# I'm a newbie **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 28, 2009, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461 "2009-04-28T21:28:52Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![swannoa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/54ee81/32.png) [@swannoa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/swannoa)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2009, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/1 "2009-04-28T21:28:52Z")
My friends call me Swannoa and I’m 30 years old. I am a female living in NC and working in the field of technology communications. I am naturally outgoing and have a lively personality. I like to have fun, go out, attend dinner parties, galas, etc. I have a boyfreind of 2 1/2 years. I fear things are becoming dull. I hope with the use of [pheromones](https://a314.com/) he and I can add spice back into the relationship. I would reallly like to know where do I even begin. I want people see me as attactive, sexy, smart, honest, open, warm, etc. I mainly want to keep my boyfriends attenion. I’m open for any advice.🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Maromi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/maromi/32/809_2.png) [@Maromi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Maromi)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2009, 9:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/2 "2009-04-28T21:41:14Z")
Hey there! Are you looking for any self effects? Would you say your boyfriend is an alpha male? Would consider yourself to be sexy or cute? So nice to meet you 🙂 ~Tiffany~ ---
**Author:** ![magnum](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/magnum/32/1423_2.png) [@magnum](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/magnum)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2009, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/3 "2009-04-28T21:49:15Z")
Hi Swannoa, welcome to the forum! If you tell us a bit about your boyfriends personality and how your relationship developed we can recommend the right products for you… Do you only want to use the pheromones for your relationship or also in other situations? have fun here magnum ---
**Author:** ![djandarial](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djandarial/32/1667_2.png) [@djandarial](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djandarial)\ **Post date:** [April 28, 2009, 9:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/4 "2009-04-28T21:55:47Z")
Hi there and welcome to the community, we are pretty open so feel free to ask all types of questions. I would be thinking [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) for the girly girl effect as well as Tuth for your own sexual drive. Instant shine really perks people up, that’s why I got the 2X variety 😉 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2009, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/5 "2009-04-29T00:25:36Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I suggest you start with [Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). I would get a to-go size of both A and B and see which one you like the best. Frankly depending on the vibe I am going for, I like them both A for a more strong confident capable sexy female vibe B for a more sweet soft sexy vibe. I also suggest Ishine and IH, these also come in to-go size. Ishine is uplifting joyful magnetic confident IH is for deeper more meaningful communication and a feeling of connection. If you have any questions just ask and I hope to see you down in the forums. **Your GC is on its way** Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![swannoa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/54ee81/32.png) [@swannoa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/swannoa)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2009, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/6 "2009-04-29T13:41:31Z")
> [@Maromi](#): > > Hey there! > > Are you looking for any self effects? > > Would you say your boyfriend is an alpha male? > > Would consider yourself to be sexy or cute? > > So nice to meet you 🙂 > > ~Tiffany~ Thanks so much for responding! I would defiantly say that my boyfriend is an Alpha Male. He likes to control things; although, in the bedroom he likes for me to be rough and dirty if you know what I mean…lol He is spoiled and if he doesn’t get his way he has little tantrums. He’s 43 years old and this is the first time we have had any issues. I consider my self to be cute. I’m 5’1 with a petite frame. I am sexy when goint out with friends or in the bedroom. I adapt to the situation. Great to meet you too! ---
**Author:** ![swannoa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/54ee81/32.png) [@swannoa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/swannoa)\ **Post date:** [April 29, 2009, 1:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/7 "2009-04-29T13:48:32Z")
> [@magnum](#): > > Hi Swannoa, > > welcome to the forum! > > If you tell us a bit about your boyfriends personality and how your relationship developed we can recommend the right products for you… > > Do you only want to use the pheromones for your relationship or also in other situations? > > have fun here > magnum Thank you! Everyone here seems so welcoming and inviting. My boyfriend likes structure as it relates to work, he plans, and is organizied. With our relationship he is very similar. He likes to have things done his way and sometimes he will compromise, but not often…lol If ift’s something really important to me he will give in. He is very intelligent and often uses the neocortex of the brain. He is really in the A & B quadrant. He is an intravert, but socilizes becasue he has to in his line of work. Socializing drains him of energy, but I’m the complete opposite. I’m a social butterfly.🙂 I would also like to use the pheromones for my career. I want be viewed as a team player, a go-getter, honesty, hardworking, and open to new ideas. I am alreay viewed as these things, but want to ensure it continues. I suffer from adrenal fatigue so I need something to uplift my mood or calm me down if my boyfreind doesn’t do what I ask immediately. Or if he doesn’t follow throught with what he says he’s going to do - that’s one of my pet peeves. ---
**Author:** ![swannoa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/54ee81/32.png) [@swannoa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/swannoa)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2009, 12:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/8 "2009-04-30T12:35:10Z")
Thanks everyone for your help! My next question is how do I apply it? ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [April 30, 2009, 12:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-a-newbie/28461/9 "2009-04-30T12:42:23Z")
Hi Swannoa, How do you apply Pheromones? The pulse points are recommended. Most apply to inner wrist, behind the ears, neck, inner arm, and some people apply to the chest and hair. Start with a little, then work your way up from there 🙂