# Instant "Niceness"?

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-niceness/25611>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [January 31, 2009, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-niceness/25611 "2009-01-31T23:01:19Z")\
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**Author:** ![Smelly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/smelly/32/918_2.png) [@Smelly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Smelly)\
**Post date:** [January 31, 2009, 11:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-niceness/25611/1 "2009-01-31T23:01:19Z")

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Hi ladies,

There are times when I want to be alpha, there are times when I want to be sexy, and there are times when I want to be cuddly. I know about the pheromones for all of those.

But what if I just want to be… well… nice? Not happy like MX135 (my grad program is one in which it would be inappropriate to be too happy all the time… trust me). Not shiny like Instant Shine (sometimes it’s better if you don’t stick out too much). Not talky-nice like [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) or Opennesss (being able to keep my mouth shut is key!). But just… nice. Patient with people who are annoying. Helpful to people who don’t necessarily deserve it. Kind to people who are unkind to me. Not shiny, not happy, not chatty… but just plain old nice. EDIT: But not at all cuddly or helpless!!! I’m aiming to be nice to others who very stressed out, and therefore not nice to me.

Anybody got a pheromone for that?

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