# Im so exited **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 6, 2011, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644 "2011-08-06T01:26:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bdarey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/47e85d/32.png) [@bdarey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bdarey)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2011, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/1 "2011-08-06T01:26:20Z")
hi everyone my name is Ben and i stumbled across this website while looking for [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) so I am hoping I have found the right place. I have been looking all over and so far this is the place that looked the best so I hope it is!! I am a 22 year old male college student Living in St. George UT. I have been less confident about myself for a long time now and I am hoping to find something ANYTHING that will help me. I have resorted to books, and a little counceling and it didnt help much. I had a girlfriend for about a year and we broke up. I guess you can say it tore me apart and ever since I havent been the same. I used to be good with the girls but I was out of the game for so long I just lost my touch. I am hoping pheromones will help me with that. I just want to meet girls again and have the same kind of conversations I had with them before. I am also what you would call a pushover. I let people walk over me and I get little respect from most people I meet and know. So if this is going to help me please I need it right away!! any other advice would be much appreciated. Thanks everyone in advance for the help. ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2011, 1:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/2 "2011-08-06T01:37:24Z")
Hi there Ben! You are definitely at the right place šŸ™‚ Thank god A314 just restocked! Well Ben, the thing is at least you are fully aware that you need to be more confident with yourself. Books and self-improvement are important stepping stones. When you do get your GC voucher, you might want to test out a few toGO bottle at minimal costs: 1. Instant Shine - Helps with mood 2. A314 - People respect you more 3. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) - People are more receptive to you 4. Instant Honesty - People are more deep with you A lot of the products enhances your purpose. Itā€™s good to try new things and explore, but the most important thing is your attitude, without it, no amount of books, mones, investments can help because they only serve as tools to your reasons to use them. I see that your reasons are strong, so I know that it will help you in the long run should you pursue it šŸ™‚ All the best! ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2011, 2:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/3 "2011-08-06T02:38:00Z")
**Hi and welcome here at Pherotalk Ben** Oasis gave you a great overview ā€¦ heĀ“s a cool guy .. check his journal ā€¦ a must read ! heĀ“s got it in his sig ā€¦ Ben ā€¦ youĀ“re going to love this place ā€¦ weĀ“re kinda Phero Family here ā€¦ this is a Forum with heart and soul .. ThatĀ“s sad with your girlfriend ā€¦ i know how you feel .. when i was your age ā€¦ it ripped me apart when me and my girlfriend broke up ā€¦ it took me a while but i came back ā€¦ like Phoenix from the Ashes ā€¦stronger and better like before what kinda books did you read ā€¦ in can tell you a few good ones .. about bodylanguage ā€¦and a lot about PUA - stuff Oasis mentioned already the 25$ GC hereĀ“s how to get it [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) you should tell us what made you interested in Pheromones .. where you heard about them ā€¦ where you see your strength and weaknessess in your social skills ā€¦ and in what venues you want to profit from using Pheromones ā€¦ As for the products you should try .. wait a bit until you get some A314 ā€¦ itĀ“s a fantastic product .. but as youĀ“re shy now and do have some confidence issues ā€¦ iĀ“d start if iĀ“d be at your place with some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) ā€¦ IS is mood elevating and it boosts your confidence .. makes you more feel good and others around you as well Ammo will help you to be more noticed and respected by women and by men ā€¦ and it signals ā€¦ hey iĀ“m the sexy guy ā€¦ and it contains strong male pheromones like Androstenone and Androsterone ā€¦ Instant Gentlemen is currently out of stock .. itĀ“s charming and dominant without beeing pushy .. itĀ“s more like a Prince than a King ā€¦ thatĀ“s at first for what to get ā€¦ and hereĀ“s some theoretical stuff .. very necessary .. > [@Pheromone F A Qs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517): > > Ok, I was bored and extremely intoxicated while doing this. That being said, Iā€™ve noticed the same questions being asked so I decided to put together a FAQ. I feel these are the top 10 most common questions. To find a question easier instead of scrolling down and finding it, search for it. Windows, use ctrl + f and search for ā€œ1.8ā€ and it will only lead you to 2 places, the top, here and to the bottom, where the question is without having to scroll down. For macs, use command, that funky squiglyā€¦ Heads up Ben ā€¦ youĀ“ll be back **Pago** ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2011, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/4 "2011-08-06T02:52:33Z")
> [@bdarey](#): > > hi everyone my name is Ben and i stumbled across this website while looking for pheromones so I am hoping I have found the right place. I have been looking all over and so far this is the place that looked the best so I hope it is!! > > I am a 22 year old male college student Living in St. George UT. I have been less confident about myself for a long time now and I am hoping to find something ANYTHING that will help me. I have resorted to books, and a little counceling and it didnt help much. I had a girlfriend for about a year and we broke up. I guess you can say it tore me apart and ever since I havent been the same. I used to be good with the girls but I was out of the game for so long I just lost my touch. I am hoping pheromones will help me with that. I just want to meet girls again and have the same kind of conversations I had with them before. I am also what you would call a pushover. I let people walk over me and I get little respect from most people I meet and know. So if this is going to help me please I need it right away!! any other advice would be much appreciated. Thanks everyone in advance for the help. Hi there Ben, You definitely stumbled across the right place.The people here are all friendly and helpful and the service here is great.Can understand the being less confident about yourself,i used to suffer from that a lot.Rather than reading books and councelling,found that looking for stuff/hobbies to do that i was good at and finding close friends who i could trust an supported me helped more with my confidence.That always sucks when you end up breaking up after a long term relationship.Depending on the situation,you will feel that it