# Instant Gentleman for a 29-year-old with a baby face: has anyone tried it? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 14, 2006, 4:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676 "2006-09-14T04:38:59Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![nfs](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nfs/32/1656_2.png) [@nfs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nfs)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 4:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/1 "2006-09-14T04:38:59Z")
Hey any of you guys tried this one? ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 7:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/2 "2006-09-14T07:32:18Z")
Who the hell wants to be a gentleman? We all wanna be cavemen and lust beasts! lol ---
**Author:** ![nfs](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nfs/32/1656_2.png) [@nfs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nfs)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 7:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/3 "2006-09-14T07:50:37Z")
I’ve got a real baby face remember? And i’m 29, that’s a big disadvantage for me when i’m going for girls my age , coz i appear younger than i actually am. Not a good thing for a guy. 🙂 NFS ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 8:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/4 "2006-09-14T08:02:05Z")
I look younger than I am, too. I do just fine. I think you are worried about it too much. But, if you get some instant gentleman, please do share your experiences with it. ---
**Author:** ![Lancefist](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/96bed5/32.png) [@Lancefist](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lancefist)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 8:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/5 "2006-09-14T08:59:03Z")
What is exactly your target? You want to let womans know that you are seriös and not a jung jerk. (like me doh 🙂) It is just an idea but maybe the Alpha-man effect in A314 does work for you. As long as i’d understand you correct. And if i remember right… ehm quote right catloard wrote 🙂 > [@catloard17](#): > > …I figure higher value women would probably be more interested if I added more A314… …well just an idea. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![nfs](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nfs/32/1656_2.png) [@nfs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nfs)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/6 "2006-09-14T14:26:55Z")
Thanks guys, I dont really know what I want.. Just want to try new products I guess. As I’ve told Catlord, i’m not noticing the effects of A314 much these days. Just wanted to try something new . Curiousity about I/G i guess… ---
**Author:** ![Mtnjim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mtnjim/32/2010_2.png) [@Mtnjim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mtnjim)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 5:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/7 "2006-09-14T17:31:26Z")
> [@nfs](#): > > I’ve got a real baby face remember? And i’m 29,… You’re going to really appreciate this in about 20 years!🆒 ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 7:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/8 "2006-09-14T19:12:39Z")
> [@nfs](#): > > Thanks guys, > > I dont really know what I want.. Just want to try new products I guess. As I’ve told Catlord, i’m not noticing the effects of A314 much these days. Just wanted to try something new . Curiousity about I/G i guess… To notice the effects of something, you cannot use it on a constant basis. Harris has expounded on this one. ---
**Author:** ![Scottie2Hottie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scottie2hottie/32/628_2.png) [@Scottie2Hottie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scottie2Hottie)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 9:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/9 "2006-09-14T21:44:00Z")
I believe MHarris mentioned once that IG may be useful for those who come across as intimidating…the dreaded Clint Eastwood Effect. Don’t know if that would be helpful to someone w/ a baby face tho. Perhaps A314 would be more useful…the increased DHV could be just what you need. ---
**Author:** ![nfs](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nfs/32/1656_2.png) [@nfs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nfs)\ **Post date:** [September 14, 2006, 11:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/10 "2006-09-14T23:34:36Z")
> [@Mtnjim](#): > > You’re going to really appreciate this in about 20 years!🆒 Hhahahah! I do realise this and I AM waiting for that day where I’m 40 and still am getting 23 yr olds 🙂 But that’s provided I ain’t married with 20 kids by then 🙂 plus i don’t want to wait another 20 yrs. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2006, 12:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/11 "2006-09-15T00:04:18Z")
And provided you still have a baby face. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Scottie2Hottie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/scottie2hottie/32/628_2.png) [@Scottie2Hottie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Scottie2Hottie)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2006, 1:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/12 "2006-09-15T01:27:17Z")
> [@nfs](#): > > Hhahahah! I do realise this and I AM waiting for that day where I’m **40 and still am getting 23 yr olds** 🙂 But that’s provided I ain’t married with 20 kids by then 🙂 plus i don’t want to wait another 20 yrs. I’m living proof that it can be done, my friend.😃 ---
**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2006, 3:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/13 "2006-09-15T03:18:11Z")
Off the top of my only slightly balding head I’d think something like a314 would be better than IG for someone who may look “too young.” Although a314 in excess could produce too strong a “powerful” effect and be incongruent with your physical appearence which would backfire on you. Just a thought. Like said above, I think IG is aimed at the more intimidating “CEE” type male. May not be right for you. I have yet to try it myself. Never thought of myself as “intimidating” but I have seen some possible “uncertainty” in some smaller stature people who may be put off by my height (5’ 11") and stocky build. ---
