# I'm new **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 18, 2008, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114 "2008-03-18T00:30:17Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![trtreffi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f4b2a3/32.png) [@trtreffi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/trtreffi)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2008, 12:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/1 "2008-03-18T00:30:17Z")
Hello all. I am a 21 year old male from New Orleans, Louisiana. Here to gain some wisdom on the world of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), and to see if they are right for me. I look forward to any advice y’all are willing to give. ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2008, 12:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/2 "2008-03-18T00:43:49Z")
Hey T and welcome to the forum. Check out the mens forum to get some great advice and information on other users experiences with the products. Especially check out the stickies as they will give you the great wisdom you need to figure out what pheros can do and how to use them. Before reccomendations and more specific info can be given, why dont you give us some insight as to who you are? How you interact with people? and what you are looking for pheromones to do for you? Cant wait to hear more from you! Welcome once again! CC 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2008, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/3 "2008-03-18T00:44:20Z")
Welcome Treffi! Happy st patrick btw 🙂 A little more information will really be nice. We then can give u some good advice and u will also get a gift certificate What are u most looking forward to by starting using pheros? Anything else like your personality: shy or outgoing, will also help a lot. Social products like instant shine and instant openness are great for everyone, so here is that initial recommandation ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2008, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/4 "2008-03-18T00:57:07Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Reading the stickies in the mens section would be a great start. Also Reading Tisha’s Sticky - What pheromones will and will do for you in the womens section should be required reading for all. after that - come back and ask questions - we will be happy to answer. ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2008, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/5 "2008-03-18T01:47:11Z")
> [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… Thats the link to Bosshank’s recommended sticky. It is definetly a good one to take a look at 😃 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 18, 2008, 9:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/6 "2008-03-18T09:54:44Z")
Hello Welcome to Pherotalk. 🙂 Suggestions are more accurite when we know a little about you. Are you shy or outgoing ? What effect are you loking for from mones Do you want them for work or socially? If you have any questions or need any help let us know. 😃 **Your GC will be in your email box in the next 24 to 48 hours** 😃 Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![trtreffi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f4b2a3/32.png) [@trtreffi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/trtreffi)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2008, 7:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/7 "2008-03-19T19:31:34Z")
Thanks for all the info given already, I definitely appreciate it. I am looking for pheromones mainly for social situations, though I will be starting a new job as a bartender in the near future so I guess looking into pheromones for that setting would be beneficial as well Overall I tend to be a bit shy, and definitely have a lot of approach anxiety that I am working hard to overcome. However once I get past that I have no problems carrying on a conversation. ---
**Author:** ![trtreffi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f4b2a3/32.png) [@trtreffi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/trtreffi)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2008, 10:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/8 "2008-03-19T22:37:41Z")
Hopefully this doesn’t post twice, it’s not showing up for me so I’m sorry if this is a double. I am mainly looking for [pheromones for social](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) use, although I will be starting a new job as a bartender in the near future so any advice for pheros for that setting would also be appreciated. I tend to kind of straddle the line between shy and social. I have a lot of approach anxiety however, once I get into a conversation with a girl I tend not to have many problems talking. Have a big issue with approach anxiety that I am working hard on overcoming. A little background on my situation. I just got out of a relationship that lasted two years, we were engaged but it just didn’t work out. That ended in October, and recently have just gotten the urge to get back into the whole dating scene. Stumbled across this site and figured that it couldn’t hurt to try and use pheromones to my advantage as far as dating is concerned. There is a girl that I am definitely very interested in at the moment, and she has shown some IOI’s but we have yet to be able to actually get together (somehow luck/fate are not on my side and we’ve had cancellations on both sides). She already seems very comfortable and open around me so that really isn’t the issue. I’m looking for something that will potentially help in the area of attraction. She is a very pale redhead so I was thinking perhaps MX203? I’ve already tried ammo around her and the results have been a bit inconsistent. Also a note I see her every day at least once in class, and tend to visit her at the coffee shop she works in (not sure how important location is). Again I appreciate all of the time y’all have put into giving me advice, and look forward to seeing your thoughts on my situation. ---
**Author:** ![trtreffi](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/f4b2a3/32.png) [@trtreffi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/trtreffi)\ **Post date:** [March 19, 2008, 11:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-new/10114/9 "2008-03-19T23:53:25Z")
On a side note, upon getting paid tomorrow I’m planning on ordering the following pheromones. Please let me know if I should add or subtract anything from this list: A314 Instant Shine (double strength) [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) MX203