# Instant Gentleman - first experience. Odd! **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 22, 2009, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695 "2009-09-22T21:49:43Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![stevios](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@stevios](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stevios)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2009, 9:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695/1 "2009-09-22T21:49:43Z")
I received my first order yesterday (great free gift, thanks!) and opted to try out [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) first. So I got to work, one spray of IG to each side of the neck (2 in total), To Go size bottle at 8am. Self effects: none I was aware of The effects on others though, I thought coincidence at first but too many I think(?) to be total chance. Would appreciate hearing what others think. Without going into details of my day (too boring!): Female colleague who sits next to me was totally focussed, ignoring me beyond being polite when she had to be. She arrived around 9.30 so the scent had settled by then, I’m sure. I’ve never known her so focussed on her work. I didn’t attribute this to the IG though as there are a number of reasons it could have been down to and I’m not narcissistic enough to assume it’s down to me! At lunch two shop assistants were very helpful and attentive - impossible to say if they are always this way or not but I felt they were perhaps going further than they had to to help. e.g. asking where something was and the lady giving directions then changing her mind and taking me there in the shop. Again, no means of proving this was down to the IG however. Evening, no further application, from 6pm to 8pm: my partner was more chatty and happy than she has been for a long time. Again, no definite means of proving this was down to the IG. Then I went to a bar at 8pm, again, no further application, where a good friend who has been keen to meet for a long time went from very friendly to very serious / avoiding eye contact / difficult to keep rapport in the space of a minute - it was that quick - literally a near Jekyll and Hyde transformation, and the barmaid, who I also know fairly well was friendly enough to us but someone else (which is key to this experience really as it made it beyond my own subjective observation) commented she was “very serious, why is that?” - their exact words. So to summarise: IG seemed to make - those I know fairly well as friends distant and serious (too many to be chance? what could cause this?) - my partner very happy - people I don’t know at all helpful. Does anyone else have this experience of IG making people more serious and intense? Bear in mind I am new to all this 🙂 Does IG benefit from being buffered with a social? Did I OD on it at 2 sprays of “To Go”? I like the possible effects for my partner / people I don’t know but not at the expense of other relationships. Tomorrow I’m going to try Instant Openness on it’s own applied to the wrist to see what happens, and will report back, then I’ll try combining IG and IO in a couple of days. And what does this mean for my use of A314 when I get round to that - absolutely minimal so I don’t alienate people further as if IG is having this effect I think from my reading A314 could be worse, or is it totally different? Or is this entirely my imagination, heightened by expecting results, and nothing like the above could possibly happen with IG? 😕 thanks! lots of questions, sorry! ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2009, 10:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695/2 "2009-09-22T22:18:17Z")
> [@stevios](#): > > I received my first order yesterday (great free gift, thanks!) and opted to try out Instant Gentleman first. > > So I got to work, one spray of IG to each side of the neck (2 in total), To Go size bottle at 8am. > > Self effects: none I was aware of > > The effects on others though, I thought coincidence at first but too many I think(?) to be total chance. Would appreciate hearing what others think. > > Without going into details of my day (too boring!): > > Female colleague who sits next to me was totally focussed, ignoring me beyond being polite when she had to be. She arrived around 9.30 so the scent had settled by then, I’m sure. I’ve never known her so focussed on her work. I didn’t attribute this to the IG though as there are a number of reasons it could have been down to and I’m not narcissistic enough to assume it’s down to me! > > At lunch two shop assistants were very helpful and attentive - impossible to say if they are always this way or not but I felt they were perhaps going further than they had to to help. e.g. asking where something was and the lady giving directions then changing her mind and taking me there in the shop. Again, no means of proving this was down to the IG however. > > Evening, no further application, from 6pm to 8pm: my partner was more chatty and happy than she has been for a long time. Again, no definite means of proving this was down to the IG. > > Then I went to a bar at 8pm, again, no further application, where a good friend who has been keen to meet for a long time went from very friendly to very serious / avoiding eye contact / difficult to keep rapport in the space of a minute - it was that quick - literally a near Jekyll and Hyde transformation, and the barmaid, who I also know fairly well was friendly enough to us but someone else (which is key to this experience really as it made it beyond my own subjective observation) commented she was “very serious, why is that?” - their exact words. > > So to summarise: IG seemed to make > > - those I know fairly well as friends distant and serious (too many to be chance? what could cause this?) > > - my partner very happy > > - people I don’t know at all helpful. > > Does anyone else have this experience of IG making people more serious and intense? Bear in mind I am new to all this 🙂 > > Does IG benefit from being buffered with a social? Did I OD on it at 2 sprays of “To Go”? I like the possible effects for my partner / people I don’t know but not at the expense of other relationships. Tomorrow I’m going to try Instant Openness on it’s own applied to the wrist to see what happens, and will report back, then I’ll try combining IG and IO in a couple of days. > > And what does this mean for my use of A314 when I get round to that - absolutely minimal so I don’t alienate people further as if IG is having this effect I think from my reading A314 could be worse, or is it totally different? > > Or is this entirely my imagination, heightened by expecting results, and nothing like the above could possibly happen with IG? 😕 > > thanks! lots of questions, sorry! IG does affect people who know you in that it makes you seem more important, more of a VIP and your coworker might have felt a bit intimidated by that. Sometimes it takes the people around us a bit longer to adjust to our new phero signature. It sounds like it affected your partner the way a lot of people I know are affected by IG (both men and women). They see me as someone who’s approval they need or who they feel connected to and want to be around. The VIP affect definitely makes a difference in the service you get. I notice that quite a bit when wearing IG. You may find that wearing it with IO or IS actually helps to make you more approachable. I really like IG. A314 is sort of like IG’s bigger brother. Where A314 comes across as being about status and power, IG is more about being a fun, approachable guy who people want to get to know. Both mix very well with the socials. ---
