# In search for the one, by the Juan **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 22, 2008, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059 "2008-07-22T20:57:25Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jpt73](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jpt73](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpt73)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2008, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/1 "2008-07-22T20:57:25Z")
Ok, so I 've read a lot of other peoples experiences and I decided I will do the same. I might not be as thorough and you might find some spelling or grammar mistakes since I am from South America and English is my second language. I found myself very lonely in a city in the Midwest, no family and recently (3 months ago) broke up with a girlfriend after 4 years and I looked around with absolutely now hope. So I tried to find hope. Did it come in form of a bottle? No. I think it has been showing in different ways. Positive thinking always brings good stuff, and right now even though many things aren’t going as planned I can say I am doing well. Happiness is close, I know it. Anyway, I read an article about Pheromones and somehow I ended up in this forum and in the Androtics site. I researched and looked around and until now I haven’t found many places talking negatively about Pheromones. People seem to, either really feel it works, or at least the idea of the hope makes them feel better and in the end, it still works, because you change your attitude. Still I am a huge skeptic, and i decided to get some bottles to try. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Shine, and the present Androtics gave me, Ammo. I went to a cabin last weekend and just for testing purposes I decided to wear Instant Shine and Openness in different occasions. I wanted to see if anyone had any different effect than usual and I didn’t see it. But then again, these are my close friends and some of their wives, so they were nice and talkative with me as usual. I was really wanting to test it though so last Sunday when my friend (and someone I had sex with in the past) asked me if she could come to my place. She now has a boyfriend, and she had been in my place before without even talking about sex or flirting at all. But i needed to try this thing. I don’t know if it worked or not, and if her reactions were even a result of the Pheromones but there was heat that day. I sprayed Instant Openness and Ammo. After a while she was telling me a lot of stuff you normally wouldn’t tell people, and at one point she said “You are driving me insane today”, or something like that. So the skeptic in me was thinking, “she got into a fight with the boyfriend and just wanted to get out and find some comfort with me”. And the dreamer in me was saying these pheromones rock. The truth I don’t know right now, I am leaning to the first, she has always been a little bit flirtatious, and maybe I was being that day too since I felt more confident or whatever. Nothing happened in the end, but it was very good for my self esteem at least. It is fun to speculate though and I am going to try it tonight for the second time with another friend (which I also had sex with) but I won’t make a pass on her unless she shows me real interest. Going to the movies to watch Batman, hopefully we’ll get tickets. Right now, I am looking for a long time, stable, passionate romantic relationship. I want to feel those butterflies again so sex is not my priority, in fact, the complete opposite, I had sex once since I broke up with my ex and felt terrible. I just wanted her out of my bed and house. So now I just want to find the one. Lets see how my research and my search for the one goes. I will keep posting as something interesting happens. Hopefully tomorrow I can post something. Later, Juan ---
**Author:** ![M\_M](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/9fc29f/32.png) [@M\_M](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/M_M)\ **Post date:** [July 23, 2008, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/2 "2008-07-23T01:28:09Z")
Nice report! I’d say t’was AMMO and good memories. AMMO will push good and nawty thoughts. Keep at it! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![K24](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k24/32/1513_2.png) [@K24](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K24)\ **Post date:** [July 23, 2008, 2:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/3 "2008-07-23T02:10:02Z")
very insightful 🙂 looks like you got all the goods, ammo, Ishine, IO 😛 maybe you should give IH a try next since your goal is to build steady long term relationship. ---
**Author:** ![jpt73](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jpt73](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpt73)\ **Post date:** [July 23, 2008, 1:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/4 "2008-07-23T13:25:28Z")
So I had high expectations about watching Batman last night and my date fell asleep at her home so we couldn’t go. Great! She did mention she could make it up to me and that I should go to her place have drinks and who knows what else. I said no, hate being stood up. Instead I called another friend of mine because I really needed to talk with someone. So, just in case, some [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) again, Instant Shine again and Ammo again. Remember, I am trying to find common reactions in people when I wear this so any “out” time is a good time. We decided to go to a bar not close to my place and have 2 beers. There was an amazing bar tender there with the sexiest shirt I have ever seen, and she recognized me because she also used to be a hairdresser and she cut my hair. Good memory, we spoke for a while and later in the night she bought me a shot. What was I doing taking shots on a Tuesday!! Loneliness I guess. Other than the bar tender recognizing me and buying me a drink I can say nothing out of the normal happened. I did notice something, see, yesterday had been a very bad day for me, I mean BAD. Got unexpected bills from insurance and really bad news from ex girlfriend. Apparently, not proven yet, she had been unfaithful to me while we were together. That brought me down immediately and i don’t think all the Instant anything or Ammo in the world could have made me look good yesterday. So a good conversation and a semi flirty situation was good enough for me. Tonight soccer with the guys so no girls around. Tomorrow though I have soccer with my co-ed team, and there is a girl a REALLY like and is a good prospect at least to try and go out. She is very cool, good soccer player, good job and has the most beautiful blue eyes. Carrie, thats her name. We’ll see if all the sweat mixed with some of Phero will work. Problem is I don’t know if she has a boyfriend or no. Hope not, but I will definitely make a move. Last time I made a comment about how I was going to the Cabin by myself because I am the only single in my group, and I saw her paying close attention. I hope I am not dreaming but I think she could be interested. Friday a friend is coming to town. I am taking him out with the guys and I am sure I will run into my ex because we always hang out at the same places. I am shaking just of thinking that. Wish I had some A314 that day so I would inspire some confidence and respect. I don’t want her to look down at me at all. She is pretty as hell and normally is surrounded by guys, hope that day it’s the opposite and I am the one surrounded by people. So, nothing yesterday, for sure nothing today, but two interesting days coming Thursday and Friday. Keep tunned. Juan PS: Thanks for your replies, K24 I am planning on getting Instant Honesty I’ve heard good things about it for long term, but I won’t until I lose some of this skepticism. ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [July 23, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/5 "2008-07-23T19:07:11Z")
> [@jpt73](#): > > …She is pretty as hell and normally is surrounded by guys, … Just remember you’ve already “been there and done that”, so you are one up on those guys.😃 ---
**Author:** ![jpt73](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jpt73](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpt73)\ **Post date:** [July 24, 2008, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/6 "2008-07-24T13:58:50Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > Just remember you’ve already “been there and done that”, so you are one up on those guys.😃 Mtnjim, you made my day, you are so right, thanks for the comment. ---
**Author:** ![jpt73](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jpt73](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpt73)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 3:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/7 "2008-07-25T15:47:56Z")
So, yesterday was my soccer game. After the game the girl I spoke about before " Carrie" and her other cute friend Andy decided to stay after the game and have beers, and it was their call too. They NEVER do that. I had talked to my friend about my interest and he looked at me immediately in a “what the…” way. I was surprised too. Off course I blamed it all on the Ammo and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) I applied before the game, mixed with all the sweat and the 2 goals I scored, hehe. Anyway, we went with a couple of people to have beers and they sat right across from me. We talked for a while, and then everybody started to leave. After a couple of hours it was just the 3 of us. My hopes were high, until I heard the “WE” word from both of them in a couple of comments. So yeah, she said we are planning to build a patio, and so I asked who’s we. So both of them have boyfriends. Bummer. Still I did find it unusual for them to stay so long just with me. I had to call it a night because they were just chatting and chatting I wanted to leave at that point. So did Pheros work or not?? Who knows, maybe just a coincidence. It was a fun experience though. Tonight is the night. Going out bar hopping with my friends. One of my best friends from childhood is visiting from back home and I want to entertain. We might go to my ex’s favorite bar at some point because it is a cool place so I might see her there. Hope not but if I do, I hope it goes well. I can’t afford to get down anymore, it is affecting my life and work. I need to by in a high note and not let her influence my happiness. And if by some crazy thing I meet a great girl tonight, well that will really make my day. I might not post until Monday with the weekend results, but I hope that I find good use of my ammo and instant shine and openness this weekend. Wish me luck. Juan ---
**Author:** ![data4](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/data4/32/272_2.png) [@data4](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/data4)\ **Post date:** [July 25, 2008, 6:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/8 "2008-07-25T18:24:18Z")
Hi, Juan. Welcome to the forums! Your English is excellent, so don’t worry about that. 🙂 These are some good reports, and I like your attitude about everything. Sorry to read about the troubles you’re going through, but I’m becoming a believer that a positive outlook helps things come out better in the end. Looking forward to reading about your progression in this wacky, crazy, sometimes scary, but never dull world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/)! 😃 -D4 ---
**Author:** ![jpt73](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/f0a364/32.png) [@jpt73](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpt73)\ **Post date:** [August 4, 2008, 2:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/in-search-for-the-one-by-the-juan/16059/9 "2008-08-04T14:43:15Z")
The past couple of weekends have been very busy. So much I haven’t been able to post anything. But I can tell you that I am raising some hope for the Pheromones. I really don’t know if its the power of them or what, but I have definitely not lacked attention and success. I have got a lot more awareness about what is going on around me when I wear it. Weather it is a mental thing or if it’s real will probably be answered in later posts. One thing I noticed is that a lot of females have complimented me on my good smell. I normally wear really good colognes but I have never been asked or told so many times that I smell good. I do think Ammo smells good, but not great, so I can just think that it is something more than just the smell. In the past weeks I have met with different girls, trying to know more about them in the search for that one, but there has been a lot of sexual tension. Last night was the most amazing one. She is 3 years older than I am, 37, and very well kept. beautiful features and nice body, never married and very conservative. I invited her to my place for wine and chat. She was very worried about me not respecting her, so I assured her I wouldn’t even make a pass at her, just talk. And so I did, but I did spray a couple of times Ammo. By the end of the night, around 11 I was asking her politely to leave because I had an important meeting today, but she wouldn’t take no for an answer. We made out and then she couldn’t stop kissing my neck. Well needles to say we ended in the bedroom and she left this morning after breakfast. So was that what she wanted originally or was it my attitude plus pheromones. Don’t know but it is very cool to think that Ammo works some magic, it kind of gives it another perspective to the whole thing. Unfortunately, she is not the one yet. But, at least I am recovering that confidence my ex took with her when she left.