# I'm getting a little worried... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 10, 2009, 3:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836 "2009-05-10T15:35:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![cptnsmelly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f04885/32.png) [@cptnsmelly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cptnsmelly)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 3:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/1 "2009-05-10T15:35:58Z")
These pheromones don’t seem to be working… I tried instant shine and instant honesty (which smells fantastic) yesterday when I went out with one of my friends to a movie (he’s often quite closed and so I really don’t know that much about his personal life). He didn’t act any different at all. I felt a little better, so I think the instant shine may have worked on me. I just felt relaxed and happy… It was nice. Oh yeah, just have to say that the movie I saw was Startrek. Oh my god! SEEEE IT! IT WAS AMAZING! I’m not a Startrek fan but like oh my god! JUST SEE IT RIGHT NOW! Okay so, lets just back on my original topic. I also tried [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) on my girlfriend and she acted no different than she regularly did… These things don’t seem to be working for me. Seeing as everyone else has been reporting success I must be doing something wrong… Both times I used the mones on my wrists and chest. Am I doing something wrong? Where are the best points to spray mones (neck, wrists, chest, etc.)? Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 3:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/2 "2009-05-10T15:59:54Z")
How much did you wear ? How many times did you try them ? Have you tried them only around those who have preconceived notions about you such as friends and family ? Takes longer for them to process these new signals. Where did you apply them ? Did you use them one at a time or layer ? Cant help you till we know the answers to these questions 😉. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 4:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/3 "2009-05-10T16:11:30Z")
Here are a few points that get made often here, but sometimes get lost in the shuffle. 1. It’s often hard to know what someone else is feeling. I think people often feel the effects of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) but they don’t react right away. Think of it this way, let’s say you’re girlfriend has a friend whom you don’t really find attractive. She’s skinny, has a bad haircut, and wears librarian glasses. The two of you are waiting on your girlfriend one day making small talk and for a few minutes you start to think “you know this girl has a really cute mouth and I want to kiss her.” You are not going to let her or anybody else know you had that thought. You’ll probably push it aside so fast that you won’t even really think it, you’ll just feel it. Now if the thought starts coming back to you every time you talk with this girl you might start to see her in a different light. Pheromones are subconcious or perhaps right on the edge of conciousness. Peoples mindsets often keep them from showing results right away on people who already have a set way of acting around us. 2. Where you use them makes a difference. IH at the movies isn’t going to bring about deep conversation…people don’t hold deep conversations at the movies. Keep using them, vary your dosage but try to use just one product at a time until you start to understand the results. Hopefully you’ll work out what amounts work best for you (your sweet spot).Keep an ear open for what your friends say others are saying about you. People may act no different to your face but if you are consistent they’ll change how they feel about and around you. You’ll eventually start seeing those big crazy hits that you read about on here…especially from strangers. Good luck and don’t feel bad if you don’t get it right away, most of us didn’t either. > [@cptnsmelly](#): > > These pheromones don’t seem to be working… I tried instant shine and instant honesty (which smells fantastic) yesterday when I went out with one of my friends to a movie (he’s often quite closed and so I really don’t know that much about his personal life). He didn’t act any different at all. I felt a little better, so I think the instant shine may have worked on me. I just felt relaxed and happy… It was nice. Oh yeah, just have to say that the movie I saw was Startrek. Oh my god! SEEEE IT! IT WAS AMAZING! I’m not a Startrek fan but like oh my god! JUST SEE IT RIGHT NOW! > Okay so, lets just back on my original topic. I also tried Instant Shine on my girlfriend and she acted no different than she regularly did… These things don’t seem to be working for me. Seeing as everyone else has been reporting success I must be doing something wrong… > Both times I used the mones on my wrists and chest. Am I doing something wrong? Where are the best points to spray mones (neck, wrists, chest, etc.)? > > Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![cptnsmelly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f04885/32.png) [@cptnsmelly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cptnsmelly)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 4:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/4 "2009-05-10T16:43:08Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > 1)How much did you wear ? > > 1. How many times did you try them ? > > 2. Have you tried them only around those who have preconceived notions about you such as friends and family ? Takes longer for them to process these new signals. > > 3. Where did you apply them ? > > 4. Did you use them one at a time or layer ? > > Cant help you till we know the answers to these questions 😉. > > Tisha 1. 2 sprays of shine on wrists and neck both times. 2. Twice on different people with no apparent effect. 3. Yeah… Maybe I should try them more on strangers than people I’m close to? 4. Wrist, Chest, and Neck. 5. Layer. I’m not saying the mones don’t work. I’m just thinking I must either be doing something wrong or that I haven’t done enough testing… Maybe my girlfriend and my friend aren’t affected…? Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![cptnsmelly](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f04885/32.png) [@cptnsmelly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/cptnsmelly)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 4:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/5 "2009-05-10T16:46:16Z")
> [@renny](#): > > Here are a few points that get made often here, but sometimes get lost in the shuffle. > > 1. It’s often hard to know what someone else is feeling. I think people often feel the effects of pheromones but they don’t react right away. Think of it this way, let’s say you’re girlfriend has a friend whom you don’t really find attractive. She’s skinny, has a bad haircut, and wears librarian glasses. The two of you are waiting on your girlfriend one day making small talk and for a few minutes you start to think “you know this girl has a really cute mouth and I want to kiss her.” You are not going to let her or anybody else know you had that thought. You’ll probably push it aside so fast that you won’t even really think it, you’ll just feel it. Now if the thought starts coming back to you every time you talk with this girl you might start to see her in a different light. Pheromones are subconcious or perhaps right on the edge of conciousness. Peoples mindsets often keep them from showing results right away on people who already have a set way of acting around us. > > 2. Where you use them makes a difference. IH at the movies isn’t going to bring about deep conversation…people don’t hold deep conversations at the movies. > > Keep using them, vary your dosage but try to use just one product at a time until you start to understand the results. Hopefully you’ll work out what amounts work best for you (your sweet spot).Keep an ear open for what your friends say others are saying about you. People may act no different to your face but if you are consistent they’ll change how they feel about and around you. You’ll eventually start seeing those big crazy hits that you read about on here…especially from strangers. > > Good luck and don’t feel bad if you don’t get it right away, most of us didn’t either. I wasn’t expecting a deep convo at the movies. We both drove in the same car on the way there (15 minutes) and I tried to talk about more personal things. He responded but the conversation lost momentum. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 5:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/6 "2009-05-10T17:27:15Z")
Expecting to be the tsunami 'o love, huh? Usually the effects of mones are subtle. They impart a slight edge and amp up our persona. It’s still you but only a little better. Helps make you stand out a tad, sorta like wearing a nice designer shirt. It won’t defy the laws of nature, disable social structure or invalidate freewill. Wish it did. My experience is they mainly draw out what already exists. For example, if someone is prone to confessing personal secrets, a couple zaps of IH will have their little tongues wagging in no time. If they’re tight lipped, even torture won’t work, so forget about seeing results on every single person. ---
**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/7 "2009-05-10T19:50:08Z")
> [@Gegogi](#): > > **It won’t defy the laws of nature** , disable social structure or invalidate freewill. Wish it did. You make a very very good point G. ---
**Author:** ![dodge](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dodge/32/793_2.png) [@dodge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dodge)\ **Post date:** [May 10, 2009, 8:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-getting-a-little-worried/28836/8 "2009-05-10T20:42:06Z")
Just wondering guys: any guidelines on how to identify **definite _non-hits_**? I think that would help for a start: eliminating hits that can’t be attributed to the pheros, leaving you to concentrate on what are likely to be hits… E.g. if you’re walking along the street, surely the person smiling while walking towards you from 50m away can’t be a hit? The pheros wouldn’t have hit him/her yet… I’m thinking in terms of - distance/range of pheros - time it takes to kick in - does the strength of the scent correlate to strength? i.e. if you’re smelling your own pheros less it means it’s correspondingly less effective?