**Author:** ![BLADE](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/blade/32/2083_2.png) [@BLADE](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BLADE)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2009, 10:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695/3 "2009-09-22T22:33:39Z")
My partner is very much the same with A314 - seems to make her calmer and happier than normal. Which is handy given i wear it a lot 🙂 I think a lot of it is to do with a sense of reassurance that you are a good, respectable, trustworthy mate, at least in my GF’s case given her history. ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2009, 12:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695/4 "2009-09-23T00:11:29Z")
> [@BLADE](#): > > My partner is very much the same with A314 - seems to make her calmer and happier than normal. Which is handy given i wear it a lot 🙂 > > I think a lot of it is to do with a sense of reassurance that you are a good, respectable, trustworthy mate, at least in my GF’s case given her history. The effects you describe are likely from the high androsterone amounts in both products. I find that when I’m wearing IG women see me as dependable, warm and masculine (and that is what attracts them). ---
**Author:** ![Aegis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f17d59/32.png) [@Aegis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aegis)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2009, 5:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695/5 "2009-09-23T17:53:36Z")
Hey guys, I mostly just read around at the forum, but decided to write something about my IG experiences. I think I have all the commercial products except for spaceland, and like you Snoopy I like IG really much (btw totally love your posts, you are an awesome spokesman for IG). It gives off a much better vibe than A314, which I think is too serious. The IG marketing is quite bad compared to A314. I bought the A314 first (quite ok results) but had much better results with the IG ToGo I also ordered. IG + TUTH+IH is great, had an wonderful night with a girl I have known for a while. In school (I’m 18) the gentleman makes me the “cool guy” at about 2 sprays, which A314 fails at. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) didn’t work very well and neither did IO. I can’t see any results from IO. IH on the other hand is great and creates deep raport with almost any one I talk with (might also be my good raport skills the IH intensifies). TUTH works fine also, even at two sprays, so it can’t be –none OD. I’m got jerk too but haven’t tried it yet, might work well with IG? Over all my results have been great with pheros and I might start reporting at some point. Question: If a girl has a boyfriend (and I think they are happy) but still says she dreams about me almost every night what does this mean? Not naughty dreams (or maybe she didn’t tell me about those…lol) but adventure dreams and stuff like that. I myself don’t dream almost at all, which is sad, because I love dreams. Sorry for all grammar mistakes, English is my fourth language. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![K-Train](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/k-train/32/2253_2.png) [@K-Train](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/K-Train)\ **Post date:** [September 23, 2009, 6:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695/6 "2009-09-23T18:19:40Z")
Dreams are usually the results of supressed emotions or thoughts that we haven’t acted out yet. So if she “dreams about you every night” it could be a sign that she likes you and wants to be with you.🙂 Dreams having to do with adventure usually correspond with the desire of freedom which might relate to the fact that she feels “trapped” in her relationship and wants to be “free” and go with you. This is of course speculation because: 1.) I don’t read minds 2.) I’m not there 3.) Women can be difficult to figure out. But judging by what you’re telling me it definitely seems safe to say that she digs you buddy!🆒 A word of caution though, girls with BF’s can be serious business, so unless your THAT into her best to play it chill. Unless you’re superman in which case knock that bum out and take his girl!(sarcasm). Be safe!!!😉 ---
**Author:** ![Snoopyace](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snoopyace/32/1727_2.png) [@Snoopyace](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Snoopyace)\ **Post date:** [September 24, 2009, 12:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-first-experience-odd/32695/7 "2009-09-24T00:35:30Z")
> [@Aegis](#): > > Hey guys, > > I mostly just read around at the forum, but decided to write something about my IG experiences. I think I have all the commercial products except for spaceland, and like you Snoopy I like IG really much (btw totally love your posts, you are an awesome spokesman for IG). It gives off a much better vibe than A314, which I think is too serious. The IG marketing is quite bad compared to A314. I bought the A314 first (quite ok results) but had much better results with the IG ToGo I also ordered. IG + TUTH+IH is great, had an wonderful night with a girl I have known for a while. In school (I’m 18) the gentleman makes me the “cool guy” at about 2 sprays, which A314 fails at. > > Ammo didn’t work very well and neither did IO. I can’t see any results from IO. IH on the other hand is great and creates deep raport with almost any one I talk with (might also be my good raport skills the IH intensifies). TUTH works fine also, even at two sprays, so it can’t be –none OD. I’m got jerk too but haven’t tried it yet, might work well with IG? Over all my results have been great with pheros and I might start reporting at some point. > > Question: If a girl has a boyfriend (and I think they are happy) but still says she dreams about me almost every night what does this mean? Not naughty dreams (or maybe she didn’t tell me about those…lol) but adventure dreams and stuff like that. I myself don’t dream almost at all, which is sad, because I love dreams. > > Sorry for all grammar mistakes, English is my fourth language. 😃 Hehehe, don’t be concerned about your grammer, it is better than those of us who speak it as a first language! Sounds like the girl is really liking you. I agree that it is a difficult situation but if you keep being yourself and wearing the IG she’ll definitely see you as the MAN for her! 🙂