# IH and Arguing **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 3, 2010, 11:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-and-arguing/42285 "2010-10-03T11:59:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ally](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8edcca/32.png) [@Ally](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ally)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 11:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-and-arguing/42285/1 "2010-10-03T11:59:42Z")
Hello When i wore instant honesty quite some time ago i was with my friend who i was meeting up every day trying to find a job and the day i wore IH we had one of the biggest arguments ever over stupid shit, i swear this argument was like the 1 you would have with you girlfriend. I was thinking wot the Feck is going on, the IH might have effected him another way which was arguing. was tha because the IH is seen as more beta, because wen i wear that i feel guys around me treating me as a beta guy I just have to say i am not wearing IH near my friend again, I HONESTLY can tell you i never had an argument like that since my last girlfriend and that was with a woman. Has that ever happened to you or can explain whats happened here ---
**Author:** ![MVKBUGATTI](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/50afbb/32.png) [@MVKBUGATTI](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MVKBUGATTI)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 12:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-and-arguing/42285/2 "2010-10-03T12:50:26Z")
> [@Ally](#): > > Hello > > When i wore instant honesty quite some time ago i was with my friend who i was meeting up every day trying to find a job and the day i wore IH we had one of the biggest arguments ever over stupid shit, i swear this argument was like the 1 you would have with you girlfriend. > > I was thinking wot the Feck is going on, the IH might have effected him another way which was arguing. > > was tha because the IH is seen as more beta, because wen i wear that i feel guys around me treating me as a beta guy > > I just have to say i am not wearing IH near my friend again, I HONESTLY can tell you i never had an argument like that since my last girlfriend and that was with a woman. > > Has that ever happened to you or can explain whats happened here In all honestly. No. Nothing like that has ever happened to me wearing [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). We have to consider that there could’ve been many reasons that led to argument. Perhaps there was something on his mind or some pending issue(s) that emotionally came to the forefront. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 4:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-and-arguing/42285/3 "2010-10-03T16:16:47Z")
Most of the time, with IH, comes verbal diarrhea, and with that you will find that, like MVK said, a lot of issues that weren’t verbalized before, come out. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 4:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-and-arguing/42285/4 "2010-10-03T16:22:53Z")
That’s pretty much my take. I haven’t experienced a beta effect with IH, although I always use it with A314. I think whatever is said are simply things that may have been there under the surface for a while and just never came out before. Loss of inhibition isn’t the same as loss of respect. ---
**Author:** ![funtimes](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/f08c70/32.png) [@funtimes](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/funtimes)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 6:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-and-arguing/42285/5 "2010-10-03T18:58:33Z")
wow that is strange, when i wear ih i feel like telling the truth and lately I have felt like crying, going through alot in life right now so I know its what I am supressing coming out when I wear it. I wore it one time before my girl at the time came over to argue with me, i knew she was going to. I hugged her fast and we had a very peacefull talk after, so I cant see how that could make someone argue with you. maybe he likes you and his true feelings came out and he didnt know how to react to you not responding to how he feels about you? ---
**Author:** ![John\_Sebastian](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/john_sebastian/32/1060_2.png) [@John\_Sebastian](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/John_Sebastian)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-and-arguing/42285/6 "2010-10-03T19:13:37Z")
I don’t ever experience any beta-like impression with IH, but like a few others mentioned I do usually include A314. Maybe it’d help?