since someone will correct that anyways, and nobody is perfect 😃

EDIT: wow kitten, just a few seconds before me, and haha

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**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 4:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/7 "2008-07-02T04:16:09Z")

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hey Phat, I have to say it would be a pity to see you not welcome the ladies, because i’m sure most of them would find your pinky fonts cute HAHA J/K 😛

anyway, i know you probably won’t change your mind, but i just wanna say you do a pretty good job welcoming new members. just don’t let it bother you too much and don’t take it too seriously. nobody is perfect. have fun.

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 3:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/8 "2008-07-02T15:39:35Z")

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> [@djacquelyn](#):
>
> Awww Phats,
> 
> You are wonderful at greeting new members, seems like you do that best around here…certainly made me feel welcomed when I joined aboard. Okay, so you goofed, it wasn’t on purpose, and it’s clear you feel really bad…maybe you should reconsider, because it seems like you welcome people cause you genuinely like doing so (okay so you get points to) but I don’t believe you do it solely for that.  
> anyways, even if you don’t reconsider, I feel privileged that I got one of ya warm welcomes.
> 
> djacquelyn 🙂

Aww, thanks djacquelyn for your sweet compliment there 🙂 Well i can’t say i’m the best here as there are others that’s better than me in intros. Well for me i take my mistake very seriously so i must do this to avoid doing the same mistake again. So sorry i will stick to my decision there. And you are right on what you have said there, i don’t do it for the points well sometime i let the others take the first or second position of some intros. I just feel that i should just welcome any newbies that has just joined in if i happened to see them.

Thanks for feeling privileged on getting my welcomes 🙂 I feel happy hearing that 😃 Reps for you back for what you have say here in your post there.

> [@Kitten](#):
>
> Aw PhatSounds. You didn’t make a mistake. You just worded your advice in a way that could possibly be misunderstood. It was still good advice. You were recommending those products for her guy, not her. And then you said that the ladies could help her choose her products.
> 
> You seem like such a friendly person, it would be a real shame if you stopped sayin hi to the ladies. So you know, the 3 best surefire products for women are Instant Sexiness A, Instant Shine, and Instant Honesty. They all come in togo sizes, they are all accessible to newbies, and they all work really well for nearly all women. You can recommend them to any new lady–unless of course she says she _doesn’t_ want to attract guys. If you want, you can even say that I (a genuWINE lady) recommend them in your hello post. 🙂
> 
> XXOO Kitten
> 
> Edit: GMTA Mockingbirdy

Well Kitten for me it’s still a mistake & i take my mistakes very seriously. Lady Tisha even corrected me there in that thread:o

And thanks for your sweet compliment there 🙂, well sorry to say but i still stick to my decision there. And thanks for providing me with a lot of info on pheros there & even giving me permission to use you to be the one recommending the pheros in my intro post. That’s so sweet of you & i’m touched by that 🙂 Well Kitty if you saw your name in my intro post that means i have agreed already.

But for now i will be researching more on Women pheros. Reps for you back for what you have said in your post there

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 2, 2008, 4:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/9 "2008-07-02T16:00:11Z")

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> [@mockingbird](#):
>
> hey phatsounds, our new member Blue wanted something for her husband too, so ammo can work too 🙂
> 
> And they can both wear turn up the heat for best effect too. So there is no mistake 😉
> 
> And even you said something totally wrong, there wont be any problems for any of us, since someone will correct that anyways, and nobody is perfect 😃
> 
> EDIT: wow kitten, just a few seconds before me, and haha

Well i’m not sure about that buddy as Lady Tisha has make a point that AMMO & Turn Up The Heat is not recommended there. Did you check the thread?

Well anyway yes someone will correct our error but what do the newbies & others will think of that? We are already **veterans** in pheros buddy so we should not make a mistake there in our posts. And the newbies look up to us in our posts, if we keep making mistakes in our posts what will they think of us? Anyway thanks for saying your opinion in my thread 🙂

> [@K24](#):
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> hey Phat, I have to say it would be a pity to see you not welcome the ladies, because i’m sure most of them would find your pinky fonts cute HAHA J/K 😛
> 
> anyway, i know you probably won’t change your mind, but i just wanna say you do a pretty good job welcoming new members. just don’t let it bother you too much and don’t take it too seriously. nobody is perfect. have fun.

