# I'm curious..... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 27, 2010, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-curious/39656 "2010-06-27T18:04:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 3\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![tranquil43](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/edb3f5/32.png) [@tranquil43](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tranquil43)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2010, 6:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-curious/39656/1 "2010-06-27T18:04:59Z")
I’ve never had an issue making friend’s with guys. No matter how pissy, annoying, or obnoxious I’ve been in the past, many guys have wanted to be friends with me. Now getting girls to want to associate themselves with me? That’s been a challenge for a long time… I am wondering, could it be that I am releasing [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) that helps me win the trust of males but pushes away females? Or is that typically the way it is for most people where it is much easier for them to make friends of their gender and much harder with the opposite gender. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [June 27, 2010, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-curious/39656/2 "2010-06-27T23:03:07Z")
Pheromones are probably not the answer to this one. It seems to me that you exude the “one of the boys” attitude with your demeanor, language, and overall charisma. Girls deep down probably see you in this attractive guy that everyone wants to know. You’re having fun, meeting everyone and you seem comfortable with yourself. The problem lies that with interaction with guys, its easy, you share a common bond of sports, girls, drinking, and fun. With girls its almost as if you have to work twice as hard to make them feel comfortable with you enough that they can be themselves and open up. When you see a girl that catches your attention just go up to her, introduce yourself, and just be the “party host” and start co mingling people, this will set you apart from the others and will make you more attractive in that respect to girls. Now if you want pheromones to COMPLEMENT that nature of you, then try A314, IG, or even AMMO. ---
**Author:** ![hillke](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/7bcc69/32.png) [@hillke](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hillke)\ **Post date:** [June 28, 2010, 4:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-curious/39656/3 "2010-06-28T04:38:22Z")
Girls are a whole different breed. The attitude interface has to be completely switched up if you want to attract most females. Guys click real easy because we’re guys. We like sports, exercise, booze, naked chicks, sex, and have a naturally high production of testosterone. Granted, some gals can easily fit the “one of the guys” category, but a lot don’t… In my experience, the groups of guys around here tend to be loud, obnoxious, and often drunk. Not a whole lot of fun for the ladies around here. You gotta take time to learn and care about what a girl wants and likes then when you find one you like, go get her. A lot of this knowledge comes from experience so even if you try and fail at talking with girls, you will be smarter the next time you try. Also, some IO never hurts. It’s real easy to be understanding and caring when you don’t even have a chance to speak. Disclaimer: Not saying that I do that to that end, just saying that when it happens, it usually turns out that I “was being” so nice for listening and caring (and sometimes providing input when I never did)…