**Author:** ![nfs](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nfs/32/1656_2.png) [@nfs](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/nfs)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2006, 9:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/14 "2006-09-15T09:17:55Z")
> [@Scottie2Hottie](#): > > I’m living proof that it can be done, my friend.😃 I’ve got no doubt that I’ll be that way when I’m 40 either. 🙂 It’s in the genes. heheh. NFS ---
**Author:** ![Socrates](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@Socrates](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Socrates)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2007, 5:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/15 "2007-03-03T05:12:02Z")
Has anyone tried this one (Instant Gentleman) at work? How does it compare to regular A314, the A314-female variant MX134, or MX105? I wonder if there less of an intimidating vibe at the cost of less DHV as compared to A314… Visionary ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2007, 7:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/16 "2007-03-03T19:12:13Z")
[Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is one of my favorite products. It has a strong effect on me. I am more polite and considerate. Not from following any social rules or formulae, but just smoothly from being aware of others and their needs. Everyone seems to like it, ladies included. My wife thinks it’s great, but gets a little worried when I wear it around other ladies. Different from A314, but they compliment each other. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2007, 9:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/17 "2007-03-03T21:16:52Z")
> [@hlw3](#): > > Instant Gentleman is one of my favorite products. > > It has a strong effect on me. I am more polite and considerate. Not from following any social rules or formulae, but just smoothly from being aware of others and their needs. > > Everyone seems to like it, ladies included. My wife thinks it’s great, but gets a little worried when I wear it around other ladies. > > Different from A314, but they compliment each other. can you elaborate on how they are different? i am guessing there is 'rone in it, id like to figure out the rest 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2007, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/18 "2007-03-03T21:58:31Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > can you elaborate on how they are different? > > i am guessing there is 'Androsterone in it, id like to figure out the rest 😉 As to the chemical compositions, I have no idea. Subjective effects: a314 - feeling of power, high status individuals want to come bask in the glow and lower their barriers of personal space, lower status individuals might avoid it or increase personal space and/or deferential behavior. I don’t feel a need to be particularly considerate. IG - also a feeling of power, but now expressed as an ability and desire to help others. Status is much less relevant. Consideration of others is the most natural thing in the world. People almost universally seem to appreciate a kind word or gesture. IG + A314 - Benevolent monarch effect. People sense the power but feel that it is directed towards good ends and that they don’t have to worry about it. Often a sense of trust. Nevertheless, they don’t want to mess with something they might not be able to control. ---
**Author:** ![Socrates](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@Socrates](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Socrates)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2007, 2:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/19 "2007-03-04T02:55:24Z")
> [@hlw3](#): > > As to the chemical compositions, I have no idea. > > Subjective effects: > > A314 - feeling of power, high status individuals want to come bask in the glow and lower their barriers of personal space, lower status individuals might avoid it or increase personal space and/or deferential behavior. I don’t feel a need to be particularly considerate. > > Instant Gentleman - also a feeling of power, but now expressed as an ability and desire to help others. Status is much less relevant. Consideration of others is the most natural thing in the world. People almost universally seem to appreciate a kind word or gesture. > > Instant Gentleman + A314 - Benevolent monarch effect. People sense the power but feel that it is directed towards good ends and that they don’t have to worry about it. Often a sense of trust. Nevertheless, they don’t want to mess with something they might not be able to control. Awesome detailed feedback! Have you tried [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) in the **workplace**? I would imagine something like A314 may be better in terms of being seen as more competent and DHV whereas Instant Gentleman would be less ‘distancing’ but do not know as I have never tried IG. Is that the way it is (others please jump in if you have experience with IG)? Do you lose something in the competency dept if you use IG instead of A314? Visionary ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 5, 2007, 1:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676/20 "2007-03-05T01:45:45Z")
> [@Socrates](#): > > Awesome detailed feedback! > > Have you tried Instant Gentleman in the **workplace**? I would imagine something like A314 may be better in terms of being seen as more competent and DHV whereas Instant Gentleman would be less ‘distancing’ but do not know as I have never tried Instant Gentleman. Is that the way it is (others please jump in if you have experience with IG)? Do you lose something in the competency dept if you use IG instead of A314? > > Visionary Your notions seem about right. I have tried IG it in the workplace, in addition to, but not instead of, a314. Mostly I use it to “tone myself down” in a situation where I might be seen as overly hostile or threatening. Before I knew about or used any pheremones I was puzzled by some people’s reactions to me. For instance, I had a relatively high status individual mention he felt threatened when I gave a PowerPoint presentation. That was hard to figure out, especially since I wasn’t consciously hostile, just excited. Maybe I have a natural “instant jerk” output. It’s useful at times but there are times I want to tone it down. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentleman-for-a-29-year-old-with-a-baby-face-has-anyone-tried-it/676.md?page=2)