# Instant Honesty Will Make Them Surrender **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 13, 2007, 6:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557 "2007-01-13T18:20:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 2
**Author:** ![trevrep](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/trevrep/32/1417_2.png) [@trevrep](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/trevrep)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2007, 6:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557/21 "2007-10-09T06:36:42Z")
what chemical in instant honesty makes people just spill their guts?? and flaming, that’s an interesting idea, mixing tuth + [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). will try that when my order arrives. ---
**Author:** ![TRDE59](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/trde59/32/412_2.png) [@TRDE59](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TRDE59)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2007, 8:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557/22 "2007-10-09T08:09:34Z")
> [@Tama1981K](#): > > How receptive are you to meeting new people? When your with people you know is conversation really flowing? I have found most people will blurt something out when conversation is just flowing. Most people approach me and start talking because I have learned how to make myself seem more receptive to being talked to. Are you smiling at all? Holding yourself with confidence? Are you making eye contact? Do you know most reactions from pheromones are suttle at first and become more apparent as you get used to them? Did you know instant honesty will not work if someone is REALLY trying to hide something from you. I know I am asking a lot of questions but I am trying to figure out exactly whats going on with your particular situation. It may just be that your looking too hard for a reaction from someone and when it dose happen you miss it because you were so focused on the reaction. It could also be that your not around your target long enough for the pheromones to cause any type of reaction…it affects different people at different rates..even at the 2x or 4x level. Some are almost instantly caught by its effects and for some it takes a while. I find the DIHL effect happens on rare occasions but when it dose…look out!!! these people will do ANYTHING to keep you around…even start lying again. I hope this helps some…if not PM me and we will see where your problem lies. One thing I hate more than wasted time is wasted pheromones. 😃 Yeah, I’m aware that “instant honesty” is just a marketing name. Probably should be changed to something more like “instant closeness” cause that’s really a better description of what beta-androstenol does, anyway. So I don’t expect truth serum-like reactions. Thanks for the advice, though. The main thing that annoys me is that I’m the one keeping the conversation going all the time. I have yet to talk to many people besides my good friends, even after I’ve bathed in spaceland & instant honesty, that can keep a good flow in conversations. What is it about college kids and 1 or 2 word answers? Hopefully people will get better and more open as I get older. It’s not a “please leave me alone” kind of respone, either. It’s more of a “I feel awkward/nervous and don’t know what to say” kind of response. Maybe it’s the A314? I wear it with all my mixes. Perhaps even 1 drop is too much for me? I’m 6’3" 230 lbs muscular. Football player type. Hmmm. I’ll get back to you guys on this after I take some time off from A314. It’s weird,though, cause I can practically bathe in -none and get nothing but good responses. ---
**Author:** ![Tama1981K](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tama1981k/32/1685_2.png) [@Tama1981K](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tama1981K)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2007, 5:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557/23 "2007-10-09T17:33:19Z")
Could it be that your only asking closed ended questions? I had a big problem with this myself and did not realize I was in fact doing something wrong until my good buddy pointed it out to me. Closed ended questions are questions that are more like statements with only yes or no answers..if they even agree with you to begin with. A statement like this for example…you walk up to the girl and exclaim “man its hot…are you hot?” (this is only an example..please do not try this as a pickup lol) This is an example of a closed ended question because she can only answer yes or no. However if you were to turn it around and ask an open ended question you might get more of a desirable response. Conversation is like throwing something out there then listening to the response..the key is to listen for key words within the response and to ask more about it like for example…You: “Whats your favorite movie of all time”? Her: “My favorite movie would have to be Dirty Dancing…You:Alright I have never seen it before..who plays in it? Her:Partick Swayze,Jennifer Grey, Jerry Orbach… I absolutely love Patrick Swayze” You: what other movies has Patrick Swayze been in?. Her: Point Break, Ghost, Roadhouse.You: Oh yeah! I have seen point break…ect… ect..(again examples only) Hope this helps..and again if you think this is not the problem PM me. ---
**Author:** ![smn1234](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smn1234/32/2430_2.png) [@smn1234](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/smn1234)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2007, 5:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557/24 "2007-10-09T17:46:25Z")
Instant ‘friend-zone’ ?? ---
**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\ **Post date:** [October 9, 2007, 7:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557/25 "2007-10-09T19:05:39Z")
Honesty, add a dash of heat, get them talking about sex 🙂 All I gotta say. It’s awesome. > [@TRDE59](#): > > Maybe it’s the A314? I wear it with all my mixes. Perhaps even 1 drop is too much for me? I’m 6’3" 230 lbs muscular. Football player type. Hmmm. I’ll get back to you guys on this after I take some time off from A314. It’s weird,though, cause I can practically bathe in -none and get nothing but good responses. A314 can kill the approachability factor. People may want to talk to you but perceive you as out of reach or intimidating. Your stature alone is a good indicator that you probably come off as intimidating. ---
**Author:** ![flaming](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/flaming/32/212_2.png) [@flaming](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/flaming)\ **Post date:** [October 10, 2007, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557/26 "2007-10-10T02:59:42Z")
Thats true Pheraoh but its great if your the kinda guy that is prepared to go for what we wants! As you say (and this has been my experience too) people see you as being out of their league.The weird thing is that you may actually consider them (from past experience) to be out of your league at the same time lol. Trde59 does sound like he has an intimidating presence but i doubt weather A314 could be wholly responsible.I agree with Tama sometimes you gotta bring the person out.I think it would be worthwhile anyway to practice conversational skills.They will be an asset on so many levels romantically, in your work and with your friends too. Open ended questions are good to get people to disclose information about themselves eg; “Whats your favorite movie and why?” or whats your passion ect. Making I statements is good too. Its also important to learn how to consciously escalate at a persons high points in a conversation.For example we all know that just walking up to someone cold and telling them how sexy or whatever you think they are is likely to fall flat. However, it you compliment them right after they have revealed something about themselves then it encourages them to open up more and it helps them like you more.They like you because your offering an experience hard to find . Yeah TRDE59 its weird that you can bath in A-none and get nothing but good responses.Whats the max dose of none you have got away with and how does it work for you? [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-honesty-will-make-them-surrender/1557.md?page=1)