# I'm sort of new to this, and thinking of social mones to try.. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 26, 2009, 12:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481 "2009-02-26T00:56:42Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Freeze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Freeze](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Freeze)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 12:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/1 "2009-02-26T00:56:42Z")
Hi there, I wont get lengthy, but Im somewhat new to this..only have used NPA in the past and it didn’t help my “lone wolf unapproachable” image much. In general its very aggressive women who are interested in me. The type that enjoy chasing men as opposed to being persued. Basically I’d like to attract more laid back women with sweet dispositions that dont “go on the hunt” so to speak. I could use a bit of help attracting these sweet types..Im thinking something that may help “nice” girls feel like getting to know me better.. I’m in my 40s..tall and in decent shape. Im not sure to go for something like Ammunition which appears to be aboytr “balanced attraction” or strictly go more the social things..any suggestion? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![hyper8](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/hyper8/32/1965_2.png) [@hyper8](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/hyper8)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 2:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/2 "2009-02-26T02:12:40Z")
Hey welcome! You can’t go wrong with Instant Oppeness,honesty or shine. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as well is a very balanced mix and has a great follwing too. Androtiics has a so much to choose from so I would say start with those basics for a bit until you find what works best for you. I rotate what i use quite frequently so things don’t get so routine. Hope this helps…😃 ---
**Author:** ![Freeze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Freeze](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Freeze)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 3:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/3 "2009-02-26T03:07:33Z")
Thanks.. I appreciate your suggestions! ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 1:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/4 "2009-02-26T13:27:03Z")
> [@Freeze](#): > > Hi there, I wont get lengthy, but Im somewhat new to this..only have used NPA in the past and it didn’t help my “lone wolf unapproachable” image much. In general its very aggressive women who are interested in me. The type that enjoy chasing men as opposed to being persued. Basically I’d like to attract more laid back women with sweet dispositions that dont “go on the hunt” so to speak. I could use a bit of help attracting these sweet types..Im thinking something that may help “nice” girls feel like getting to know me better.. > I’m in my 40s..tall and in decent shape. Im not sure to go for something like Ammunition which appears to be aboytr “balanced attraction” or strictly go more the social things..any suggestion? > Thanks! Freeze, several of us in our 40’s use [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and find it is a really good, laid back, cool vibe that still manages to convey masculine warmth. My experience is that it can be very good around around just the type of woman you mention. Additionally it seems to blur ages a bit, young guys seem a little older older guys seem a little younger. One other thing, I see these are your first posts. You should introduce yourself in the Introductions Section of the board. Something nice will happen when you do!!! ---
**Author:** ![Freeze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Freeze](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Freeze)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 7:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/5 "2009-02-26T19:41:39Z")
> [@renny](#): > > Freeze, several of us in our 40’s use Instant Gentleman and find it is a really good, laid back, cool vibe that still manages to convey masculine warmth. My experience is that it can be very good around around just the type of woman you mention. Additionally it seems to blur ages a bit, young guys seem a little older older guys seem a little younger. > > One other thing, I see these are your first posts. You should introduce yourself in the Introductions Section of the board. Something nice will happen when you do!!! Thanks for the advice…[Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) sounds interesting as well. I’ll add this to my list of things to try out. For starters Ill probably try just one at a time to get a feel for them. Your probably right about introducing myself..talking about myself is not an easy thing for me to do, in fact this post is the most Ive probably ever said myself..lol ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [February 26, 2009, 7:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/6 "2009-02-26T19:44:27Z")
The something nice is a fat little gift certificate! Say something!!! ---
**Author:** ![Freeze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Freeze](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Freeze)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 12:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/7 "2009-02-27T12:15:17Z")
> [@renny](#): > > The something nice is a fat little gift certificate! Say something!!! ohh..thats nice incentive!! ---
**Author:** ![diamond](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/diamond/32/859_2.png) [@diamond](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/diamond)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 12:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/8 "2009-02-27T12:24:04Z")
Here you go Freeze, have a look at this thread [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) then post your answers in the introductions thread, that way you get to try a couple of the products for free. No, not those single application trial samples but a spray bottle holding about 40 shots of the products, enough for a week or two of testing. Not used NPA myself but hear good things about it from some of the guys on here. Looking forward to hearing a little more about you. ---
**Author:** ![Freeze](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/e9c0ed/32.png) [@Freeze](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Freeze)\ **Post date:** [February 27, 2009, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/im-sort-of-new-to-this-and-thinking-of-social-mones-to-try/26481/9 "2009-02-27T13:55:53Z")
Thx diamond for the detailed response. 🙂