# I'm going to buy Ammo...which social pheromone do you recommend me to be confident

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [September 28, 2008, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451 "2008-09-28T01:16:28Z")\
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**Author:** ![merridew87](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/91b2a8/32.png) [@merridew87](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/merridew87)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 1:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/1 "2008-09-28T01:16:28Z")

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I want to be some confident guy. I’m infatuated with a girl, but I do not want her to know what I feel. First of all, I want to mature and pheromones can help me. I do want to use pheromones on other girls, but not on her. I just want her to be free and be her friend(secret lover at the same time). If I meet other girls, I will be prepared for her.

Most girls think I’m ugly and my question is

Pheromones will make me be more attractive ?

My answer is yes …but I want to know your answer.

I used to think to have sex with some girl, but now I think its the less thing I care about.

I do not love this girl since I do not know her…but I want to stand still and try, because the blows of life are very hard.

When I was in high school, there was a girl that I used to like.. First she said that I was fuckin ugly. Weeks passed by and … she changed her opinion. She was nice to me by then and she said that I looked like a teddy bear ???

I do not understand???

First she says that Im horrible…later on she says I’m kind of cute…

does not makes any sense

By the way, I used Realm in that time…

So which [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) do you recommend be to be a man full of confidence and joyful.

Thank you for your answers

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**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 1:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/2 "2008-09-28T01:22:24Z")

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> [@merridew87](#):
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> I’m infatuated with a girl, but I do not want her to know what I feel.

OK, best not let her know you’re “infatuated”, but, at the right time, let her know you’re a bit interested.

In short… Ishine seems to be the one that will enhance confidence and others’ perception of your confidence. You want to be socially proofed to her, I take it, by her seeing how other girls are happy to be around you. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) + Ishine sounds like a good combo.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 1:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/3 "2008-09-28T01:40:00Z")

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Merridew

No offence dude but the anwser to your question is the same as the last 5 times you asked it.

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> Most girls think I’m ugly and my question is

This statement here indicates your confidence is in the crapper. Get rid of this attitude now. I dont care if you look like quasi moto. Hold your head up and believe in yourself

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> Pheromones will make me be more attractive ?

This is a loaded question  
Yes they cause attraction but no they wont make you look any different to anyone. There has to be some sort of attraction to begin with for them to work.

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> When I was in high school, there was a girl that I used to like.. First she said that I was fuckin ugly. Weeks passed by and … she changed her opinion. She was nice to me by then and she said that I looked like a teddy bear ???

Dont believe everything high school girls tell you. They dont know what the hell they want at that age. I am sure your not ugly as hell but if you believe you are it will show in your body language and girls will pick right up on it.

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> does not makes any sense

No it dosnt which is another indication she dosnt know what she wants.

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> So which social pheromones do you recommend be to be a man full of confidence and joyful.

[Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/)

Tisha

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**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/4 "2008-09-28T01:59:29Z")

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> So which social pheromones do you recommend be to be a man full of confidence and joyful.

I’m sorry, but you need to hear this: no [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) can change that which comes from within. At best, you’ll get a temporary fix and end up chasing an elusive high. Confidence wells up from inside you as a result of accomplishment, hard work and a healthy self image. What pheromones do is enhance your assets and make you a little bigger than reality. If you project a positive self image, pheromones will do you one better. If you’re a loser or a wallflower those things will not be any less evident.

Happiness and confidence are things we create. It doesn’t happen overnight but you can chip away at it and start to see results in mere weeks. The big rewards may take years but the journey is a nice ride. My suggestion is to focus on improving yourself in every way possible: workout, wear stylish and well fitting clothing, a new hairdo, hone social skills (get a coach!) and seek the best education (& resulting job) you can muster. And for crying out loud, study and do something you really love. These types of things will make you feel better about yourself and the well deserved accomplishments will foster confidence and stability. And that’s attractive to not only women, but people in general. And I dare say you’ll feel a lot more happy about yourself and your lot in life.

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 1:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/5 "2008-09-28T01:59:51Z")

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Here you go, take the time to read the replys you got on all your posts.

Alot of members stepped up to try and help and spent there time replying to you. I know you want to hear a different anwser but there is no different anwser.

