# IH vs IO for a guy who struggles to start conversations with girls?

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [July 9, 2013, 12:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-vs-io-for-a-guy-who-struggles-to-start-conversations-with-girls/59541 "2013-07-09T12:07:43Z")\
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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [July 9, 2013, 2:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ih-vs-io-for-a-guy-who-struggles-to-start-conversations-with-girls/59541/2 "2013-07-09T14:41:05Z")

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Here’s yesterday’s thread on the same subject:

> [@What is truly the difference between Instant Openness and Instant Honesty?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/help/59528):
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> Okay I have a question. What is truly the difference between instant openness and instant honesty? Like I want people to talk to me, but I also want them to be able to feel like they can truly confide in me. Which one should I get?

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