happened because you werent good enough or there was something you could have done better.Not the best help for self confidence(\>\_\<)Now to the pheromones,pheromones will help but only about 20% of the meeting the girl.You still have to do the 80%.They will set the mood and the vibe but you still have to do the talking and act out the vibe.This link is quite good about the effects and what they can do. [What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) The being a pushover,pheromones wont really help with.I used to be one but eventually you just have to find when to say no to things.Easier said than done though.Havenā€™t managed to do that with my girlfriend yet.Still let her walk all over me a lot of the time(\>\_\>)You could definitely get more respect using a314 or instant gentleman .Instant gentleman is a more relaxed version of a314 in its vibe.Its out of stock at the moment thoughThey both give an image of an alpha male that should be respected.Ammo may help you with appearing more sexy and paired with instant shine will make you more confident too.Instant openness will help get conversations going and instant honesty will make them feel deeper.So pheromones definitely could help you with your problems but you also have to make the effort to change as well.You should definitely get some to-goā€™s to test out when you get your 25$ gift certificate and all the best and hope things go well for you. [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/updated-androticsdirect-pheromones-for-newbies/39802) [The Snookā€™s big book oā€™ pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) ---
**Author:** ![bdarey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/47e85d/32.png) [@bdarey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bdarey)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2011, 4:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/5 "2011-08-06T04:09:10Z")
Thanks everyone. This is just what i needed. I went to other sites and all there was there was a bunch of sayings like ā€œGet the woman fastā€ and ā€œthis wil change your lifeā€ it was a pretty big joke to me because no where on those sites was a forum like this with real people here to help me and give advice. It helps me alot just to talk about it and just tell everyone whats going on. I do hope these pheromones will help and I do understand that it is going to be mostly me still but anything that can help right now is going to be a major improvement for me. I have been reading The 7 habits of highly effective people and this other short book called how to be completly miserable(the title isnt how the book really is haha) they have helped me so far. I just need to get down to my real problems and just realize I can move on and I can be better then what I am right now. Those are great suggestions and the links posted help alot. I have no clue where to start, but the good thing is I think I can find out really fast by reading through the threads on here. I dont want to be the new person that asks questions that have already been answered lol. I just want to make sure I am going in the right direction with this. I dont want to be blinded by what these things are going to do for me. Ultimately I know I will be alright because I am not the person to give up. I have to say though, I am really exited to get started on the Pheromones and see what they can do for me. I have never been the person to give in and seek help and search for other options besides being myself, but right now I can admit I do need some help and I do believe pheromones are going to help. Everyone here seems really great and I am so happy to have found a place like this online to get me through the tough times. ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [August 8, 2011, 5:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/6 "2011-08-08T05:03:44Z")
> [@bdarey](#): > > Thanks everyone. This is just what i needed. I went to other sites and all there was there was a bunch of sayings like ā€œGet the woman fastā€ and ā€œthis wil change your lifeā€ it was a pretty big joke to me because no where on those sites was a forum like this with real people here to help me and give advice. It helps me alot just to talk about it and just tell everyone whats going on. I do hope these pheromones will help and I do understand that it is going to be mostly me still but anything that can help right now is going to be a major improvement for me. I have been reading The 7 habits of highly effective people and this other short book called how to be completly miserable(the title isnt how the book really is haha) they have helped me so far. I just need to get down to my real problems and just realize I can move on and I can be better then what I am right now. > > Those are great suggestions and the links posted help alot. I have no clue where to start, but the good thing is I think I can find out really fast by reading through the threads on here. I dont want to be the new person that asks questions that have already been answered lol. I just want to make sure I am going in the right direction with this. I dont want to be blinded by what these things are going to do for me. Ultimately I know I will be alright because I am not the person to give up. I have to say though, I am really exited to get started on the Pheromones and see what they can do for me. I have never been the person to give in and seek help and search for other options besides being myself, but right now I can admit I do need some help and I do believe pheromones are going to help. Everyone here seems really great and I am so happy to have found a place like this online to get me through the tough times. Haha,yeah.When the claims are too good to be true,you just know that they are a scam.haha,even without the pheromones,people here are awesome and helpful.Definitely good to just talk through your problems with people.If you already are trying to change yourself,im sure they will help you along.wanting to change is always the first step(^\_^) Haha,yup.Theres a lot of good information already on the board.Wouldnt worry about asking questions though,even if they are already answered.It helps to learn,no one will get annoyed at you.Wouldnt worry too much since youll still be you with the pheromones,just with a slight advantage.All the best and im sure you will have a good time here. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 10, 2011, 12:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/7 "2011-08-10T00:39:36Z")
Welcome to pherotalk bdarey! For someone who is that pushover and have been out of the game a while A314 is not for you as yet as you are still in your shell and donā€™t have the confidence to work it. You can build up to it by wearing ammo for a confidence boast and to give of that strong, masculine vibe, gentleman for respect and to make you seem like that cool guy. I always suggest a social because everyone wants to communicate better and so openness to help ease you into conversations. tuth to balance of that pushover, too nice guy vibe you got going on. **Your gc was issued! šŸ˜‰**