# Instant... Me? :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [October 6, 2012, 7:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-me/56942 "2012-10-06T19:35:01Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
**Author:** ![tommarty920](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tommarty920/32/1273_2.png) [@tommarty920](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tommarty920)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2012, 7:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-me/56942/2 "2012-10-06T19:50:54Z")
> [@majorplates](#): > > Hi, im a 24 year old guy who was introduced to Turn up the Heat a few years ago by a friend and have only now decided to make the leap and purchase a few things for myself. I live in Atlanta, Ga and lately my love life has been a little lack luster. I am a handsome guy, very cool, sociable, and able to make friends easily but women seem to be intimidated by my demeanor so i dont get much play even after I engage them. However im very excited about my purchase. I bought Instant Shine and Instant Openness to help people see me as less intimidating and well be more open to the idea of me lol i also think that they will help me be more of myself and not think so much when i am around girls. I also purchased A314 for my job and intend to use it with Instant Shine. Do you guys have any recommendations as to how much of i should put on or the best locations so spray? Also i was looking at the site and saw that they have other products, such as the putative Pheros, can anyone explain to me what those are and what they do? > > Thanks and glad to be here!!! Hey Major, Welcome to Pherotalk! Glad you’ve decided to join us here. Lots of knowledgeable users here. First off, you made some great purchases in Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and A314. They’ll do great things to make you seem more approachable. Although A314 might make you seem even more intimidating by your description above. However, by pairing it with some Instant Shine and Instant Openness it should lower that vibe. Experimentation is the key with these mones, but I understand that you may want to get the most out of your new purchases. So the following links will answer all of your questions and more: [A great thread for all around questions regarding pheromones, if you haven’t already read it.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003) Quote on Putatives from the link above: These are all individual molecules that show potential to be a pheromone, but have not proven themselves beyond our own research. While we encourage you to research, these are not guaranteed, have no support services on what to choose or how to use them. As such, they should be left for a later time when you have a little more experience. Putatives are unnamed molecules for testing and are named with a number to protect the companies interests. The company will not provide you with with any identifying information as to what the molecule is. All reports on the forum are the opinions of those posting them, but testing these molecules sure is fun. Thanks Steve! [A great thread for application points, or where to spray.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/application-points-101/53343) [A great thread about finding your sweet spot, or how much to spray.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1) Remember the search function here is your best friend! Good luck with with your future experimentation! --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-me/56942)._