> [@I´m not physical attractive...are pheromones going to work anyway?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/i-m-not-physical-attractive-are-pheromones-going-to-work-anyway/12585):
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> I need to know

> [@If I wear Ammo, girls are going to be after me?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-i-wear-ammo-girls-are-going-to-be-after-me/12645):
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> I have heard many things about turn up the heat and ammo. If I wear [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), girls are going to be after me, staring at me, they are going to be ATTRACTED…that’s what I have read.

> [@If Im not physically attractive, will Ammunition help me attract girls?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/if-im-not-physically-attractive-will-ammunition-help-me-attract-girls/13205):
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> The thing is that girls (most of them) see me as some ugly guy (I’m 20). If you say that [pheromones](https://a314.com/) work, they will help me attract girls. I know that I need confidence, LOVE MYSELF, positive thinking, etc…but pheromones will help me with girls to be attracted to me… another question… If they will see me as ugly or unactractive, how are they going to see me with pheromones…different??? What do you mean by “attraction”…girls will like you???

> [@What will be the reactions of women if I use Ammunition](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-will-be-the-reactions-of-women-if-i-use-ammunition/14191):
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> Thank you

> [@What will be the effect of Ammunition in men, if i use it to attract women ???](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-will-be-the-effect-of-ammunition-in-men-if-i-use-it-to-attract-women/17593):
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> Im just curious about it

> [@Some girls think I'm ugly...will Ammunition attract these girls to me????????????????](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/some-girls-think-im-ugly-will-ammunition-attract-these-girls-to-me/13725):
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> Please Do Not Answer Something Else

This is just half of them. I really do think you should try AMMO and work on your self confidence more. What is assumed ugly to one person is attractive to another and there is a girl out there for you. The universe assures it. Believe that and you will find her. You can do this. 😉

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**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/6 "2008-09-28T02:47:52Z")

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I thought the poster and question was familiar..

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**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/7 "2008-09-28T15:34:24Z")

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for some real confidence building techiques. ross jeffries has some quality video on youtube. i used his methods, and for the most part i can approach any girl at anytime. my friends think i’m ruthless. 😃

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**Author:** ![in\_uk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/in_uk/32/2130_2.png) [@in\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/in_uk)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/8 "2008-09-28T18:45:21Z")

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nice one castlerock,

confidence and self-esteem are a big problem for lots of people, myself included, and need to be overcome to get anything out pheros (and most things in life). ross jeffries here we come.

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**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 7:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/9 "2008-09-28T19:03:42Z")

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> [@merridew87](#):
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> Most girls think I’m ugly and my question is

Merridew87, how do you know what “most girls think”? Even within your college or workplace, or just general social circles? Have you surveyed them all? You must get out of the habit of attempting mind reading, it is no good for you. Of course, you can guess the motives of people based on their behaviour, this is all part of being a highly social primate species, but remember you do not really know what they think, you are only guessing.

If you actually knew what people think you’d be able to make an absolute fortune. So please try and make statements of the form “Most girls say X sort of thing, and do Y sort of thing around me”. If you are indeed associating with many girls who say things like “Merridew87, you are ugly” it says more about them than it does you. I would find a dramatically higher-class social circle to hang around in if that was the case.

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**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/10 "2008-09-28T19:07:02Z")

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> [@in\_uk](#):
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> nice one castlerock,
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> confidence and self-esteem are a big problem for lots of people, myself included, and need to be overcome to get anything out pheros (and most things in life). ross jeffries here we come.

you have to use the methods everyday once a day and even two times a day. it takes time to override the negative thoughts we have of ourselves. it takes good effort, but definitely worth it.

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**Author:** ![ntk23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/n/65b543/32.png) [@ntk23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ntk23)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 7:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/11 "2008-09-28T19:11:32Z")

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> [@in\_uk](#):
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> nice one castlerock,
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> confidence and self-esteem are a big problem for lots of people, myself included, and need to be overcome to get anything out pheros (and most things in life). ross jeffries here we come.

Also, a search for “NLP” in general on YouTube will bring up some good videos, of seminars and stuff.

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**Author:** ![in\_uk](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/in_uk/32/2130_2.png) [@in\_uk](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/in_uk)\
**Post date:** [September 28, 2008, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-going-to-buy-ammo-which-social-pheromone-do-you-recommend-me-to-be-confident/20451/12 "2008-09-28T19:13:09Z")

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ok nice one. thanks