Hehe pinky fonts cute K24, that’s funny 😃 anyway yup you know me that i won’t change my decision there. And thanks for your compliment, well sorry for me i take my mistake very seriously. Anyway thanks for your opinion buddy 🙂

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 1:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/10 "2008-07-03T01:31:06Z")

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Just to tell you guys, i did not greet four ladies yesterday to prove that i mean what i say there.

The ladies i did not greet are keating, Lucifer, amelia & lmb1964. If some of you think i’m just making up stories, feel free to check the Intro Section & look for their names & check if any of my intros are there in their thread.

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 10:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/11 "2008-07-03T22:38:17Z")

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Just to inform you guys & ladies, i try again to post my intro to one of the lady in the Intro Section.

Here is the link\> [very curious](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/very-curious/14834/3)

I give it my best on that intro so tell me what do you think about it. Is it getting better or worse? Feel free to comment 🙂

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**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\
**Post date:** [July 3, 2008, 11:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/12 "2008-07-03T23:44:50Z")

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> [@PhatSounds](#):
>
> Just to inform you guys & ladies, i try again to post my intro to one of the lady in the Intro Section.
> 
> Here is the link\> [very curious](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/very-curious/14834/3)
> 
> I give it my best on that intro so tell me what do you think about it. Is it getting better or worse? Feel free to comment 🙂

Hey Phats,  
Yeah I saw that post and I was like Cool, he came back to his true love, greeting/welcoming the newcomers, women and men alike. I thinks you did great phats 🙂 If I could sign up all over again I would just so you can welcome me dude…well I wouldn’t actually go that far, but you get where I’m going smile.

Seriously I am glad to see you gave ya self a chance. Everybody deserves a second chance phats.

djacquelyn 🙂

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 1:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/13 "2008-07-04T01:29:05Z")

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Dude,

Relax, now take a DEEEEEEEEEP breath. Feel the breath, invigorating refreshing life giving, cleansing your soul, your essence. Feel it circulating through your very being. Now, deeply exhale, deeper than ever exhaled before. With it is expelled all the stress and negative energy you are holding inside. Everything that holds you down or why you need validaton, expelled out of you.

Now again, breath in and feel the life giving force of the universe being regenerated into your core. Feel the light of self worth filling you and pushing all the negative doubts out. Once again exhale and with it goes all those frustrations and self doubting, self pity thoughts.

Do this a few times, then after the 3rd time stand up, look into a mirror staring into your eyes and say. I love myself at least a few times.

You should try writing some positive affirmations and get over all the self doubts and validation seeking. I’m not being hurtful, but seriously friend these kind of thoughts will hold you down and ruin your self worth. If you get over the pity party (and believe me I’ve been there) than you will realize [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) are just a tool and then you will truly see the magic.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 2:01am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/14 "2008-07-04T02:01:20Z")

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AWWWW, I didnt say you shouldnt reply to the women. I love your intro’s 🙂

Its ok, I wasnt fully referring to just you and I really didnt see the “for him” part. I had a real bad day. Alot of sign ups that day alot behind the scenes drama going on. I am sorry if my comment made you feel bad. Even goddesses can make mistakes 😉

Come here give me a hug (((((Phat)))))) you go right ahead and anwser those posts and dont feel bad if I correct you, I do it to everyone. Your doing great 😉  
([http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001\_ZKxdm021NUUS](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS)) ([http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001\_ZKxdm021NUUS](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS))  
Here you get kisses to [http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36\_3\_16.gif](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS)  
Here you can clunk me on the head [http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/10/10\_1\_117.gif](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS) ([http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001\_ZKxdm021NUUS](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS))

Feel better \>\>\>\>\>\>\>\>come on smile I know you can [http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36\_1\_12.gif](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS)

Tisha

[http://www.smileycentral.com/sig.jsp?pc=ZSzeb113&pp=ZKxdm021NUUS](http://smiley.smileycentral.com/download/index.jhtml?partner=ZSzeb113_ZKxdm021NUUS&utm_id=7921)

