# If i make the title unnecessarily long, maybe more people will want to read it? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 23, 2012, 6:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-make-the-title-unnecessarily-long-maybe-more-people-will-want-to-read-it/55010 "2012-03-23T06:59:12Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![nish26](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/f9ae1b/32.png) [@nish26](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nish26)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2012, 6:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-make-the-title-unnecessarily-long-maybe-more-people-will-want-to-read-it/55010/1 "2012-03-23T06:59:12Z")
What’s up! I’m kevin, 19 years old from massachusetts. I used to be a chubby kid, so I lost a bunch of weight and started lifting a couple years ago. I’m not huge, but I have more upper body muscle than most students my age who don’t play a full contact varsity college sport. I’ve always been shy, though, but less so than a few years ago. confidence is still a weak factor that I need to work on. and i’m not a naturally slick guy; i don’t walk up to girls and start hitting on them, and they don’t walk up to me. it takes a lot of effort to find and get a girl, and, since i’m at school, the only real place to do it is at parties, so there are even less opportunities to do so. So I had always heard about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), I think I first heard about it in some movie involving a really hot blonde bio teacher who was using bird pheromones to show to a student. Anyways, I remember doing research, and never bought pheromones until about a year and a half ago. I bought some turn up the heat just to try it out at parties, and I’m not really sure if it actually worked or not. I have no idea what the best way to use it is, but I think I might buy some Ammo just for everyday use. I would love to try the alpha oil but that’s just too expensive, the spray might be a good idea though. **What I’m looking for:** I’m looking to get a better vibe from girls because I’m not good at being forward and bold.It’d do my confidence a lot of good if girls were more into me from the start rather than me having to go through everything to try and hook up with them. But something for everyday use would be great, hopefully to evoke some stronger feelings. I recently looked at some reviews on the androticsdirect site about girls walking up to them at clubs or girls trying to be around them at the gym, but I’m not sure how legitimate those claims are. It seems a little too farfetched and, if they are real claims, I’m sure a lot of it is all in their heads. Regardless, I still intend to buy ammo (unless someone has a better suggestion?) Maybe a togo spray of alpha, just to see what it’s like. lastly, there’s a girl I’m hooking up with, but she’s also somewhat shy, so it’s hard to get her really into it. it’d be great to find something that would help add that extra step. I guess, to sum it up, I just want to be able to get girls talking about me, getting some forward eye contact, etc. but i also want to find something to be able to use in class (i guess tuth would be out of the picture) I don’t intend to do crazy combos with five different sprays, but any suggestions would be great, thanks! (also, do you prefer sprays to the chest, wrist, or neck?) ---
**Author:** ![Marihino](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marihino/32/1286_2.png) [@Marihino](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Marihino)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2012, 7:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-make-the-title-unnecessarily-long-maybe-more-people-will-want-to-read-it/55010/2 "2012-03-23T07:08:42Z")
hey Kevin, yeah, Ammo is a good allround product, altough at your age you probably wouldn’t want to use more that one (or maybe sometimes two) spray. Which is a good thing, as it makes it more economical for you 🙂 It’s a well balanced product, contains pretty much even amounts of androsterone (high status, trustworthiness), androstenone (attraction, seduction) and adrostenols (approachability). You might also consider Instant Gentleman, which is heavier on androsterone, yet its steering molecules make it lighter and more appropriate for your age than A314. Getting some of the so-called socials is also a good idea, things like Instant Openness, Instant Honesty and Instant Shine. All of them make people happier to be around you and wanting to have more contact with you, but in different ways. Do your reading 🙂 Still, these thing work best when you do most of the initial contact. Most good [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) suggest confidence, and they work best when you act congruent with that suggestion. Welcome to PheromoneTalk 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2012, 8:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-make-the-title-unnecessarily-long-maybe-more-people-will-want-to-read-it/55010/3 "2012-03-23T08:05:13Z")
In terms of answering your question, a longer title may bring more views but will it entice quality answers from serious posters? 🙂 I had to second trying out IG, it was life changing for me to have this aura of confidence and receiving unspoken respect from others. Also IO is great for braking the ice, it encourages conversation and helps you over come your social anxieties. But remember these are for social lubrication, the initial momentum comes from you! ---
**Author:** ![nish26](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/f9ae1b/32.png) [@nish26](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nish26)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2012, 10:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-make-the-title-unnecessarily-long-maybe-more-people-will-want-to-read-it/55010/4 "2012-03-23T10:07:06Z")
sounds good, thanks. i had no idea about instant gentleman, i’ll take a look. do you know what the difference between ig and a314 is? because it seems like you can use it together ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [March 23, 2012, 11:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-make-the-title-unnecessarily-long-maybe-more-people-will-want-to-read-it/55010/5 "2012-03-23T11:43:16Z")
At ninteen, I’d suggest you stick to the IG initially. You can mix them but A314 is still a very heavy and mature status product that whilst brilliant in some situations, especially work/proffessional, socially it can make it harder to get to know/open up with people - **especially** younger women as it can appear very serious, unapproachable, older than your years, standoffish, too relationship-minded, “dad-like” or just way out of their league. If you currently find you lack confidence and find it hard work to approach/open, A314 may not make you life easier as you need to be able to work with it and demonstrate the sort of rock-solid confidence and superiority to back it up. IG is a much lighter, smooth/suave status product that is much more socially engaging and liable to go down far better with folk around your age. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2012, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-make-the-title-unnecessarily-long-maybe-more-people-will-want-to-read-it/55010/6 "2012-03-26T17:00:33Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Nish! The great thing about what you described is that we have just the right products for you. I am glad you found us and let the testing and life changes begin. _ **Your gc was issued!** _