# Instant Jerk as a social lubricant: like a drink without the side effects

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-jerk-as-a-social-lubricant-like-a-drink-without-the-side-effects/52928>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [October 21, 2011, 7:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-jerk-as-a-social-lubricant-like-a-drink-without-the-side-effects/52928 "2011-10-21T07:04:35Z")\
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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 1:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-jerk-as-a-social-lubricant-like-a-drink-without-the-side-effects/52928/21 "2011-10-23T13:55:40Z")

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> [@Corveus](#):
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> Wow, great info, folks. I don’t feel like I have a lot of trouble standing out in a crowd, and I’m not shy at all, except for when it comes to approaching women, in a venue where people know what your intentions are (bars/clubs) or during the day trying to approach someone on the street. Would IJ give provide that type of confidence, or is IO better for that?
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> Maybe IJ does sound like a bit of fun 😃 Would some socials like IH mixed in tone it down a bit? Basically, I don’t want to be seen as a total asshole, unless it’s like a stylish high-value asshole. My ideal “Alpha” persona would be something like Tony Stark from Iron Man 1. He’s high status, but he’s very sharp, witty and extremely arrogant in that fun/attractive way.

IMO, IJ would certainly provide that kind of confidence but the none content/abrasiveness would work against you at the same time. In a bar/club environment, fine but I would say it is way too much for daytime/randoms on the street.

Yes, socials do help a bit. Steer it tarther than tame it - It would take large doses with that amount of none.

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-jerk-as-a-social-lubricant-like-a-drink-without-the-side-effects/52928/22 "2011-10-23T13:58:19Z")

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> [@Kaplan](#):
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> I’m probably gonna use it at university a lot so just curious.

Quite frankly, Uni is the very last place I would think of using IJ.

All you are liable to get is ghosted or get the backs-up of almost everyone around you. Save it for going out or partying.

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**Author:** ![Kaplan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/bcef8e/32.png) [@Kaplan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kaplan)\
**Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-jerk-as-a-social-lubricant-like-a-drink-without-the-side-effects/52928/23 "2011-10-23T17:50:49Z")

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So wouldn’t it be good around girls at uni?

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [October 23, 2011, 8:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-jerk-as-a-social-lubricant-like-a-drink-without-the-side-effects/52928/24 "2011-10-23T20:14:44Z")

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Not in a class environment, no. Can you see yourself picking-up and getting down’n dirty with a girl, right there in class, lecture, library or study group whilst telling your lecturer/classmates to fuck-off? That’s the IJ message!

Socialising/partying, however - yes.

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