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 6, 2008, 1:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/15 "2008-07-06T01:43:25Z")

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> [@SteveO](#):
>
> Dude,
> 
> Relax, now take a DEEEEEEEEEP breath. Feel the breath, invigorating refreshing life giving, cleansing your soul, your essence. Feel it circulating through your very being. Now, deeply exhale, deeper than ever exhaled before. With it is expelled all the stress and negative energy you are holding inside. Everything that holds you down or why you need validaton, expelled out of you.
> 
> Now again, breath in and feel the life giving force of the universe being regenerated into your core. Feel the light of self worth filling you and pushing all the negative doubts out. Once again exhale and with it goes all those frustrations and self doubting, self pity thoughts.
> 
> Do this a few times, then after the 3rd time stand up, look into a mirror staring into your eyes and say. I love myself at least a few times.
> 
> You should try writing some positive affirmations and get over all the self doubts and validation seeking. I’m not being hurtful, but seriously friend these kind of thoughts will hold you down and ruin your self worth. If you get over the pity party (and believe me I’ve been there) than you will realize pheromones are just a tool and then you will truly see the magic.

Yes SteveO, i gotta agree that i have negative thoughts there. Thanks for your great advice there 🙂 And no you are not hurtful in your words there, i understand you gotta to say what you think is good for me which will benefit me there. Thank you again for your time & advice in my thread 🙂

> [@djacquelyn](#):
>
> Hey Phats,  
> Yeah I saw that post and I was like Cool, he came back to his true love, greeting/welcoming the newcomers, women and men alike. I thinks you did great phats 🙂 If I could sign up all over again I would just so you can welcome me dude…well I wouldn’t actually go that far, but you get where I’m going smile.
> 
> Seriously I am glad to see you gave ya self a chance. Everybody deserves a second chance phats.
> 
> djacquelyn 🙂

Thanks djacquelyn for your sweet comments there 😃 I really appreciate that 🙂 Thanks for saying i did great on your opinion. Hehe you make blushed & touched when you said you will sign up all over again just to get me to welcome you again 😉

I feel very motivated now to do my intros after hearing your comments there plus SteveO advice.

Well yes i was thinking at that time why not i give myself a chance again to post my intro for the ladies & yes it proved i have improved there. Reps from me for your sweet comments there 🙂

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**Author:** ![PhatSounds](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phatsounds/32/233_2.png) [@PhatSounds](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/PhatSounds)\
**Post date:** [July 6, 2008, 2:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-will-stop-greeting-any-ladies-in-intro-section-for-now/14751/16 "2008-07-06T02:02:07Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
>
> AWWWW, I didnt say you shouldnt reply to the women. I love your intro’s 🙂
> 
> Its ok, I wasnt fully referring to just you and I really didnt see the “for him” part. I had a real bad day. Alot of sign ups that day alot behind the scenes drama going on. I am sorry if my comment made you feel bad. Even goddesses can make mistakes 😉
> 
> Come here give me a hug (((((Phat)))))) you go right ahead and anwser those posts and dont feel bad if I correct you, I do it to everyone. Your doing great 😉
> 
> Here you get kisses to [http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36\_3\_16.gif](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS)  
> Here you can clunk me on the head [http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/10/10\_1\_117.gif](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS)
> 
> Feel better \>\>\>\>\>\>\>\>come on smile I know you can [http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36\_1\_12.gif](http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZKxdm021NUUS)
> 
> Tisha
> 
> [http://www.smileycentral.com/sig.jsp?pc=ZSzeb113&pp=ZKxdm021NUUS](http://smiley.smileycentral.com/download/index.jhtml?partner=ZSzeb113_ZKxdm021NUUS&utm_id=7921)

Nah, it’s ok Lady Tisha, it doesn’t matter whose fault is it anyway, i just needed an explaination there. All of us are just human beings & prone to a lot of mistakes so it’s understandable there 🙂

So thanks for explaining to me there & i just want to push aside this matter & just continue posting my intros like before so here is a hug from me ((((((Lady Tisha)))))) & thanks fo the kisses & nah i don’t want to clunk you on the head why would i? I’m smiling & i have felt better already after reading your comments there 😃
