# I'm new and looking forward to learning more **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 9, 2010, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627 "2010-04-09T18:12:54Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![TinaM0205](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@TinaM0205](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TinaM0205)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2010, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/1 "2010-04-09T18:12:54Z")
Hi: I’m age 55, female, active, married and always looking for interesting new things to punch up our lives. Maybe I’m just being greedy because our relationship is pretty doggone hot and heavy. But I feel there’s always room for MORE heat. 😉 I want to try some of the products but I have to say the ‘gift certificate’ got my attention. I want to try a lot of different things, for both of us. I look forward to learning more from everyone. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![TinaM0205](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@TinaM0205](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TinaM0205)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2010, 6:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/2 "2010-04-09T18:15:46Z")
> [@TinaM0205](#): > > Hi: I’m age 55, female, active, married and always looking for interesting new things to punch up our lives. Maybe I’m just being greedy because our relationship is pretty doggone hot and heavy. But I feel there’s always room for MORE heat. 😉 I want to try some of the products but I have to say the ‘gift certificate’ got my attention. I want to try a lot of different things, for both of us. > > I look forward to learning more from everyone. 🙂 Oh, and I’m in S. Florida. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2010, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/3 "2010-04-09T18:17:52Z")
Hi Tina, welcome to the forum! In order to recommend the best products for your needs, and also get you qualified for the $25 gift certificate, please share some info about your personality and communication skills. Are you soft and feminine, or more dominant and assertive? Are you more outoing, or more on the shy side? Also, what kinds of things were you thinking of using pheros for? Work? Romance? Family? Friends? What kinds of effects would you like to see? ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2010, 6:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/4 "2010-04-09T18:19:17Z")
There are a lot of products offered here and some more advanced [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) that you can work yourself into. You really need to start with the commercial line of products to get a handle on what they can do for and to you. Instant Shine (2x) will give you a youthful fun vibe (kinda like your happy place), Instant Openness (2x) will get you and those around you talking, and Instant Sexiness A or B will give you a sexy vibe. Welcome to the forum great to have you in the community. ---
**Author:** ![TinaM0205](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/7bcc69/32.png) [@TinaM0205](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TinaM0205)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2010, 6:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/5 "2010-04-09T18:28:45Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > Hi Tina, welcome to the forum! > > In order to recommend the best products for your needs, and also get you qualified for the $25 gift certificate, please share some info about your personality and communication skills. Are you soft and feminine, or more dominant and assertive? Are you more outoing, or more on the shy side? > > Also, what kinds of things were you thinking of using pheros for? Work? Romance? Family? Friends? What kinds of effects would you like to see? Ahh…personality. Although it sounds contradictory, I am very outgoing with customers and with people I want to spend time with but am pretty stubborn about not giving energy to those who do not interest me. For instance, I find the ‘Facebook’ crowd who collects ‘friends’ to be a lot of shallow people, with very few REAL friends and very little interest in spending quality time and communication with quality friends. It’s a narcissistic thing and I find it insipid to make quick little 3 line posts to inform the world of what is in one’s head - as if anyone cares. Does that sound mean? 😮 SO I don’t really participate in that world. I give my quality attention to those who mean the most to me and don’t waste energy on drivel. In business, I’m rather assertive if necessary, but am a ‘soft sales’ type of person. I’ve been told I can verbally assault someone, insult them and they come away with a smile, saying ‘thank you’. Goofy, huh? In my personal relationship, while I’m very much the sub, I’m very much a ‘girly girl’ and on the very-feminine side. I certainly make my preferences known in my own way. My husband and I like to try many things, we often think way outside the box and are very experimental sexually, and especially something that makes the other crazy with excitement. So, we are looking at [pheromones](https://a314.com/) now. I really don’t have a desire to use for work since I deal with most customers on the phone or via email. I might, however, want to try them when we do a trade show later in the year, to see how it goes. (And if I do that, what would be recommended?) ---
**Author:** ![mackie72](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mackie72/32/623_2.png) [@mackie72](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mackie72)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2010, 6:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/6 "2010-04-09T18:53:02Z")
Hi Tina and welcome to the forum. If you are wanting to use pheromones for a trade show which I am guessing will involve some kind of selling I would recommend IH. This pheromone helps you to make a connection with people at a deeper level, creating intimacy and deeper bonds. You will be perceived as trustworthy and sincere which will help in selling products. Whilst spending time with your husband I would recommend Instant Sexiness B which is an [attraction pheromone](https://a314.com/product-category/sensual-pheromones/) but with a definite feminine vibe rather then a dominant vibe given by instant sexiness. I hope this helps Mackie ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [April 9, 2010, 7:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/7 "2010-04-09T19:01:38Z")
> [@TinaM0205](#): > > Ahh…personality. Although it sounds contradictory, I am very outgoing with customers and with people I want to spend time with but am pretty stubborn about not giving energy to those who do not interest me. For instance, I find the ‘Facebook’ crowd who collects ‘friends’ to be a lot of shallow people, with very few REAL friends and very little interest in spending quality time and communication with quality friends. It’s a narcissistic thing and I find it insipid to make quick little 3 line posts to inform the world of what is in one’s head - as if anyone cares. Does that sound mean? 😮 SO I don’t really participate in that world. > > I give my quality attention to those who mean the most to me and don’t waste energy on drivel. In business, I’m rather assertive if necessary, but am a ‘soft sales’ type of person. I’ve been told I can verbally assault someone, insult them and they come away with a smile, saying ‘thank you’. Goofy, huh? > > In my personal relationship, while I’m very much the sub, I’m very much a ‘girly girl’ and on the very-feminine side. I certainly make my preferences known in my own way. My husband and I like to try many things, we often think way outside the box and are very experimental sexually, and especially something that makes the other crazy with excitement. So, we are looking at pheromones now. > > I really don’t have a desire to use for work since I deal with most customers on the phone or via email. I might, however, want to try them when we do a trade show later in the year, to see how it goes. (And if I do that, what would be recommended?) Thanks for the info! For use with your husband, definitely check out Instant Sexiness/B (when they get it back in stock), it will give your soft femininity a sexy kittenish twist. If you are looking for products for your husband to use, please share some of the same info about his personality and needs. For your trade show, there are several options. MX300 is the womens version of A314 (mens fabulous trust and respect mix). To increase friendliness and approachability, use [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). To increase trust and create/strengthen emotional bonds, use Instant Honesty. You may also want to try Instant Shine, which is a positive uplifting phero mix that will boost your mood and the moods of those around you. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 12, 2010, 10:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new-and-looking-forward-to-learning-more/37627/8 "2010-04-12T22:08:18Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.