# Instant Gentleman's cool vibe: calm and self-assured, or just submissive? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 18, 2008, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentlemans-cool-vibe-calm-and-self-assured-or-just-submissive/19814 "2008-09-18T16:08:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 17
**Author:** ![Socrates](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3bc359/32.png) [@Socrates](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Socrates)\ **Post date:** [September 19, 2008, 11:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentlemans-cool-vibe-calm-and-self-assured-or-just-submissive/19814/17 "2008-09-19T11:21:23Z")
> [@dsouza](#): > > It sounds to me like it makes one a wimp. is it like Scent of Eros? > Can you still act like a man or does this make you so submissive and cool and relaxed, that your basically castrated! 🙂 **lol to prevent a ‘wussy’ vibe, I believe this is the way one should behave when wearing an ‘easygoing’ pheromone vibe (the posts below talk about Alpha-Androstenol but I think the same applies for the mostly Androsterone-product, Instant Gentleman). Ideally one should be like this all the time but especially so when wearing products like Scent of Eros or [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) without any added AndrostEnone…** [Sexual hits with nols: does heavy Anol from IO or IH dull TUTH's Anone?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols/138/8) ([Sexual hits with nols: does heavy Anol from IO or IH dull TUTH's Anone?](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/sexual-hits-with-nols/138/8)) MHarris (February 14, 2006): “…Quote: Originally Posted by **Cloud9** _I know I sometimes can come off as too serious or I “need to live’n up a bit”..“get loose”. At the same time I am very well kept and I guess you could call me somewhat of a metrosexual…I certainly don’t wear anything flamboyant though. I wear toned down colors._ Try 40 to 100mcg of alpha Androstenol ([Instant Openness – Ice Breaker Pheromone for Men - Alpha A314](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)) to “loosen up”. **Be funny, but make sure your behavior communicate that you are still in control, and a higher value. Keep your head held high, stand straight, talk loudly and deliberately, etc.** Like a successful, professional comedian, you have to still control the room when you’re exercising humor. (“bad” or inexperienced comedians are notorious for losing control over the crowd and being “walked on” by the audience)…” From LS:- Gegogi (October 26, 2006): “With chemset 'Androstenol and Scent of Eros I’ve only found “the more the merrier” so far. Increasingly higher dosages only make people friendly and more open in my experience. At a certain point some women start to lose it and become motormouths, totally losing control and saying whatever pops in their heads. Quote: but have had 2 incidences where a woman has acted a bit “not respectful”. Are you sure they weren’t pulling the “cocky 'n funny” routine on you? I love to tease women and oft they will tease right back, trying to out do me. And women really know how to cut to the bone as they’re usually better observers of character than men. However it’s all in fun and such little tug-of-wars often end in bed. **My experience with pheromones is they enhance and amp up the real you. If you’re an engaging, confident man, you’re even more engaging and confident in their eyes. I’ve never been treated with disrespect while wearing 'Androstenol.** However, respect is something you earn. It is not something you win instantly by bulling someone or putting them down. They may stop dissing you to your face–out of fear–but in their mind you’ve graduated to an even larger level of dip-shit-ism. I suspect if you’re a wuss at heart, depressed or negative pheromones will not be helpful as they broadcast and amp up your weakness.” --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-gentlemans-cool-vibe-calm-and-self-assured-or-just-submissive/19814)._