# If it helps you too, great...

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-it-helps-you-too-great/9451>\
**Category:** Men's Journals\
**Created:** [February 26, 2008, 5:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-it-helps-you-too-great/9451 "2008-02-26T05:58:31Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 2\
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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [January 9, 2011, 8:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-it-helps-you-too-great/9451/261 "2011-01-09T20:05:26Z")

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> [@Phya](#):
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> _ **Hi Bella! Busy is definitely an accurate descriptor. I’ve been in a relationship for the past year. But things are getting complicated. I’d actually like to ask for your perspective and experience on the matter Bella, but as open as I am about my personal information on this board, I’m not as willing to be so forthright with the personal information of others, so is there a chance I could pick your mind over pm or something?** _

Hey Phya! I had quite a year myself, lol. Sure, you betcha, anytime. How about we do it over _something_ rather than PM? Ya still have my email addy?

Bella

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [May 11, 2014, 4:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-it-helps-you-too-great/9451/262 "2014-05-11T04:02:27Z")

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1 drop A314  
15 mcg p83  
2 sprays of Glace (light silicone carrier)  
Around 8pm

I was invited out to a fb’s grad celebration, basically a barhop in SF. However, like any good celebration, we pre-partied at the apartment. Played the usual drinking games. Met a lot of new people, the girls were mostly asian. Not all east asian though, I’m not exactly sure to be honest with some of them. I did receive a lot of interest from a korean girl in particular, other girls were receptive but needed approaching. Initially, a lot of the questions were, imo, designed to figure out what my relationship with my fb was exactly, such as: “So, where are you sleeping tonight?”.

I got the vibe that they were interested, but wouldn’t openly express it much out of respect for their friend. I had the feeling that if I had openly flirted with them, it would have been the signal for them that it’s ok to reciprocate (only for the more aggressive girls).

There weren’t many guys there actually, but the few that were, were either friendly, or indifferent at worst. Only one guy was friendly, but challenged me, so to speak. He wasn’t rude, but he challenged me in subtle ways. Basically, it felt like he was doing a terrible job of trying to AMOG me. In fact, he straight up asked me if I wanted to fight later in the night. I just laughed at him with my fb in my lap and told him I wouldn’t fight him, that’s just stupid.

Speaking of my fb, the velcro effect was present again. If she was there, she was either in my lap or pressed up in front of me.

No real hits or anything for me to note. I did think one girl was really shy and felt intimidated by me. Overall, it was a decent mix. Nothing spectacular imo.

Now, around 1am or so, my fb and get back to her place. She heads to the bathroom so I quickly apply 10mcg TAC to my inner wrists and forearms. She gets back, we start getting down. Now, if it’s not clear by now, I’m obviously applying TAC to see if it really does enhance sex. I need more time to form an opinion.

I’ve had sex with her with p83 on before, and I can sense a greater sense of urgency when I have p83 on. It was there, but a bit milder. However, she was pretty responsive and was more vocal than usual. Some users have reported they’ve felt increased contractions. She usually contracts often and noticeably when we have sex, but I didn’t notice it much this time. It was kinda strange. Usually her body tells me how’s she’s feeling while being mostly silent, but this time, it was reversed, sorta.

As for self-effects, because some guys have mentioned difficulty getting/maintaining an erection with TAC. I didn’t experience anything like that, but I also applied it away from my usual spots (neck, chest), just to be safe. I also applied a smaller dose than initially suggested (which is more around ~20mcg).

I think overall it was a positive addition to the experience, but more testing is required. 🙂 I actually want to revisit some p79 and see if it can energize TAC a little.

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