# Instant Honesty - The good, the bad, the ugly

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 30, 2007, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421 "2007-04-30T02:35:21Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 8\
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**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2007, 2:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/1 "2007-04-30T02:35:21Z")

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Last two days I’ve been testing instant honesty. It really brings the truth out in people. Things you wouldn’t hear otherwise. I even caught myself blurting something out that I shouldn’t have. It brought tension to an already ugly situation in one case.

Last night I was visiting a buddy and his girlfriend gets home in a real bitchy mood. Dunno if it’s that time of the month for her or what, but it was like super bitch. I always had a feeling she never really liked me much. One of those chicks that hates all of her boyfriends friends.

She got real honest about her disdain for me. She was pissin me off so I threw a real nasty insult back at her. It was the honest truth lol. It got my buddy laughin too. Needless to say she really hates my guts. That’s not to say that she liked me before. She was just pretending to be nice. She never wants to see/talk to me ever again.

Not that I really care at all. Alot of us have arrived at the conclusion long ago that this broad has put ruin on our friend who at one point, used to be capable of feeling happiness. He has been thinkin about leaving her, and I’m happy to say that me + instant honesty has maybe acted like a catalyst to gettin him out of a shitty relationship.

The good - People get honest

The bad - Honesty isn’t always what you imagine it is out of people

The ugly - When the wearer succumbs to it’s influence

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**Author:** ![The\_GQ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/bcef8e/32.png) [@The\_GQ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_GQ)\
**Post date:** [April 30, 2007, 10:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/2 "2007-04-30T22:10:27Z")

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Ouch brotha, how much exactly were you wearing? Strength? Sprays? Alone by itself or in a mix?

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**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\
**Post date:** [May 1, 2007, 3:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/3 "2007-05-01T03:14:45Z")

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ya… i wouldn’t wanna be wearin too much of that

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**Author:** ![perronec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/perronec/32/1280_2.png) [@perronec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/perronec)\
**Post date:** [May 1, 2007, 3:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/4 "2007-05-01T03:41:49Z")

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Instant honesty is pretty powerful, but i never had any problems until alcohol was involved(usually alcohol doensnt open my vault). I ended up spilling some big secrets to people i didnt even know. Not something i plan on repeating.

Does spraying it on the back of the neck reduce the effects enough where you arnt affected?

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**Author:** ![Flipcat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/47e85d/32.png) [@Flipcat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Flipcat)\
**Post date:** [May 1, 2007, 12:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/5 "2007-05-01T12:20:10Z")

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Maybe it should be called “Brutal Honesty”?

Really, though, I don’t think it’s too bad. It makes us say what we should’ve had the balls to say, anyway, and gets shit people out of our lives. It’s like taking out the garbage, except that it’s helping you take out the garbage in your relationships. And just like garbage, it’s better to do it sooner than later, even if we’re too lazy or scared to do it sooner.

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**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\
**Post date:** [May 6, 2007, 12:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/6 "2007-05-06T00:46:18Z")

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It has it downsides, but there is a positive spin on it. I almost feel like some douchebag undercover agent trying to milk secret intelligence out of people though.

Yeah instant honesty definitely should be sprayed on the back of the neck. I know people say to act normal and forget you’re wearing [pheromones](https://a314.com/), it’s probably best to stay conscious of the the honesty if you’re wearing it. I at times just like to say what I think for the hell of it regardless of consequence. Honesty helps bring about this tendancy.

I do love the spice it brings to conversation. Just bring up the topic of sex around girls and you hear all kinds of wild stuff. YOWZA!

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**Author:** ![LifeT](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/e8c25b/32.png) [@LifeT](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LifeT)\
**Post date:** [May 6, 2007, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/7 "2007-05-06T00:49:28Z")

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> [@Pheraoh](#):
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> It has it downsides, but there is a positive spin on it. I almost feel like some douchebag undercover agent trying to milk secret intelligence out of people though.
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> Yeah instant honesty definitely should be sprayed on the back of the neck. I know people say to act normal and forget you’re wearing pheromones, it’s probably best to stay conscious of the the honesty if you’re wearing it. I at times just like to say what I think for the hell of it regardless of consequence. Honesty helps bring about this tendancy.
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> I do love the spice it brings to conversation. Just bring up the topic of sex around girls and you hear all kinds of wild stuff. YOWZA!

i second that yowza. 😃

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**Author:** ![Rbt](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/rbt/32/2066_2.png) [@Rbt](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Rbt)\
**Post date:** [May 22, 2007, 12:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-the-good-the-bad-the-ugly/3421/8 "2007-05-22T00:27:40Z")

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It’s probably best to apply things like Honesty (and IFM for example) to back, back of neck, forearms etc that will direct it toward others and away from you.

Example: If I know I will be sitting next to someone I want to target I will apply to knees or lower legs and keep them close to them/pointed in their direction, letting pheromones waft up to target but away from me.
