Instant Female Magic may be what you are looking for. There is a men’s version and a women’s version. The men’s version is somewhat buffered to keep the depressant effect for men at bay.
You can spray this on your chest or the front of your throat so you get the self effects of it without it diffusing out to others too much.
I have not personally tried it, but from what I’ve read P96 would be a good one for this as well (P96 saves Christmas). The problem with this is, #1 it’s out of stock and #2 it may be out of your price range if you’re not a reporting user. Instant Female Magic was formulated for such a use though (eg, during your monthlies).