# Instant Honesty- advice needed

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [July 4, 2008, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878 "2008-07-04T14:51:11Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 12\
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**Author:** ![queenie-t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/queenie-t/32/1580_2.png) [@queenie-t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/queenie-t)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 2:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/1 "2008-07-04T14:51:11Z")

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This was my free sample with my last order! THank you!

Now.. i haven’t used it yet..

Is it one that I should layer or use alone?

Willl it freak me out?Im kinda scared..  
maybe i dont want to know the truth! lol:o 🙄 😛  
THanks!

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**Author:** ![EmeraldNight](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emeraldnight/32/549_2.png) [@EmeraldNight](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmeraldNight)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 3:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/2 "2008-07-04T15:40:30Z")

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I can understand it being freaky 🙂 I wore a little the other day but it didn’t make me more forthcoming or anything. I didn’t say anything I wouldn’t have normally said. My BF was worried too, he wore some to work and was petrified he would be telling people how he really feels!

I think it just opens people up to you and makes them feel connected. If you’re really worried about the self effects, maybe wear it a little lower and add something like [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) to the areas where you’re more able to smell it.

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**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 5:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/3 "2008-07-04T17:12:20Z")

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> [@queenie-t](#):
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> This was my free sample with my last order! THank you!
> 
> Now.. i haven’t used it yet..
> 
> Is it one that I should layer or use alone?
> 
> Willl it freak me out?Im kinda scared..  
> maybe i dont want to know the truth! lol:o 🙄 😛  
> THanks!

Hey Queenie and happy 4th July

Very nice that you received such a wonderful product and it is a wonderful product. Not much to be afraid of…[Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is great for getting to the heart of matters and it does work exactly as such, so much so that unless you want to spill your guts too then dont use close to the facial area/frontal area so as to breathe in. You wanna spray preferably to the back of the neck…this product is significantly wonderful with instant Openess which is intended to make communication easier by opening up the target(s) or even your self…and yes it can be worn by itself as well.

So don’t be scarrrrred girlie, go get to the heart of some matters…someone has something to say that you are just dying to hear…course you’ll hear some stuff that is just TMI…hahaha

djacquelyn 🙂

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**Author:** ![queenie-t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/queenie-t/32/1580_2.png) [@queenie-t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/queenie-t)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 6:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/4 "2008-07-04T18:27:53Z")

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THanks for the replies Djaquelyn and Emeraldnight.. that makes me feel a bit better.. lol..

here is what i did..  
1 spray between the wrists

lol.. how is that for a wimp? anyways good advice to add some IS as that is fun.. and will make me less worried..🙄 🙄  
:o 😛

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 6:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/5 "2008-07-04T18:59:13Z")

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Instant honesty is great product. I haven’t quite experienced truthfulness or tmi with my husband. We’re already too truthful. But it does make him feel nice and comfy and he is more likely to have conversations with me about things I am interested in and he isn’t and vice versa.

Sisters and friends on the other hand. Varies from occasional blurts to way tmi. Things that have me looking like this 😮 or this :o .

Be sure to test it solo and report queenie-t. It pairs well with anything and everything too.

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**Author:** ![EmeraldNight](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emeraldnight/32/549_2.png) [@EmeraldNight](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmeraldNight)\
**Post date:** [July 4, 2008, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/6 "2008-07-04T19:00:16Z")

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> [@djacquelyn](#):
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> So don’t be scarrrrred girlie, go get to the heart of some matters…someone has something to say that you are just dying to hear…course you’ll hear some stuff that is just TMI…hahaha

> [@queenie-t](#):
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> lol.. how is that for a wimp? anyways good advice to add some IS as that is fun.. and will make me less worried..🙄 🙄  
> :o 😛

Happy July 4th to you too!

Not wimpy Queenie, just careful 🙂 I dont blame you.

Djacquelyn, great idea about spraying to the back of the neck. And you’re soooo right about the TMI. The other day my boyfriend and I went to the movies and the lady infront of us turned around and kept asking if we wanted her popcorn 😮 Over and over “you want my popcorn? I’m done with it.. Take it!” ewww… I’m not eating some weird stranger’s popcorn. Then she went on and talked about how much money we were probably spending on the movie and how she got the tix for free.

