# Im so exited **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 6, 2011, 1:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644 "2011-08-06T01:26:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 4

**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [August 6, 2011, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644/4 "2011-08-06T02:52:33Z")

> [@bdarey](#): > > hi everyone my name is Ben and i stumbled across this website while looking for pheromones so I am hoping I have found the right place. I have been looking all over and so far this is the place that looked the best so I hope it is!! > > I am a 22 year old male college student Living in St. George UT. I have been less confident about myself for a long time now and I am hoping to find something ANYTHING that will help me. I have resorted to books, and a little counceling and it didnt help much. I had a girlfriend for about a year and we broke up. I guess you can say it tore me apart and ever since I havent been the same. I used to be good with the girls but I was out of the game for so long I just lost my touch. I am hoping pheromones will help me with that. I just want to meet girls again and have the same kind of conversations I had with them before. I am also what you would call a pushover. I let people walk over me and I get little respect from most people I meet and know. So if this is going to help me please I need it right away!! any other advice would be much appreciated. Thanks everyone in advance for the help. Hi there Ben, You definitely stumbled across the right place.The people here are all friendly and helpful and the service here is great.Can understand the being less confident about yourself,i used to suffer from that a lot.Rather than reading books and councelling,found that looking for stuff/hobbies to do that i was good at and finding close friends who i could trust an supported me helped more with my confidence.That always sucks when you end up breaking up after a long term relationship.Depending on the situation,you will feel that it happened because you werent good enough or there was something you could have done better.Not the best help for self confidence(\>\_\<)Now to the pheromones,pheromones will help but only about 20% of the meeting the girl.You still have to do the 80%.They will set the mood and the vibe but you still have to do the talking and act out the vibe.This link is quite good about the effects and what they can do. [What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558) The being a pushover,pheromones wont really help with.I used to be one but eventually you just have to find when to say no to things.Easier said than done though.Haven’t managed to do that with my girlfriend yet.Still let her walk all over me a lot of the time(\>\_\>)You could definitely get more respect using a314 or instant gentleman .Instant gentleman is a more relaxed version of a314 in its vibe.Its out of stock at the moment thoughThey both give an image of an alpha male that should be respected.Ammo may help you with appearing more sexy and paired with instant shine will make you more confident too.Instant openness will help get conversations going and instant honesty will make them feel deeper.So pheromones definitely could help you with your problems but you also have to make the effort to change as well.You should definitely get some to-go’s to test out when you get your 25$ gift certificate and all the best and hope things go well for you. [An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) [Updated AndroticsDirect Pheromones for newbies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/updated-androticsdirect-pheromones-for-newbies/39802) [The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/the-snooks-big-book-o-pheros-for-rookies/5879) [Pheromone FAQs](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/pheromone-f-a-qs/11517) --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-so-exited/51644)._