Later, of course, my bf is like “oh, btw I’m wearing [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)”. Gee thanks for the heads up, honey.

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**Author:** ![queenie-t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/queenie-t/32/1580_2.png) [@queenie-t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/queenie-t)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 12:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/7 "2008-07-05T00:16:39Z")

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hmm well i dont think i like it much.. but i could see its purpose..

1. it affects me.. and when i added it to IS/A.. well.. DH heard a lot from me.. yikes. i wasn’t letting anything go.. alpha on steroids.😮
2. the only hit i think i had was a lady.. at the clinic today (my son had an appointment).. who leaned over to me and said.. “i just found out im pregnant”  
woah. what? i dont know you!  
“oh wow,.. congratulations” i say of course.. thinking woah. what.. i dont know you! lol lol lol

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**Author:** ![EmeraldNight](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/emeraldnight/32/549_2.png) [@EmeraldNight](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EmeraldNight)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/8 "2008-07-05T02:14:01Z")

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> [@queenie-t](#):
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> 1. the only hit i think i had was a lady.. at the clinic today (my son had an appointment).. who leaned over to me and said.. “i just found out im pregnant”  
> woah. what? i dont know you!  
> “oh wow,.. congratulations” i say of course.. thinking woah. what.. i dont know you! lol lol lol

LOL aww.. yeah that could definately be awkward.

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**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 2:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/9 "2008-07-05T02:44:29Z")

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> [@EmeraldNight](#):
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> Happy July 4th to you too!
> 
> Not wimpy Queenie, just careful 🙂 I dont blame you.
> 
> Djacquelyn, great idea about spraying to the back of the neck. And you’re soooo right about the TMI. The other day my boyfriend and I went to the movies and the lady infront of us turned around and kept asking if we wanted her popcorn 😮 Over and over “you want my popcorn? I’m done with it.. Take it!” ewww… I’m not eating some weird stranger’s popcorn. Then she went on and talked about how much money we were probably spending on the movie and how she got the tix for free.
> 
> Later, of course, my bf is like “oh, btw I’m wearing Instant Honesty”. Gee thanks for the heads up, honey.

See what I mean…TMI,  
I thought the ladies were exagerating a bit when I read some of the post regarding [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) but it is exactly as they said 😮 😮 😮 and given the right circumstances you’ll find ya self saying “damn did I say that” or "why the hell is he/she telling me this sh… you get the picture.

Ewww too weird about the popcorn…lol

djac 🙂

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**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 2:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/10 "2008-07-05T02:47:42Z")

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> [@queenie-t](#):
>
> hmm well i dont think i like it much.. but i could see its purpose..
> 
> 1. it affects me.. and when i added it to IS/A.. well.. DH heard a lot from me.. yikes. i wasn’t letting anything go.. alpha on steroids.😮
> 2. the only hit i think i had was a lady.. at the clinic today (my son had an appointment).. who leaned over to me and said.. “i just found out im pregnant”  
> woah. what? i dont know you!  
> “oh wow,.. congratulations” i say of course.. thinking woah. what.. i dont know you! lol lol lol

definite hit and definite [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) in full effect…trust me when I say, I only wear this stuff to the back of my neck…I talk enough as it is…don’t need to be telling all my biz too.🙂

That’s funny alpha on steroids… I bet he did hear an ear full 😮 😕

djac

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**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 2:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/11 "2008-07-05T02:49:31Z")

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> [@EmeraldNight](#):
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> LOL aww.. yeah that could definately be awkward.

Instant honesty…ya gotta love it…unless you get under its effects

djac

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**Author:** ![queenie-t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/queenie-t/32/1580_2.png) [@queenie-t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/queenie-t)\
**Post date:** [July 5, 2008, 11:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-advice-needed/14878/12 "2008-07-05T23:25:07Z")

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Crazy story about the popcorn… it was like.. last night at dinner ( i still had the IH on) i thought about giving the lady beside me some of my chocolate cake dessert as her date (whom i was easedropping on.. my bad.. wouldnt let her have ANY! can you believe that?)

but i stopped myself and realized it was either the wine or the [pheromones](https://a314.com/)… lol
