# Instant Sexiness and I just don't get along? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 5, 2007, 9:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484 "2007-07-05T09:56:26Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2007, 9:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/1 "2007-07-05T09:56:26Z")
Hi, I am posting my experiences. I am not much interested in pheromone effects beyond myself and husband right now, sorry to bore ya! I initially started using pheromones out of curiosity and realized androstenol products knock my anxiety for a loop, I later moved on to influencing my husbands mood and desires. Unfortunately I have very little good news to report with the more popular products I purchased. I ordered To Go ISA and Shine for testing, full size 2.5 tah, taf and beta androstenol. Day of arrival I did what any pheromone user would do, I used one spray of each. šŸ˜ƒ This had the most noticeable affect to my husband which is surprising to me because it is such a small amount of pheromones. He was in love, nearly intoxicated by my scent, hugs and kisses galore but lacked a sexual note. He was slightly goofy and wanted cuddling or just to stare at me. For 2 days after wards he was bringing me iced coffees as a gift. (I have an addiction, as far as Iā€™m concerned iced coffee as a gift is better than flowers!) I am sure if I had used eow with this it could have been perfection. Then, I moved on to testing products unmixed. 3 sprays Instant Sexiness A did nothing for me. Husbands response was not positive, nearly negative. He seemed short with me, which I returned a little too easily. I was already thinking hmm, Iā€™m not a tal gal. Slight headache behind right eye also. 3 sprays [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) is another I didnā€™t notice much from, conversation nor mood did not seem much different than usual, perhaps a little more laughter and joking. I am spoiled by high levels of androstenol that I douse myself with perhaps? My testing ground is too small? I wore this around my family and noticed nothing out of the ordinary we generally get along well and laugh much anyway. Did get a what perfume are you wearing, you smell like cotton candy!? Pink Sugar! Combined 3 sprays each of ISA and Shine, same short snippy remarks and bad attitude sniping betwixt husband and I. I am definitely not liking ISA. I donā€™t know why it irritates my husband but it does. And an irritated husband is damn irritating. If I would have asked him to pick me up an iced coffee I am sure the reply would have been ā€œgo get it your bleeping selfā€. Again with the headache based behind right eye, some light sensitivity. Full out OD. I used lots of neat eow, covered by 5 sprays of ISA and shine with a bit of nols and tah. Strong pheromone smell, reminded me much of NPA with out a cover. Worst headache of my life, still behind right eye with light sensitivity, this stuff gives me a migraine?? I have no idea how the day went, I was in too much pain and tired to care. Husband was irritating/irritated, it seemed to kill the eow or he was too grouchy to react to it. I am not interested in testing ISA again. Shine I would give another chance as I am not sure exactly what it does for me yet. I wish I hadnā€™t wasted them trying to get a feel for them and stuck to one spray doses. I usually apply pheromones while nude and then wear a bathrobe loosely during dry down. My bathrobe now gives me a headache while wearing it, but I see no negative or positive from hubby. Tah on the other hand I think is just what I and my usual androstenol mix needs and I do plan to continue use in the future. Perhaps a To go of ISB needs testing & tah mxs? I wasnā€™t sure I wanted to use or test openness or honesty, 18 year relationships are usually open and honest enough. šŸ™‚ But! I think I would like to test openness now. I wish I had a better report to give, ISA and I do not get along beyond one spray is all that I am sure of at this point. ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2007, 5:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/2 "2007-07-05T17:34:31Z")
It is probably the TAL that is creating the problem. Some people do have difficulty with that molecule. Try some TAH, IS/B, or one of the other TAH blendsā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2007, 5:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/3 "2007-07-05T17:42:28Z")
What Dolly said! I get along great with [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A. I adore the stuff which is TAL based. However, and somewhat unusually, I do NOT get along with MX135 which is TAH heavy. It has great results on the people around me, but the self-effects are grim. Iā€™m not sure if my problem with mx135 is just the TAH as I can use TAH neat but changing application points and using it in a TAL heavy blend seems to work well with it. After a lot of fiddling about I have finally discovered that I can use MX135, if I spray it between my shoulderblades or backs of my legs (not the back of my head, it needs to be lower) - and then either use a shed-load of TAL or Instant Sexiness A. In my case I have to use a 3-1 or more ratio, and that makes a real great mix for me. You could try using a good spritz of your TAH with the ISA and see if that sorts it out? If it does you will know it is the TAL for sure. It might be a bit far from your normal signal, using the two might balance it. May ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2007, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/4 "2007-07-05T17:49:14Z")
> [@May](#): > > What Dolly said! > > After a lot of fiddling about I have finally discovered that I can use MX135, if I spray it between my shoulderblades or backs of my legs (not the back of my head, it needs to be lower) - and then either use a shed-load of TAL or Instant Sexiness A. In my case I have to use a 3-1 or more ratio, and that makes a real great mix for me. Yes, if I use a TAH based mix, or use TAH to soften my image, I always spray it on the back of my headā€¦never where I get a big whiff of itā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 5, 2007, 6:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/5 "2007-07-05T18:33:27Z")
I think your report is great and although you didnt get the exact results you were looking for you learned a few things. Like your a TAH girl not a TAL girl. Dolly is right its the TAL but that dosnt mean you wasted your money you just need to always temper your TAL products with some TAH. I have to do the opposite with mine. > [@](#): > > I ordered To Go ISA and Shine for testing, full size 2.5 tah, taf and beta androstenol. Day of arrival I did what any pheromone user would do, I used one spray of each. šŸ˜ƒ This had the most noticeable affect to my husband which is surprising to me because it is such a small amount of pheromones. He was in love, nearly intoxicated by my scent, hugs and kisses galore but lacked a sexual note. He was slightly goofy and wanted cuddling or just to stare at me. For 2 days after wards he was bringing me iced coffees as a gift. (I have an addiction, as far as Iā€™m concerned iced coffee as a gift is better than flowers!) I am sure if I had used eow with this it could have been perfection. You used one spray of each of your products when you first got them and it worked. By using everything you automatically tempered the TAL that is in IS/A. You can easily stear it in a more sexual nature by adding some EOW or [Lust After Me](https://phera.com/product/lust-after-me/) or just by giving him a few direct hints lol. Try something like 1 spray of IS/A and 2 sprays of TAH see how that works for you. If he seems cuddly and goofy grab him by the butt or let him catch you naked or something and you can stear it towards sex. The mix seems to make him eager to please you so if he knows what you want he will be eagar to please (if ya know what I mean) Whats great is if your not in the mood you dont have to stear it and he is still cuddly and goofy which I think is great. Remember more is not always better unless its cops LOL. I have my best hits when I dont overdo it. After your bottle is gone if you decide to get more get the IS/B in chocolatini. Lord he may buy you a coffee shop LOL Great report Tisha ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 12:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/6 "2007-07-06T00:07:54Z")
Thankya kindly ladies. Tonight Iā€™m back to a light mix, 6 drops eow, 6 sprays of tah, 4 of beta androstenol, 2 drops primal(alpha androstenol), and 1 spray of [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a and taf. Covering with Cashmere Mist, Iā€™ve overused Pink Sugar Iā€™m a bit sick of it. I wasnā€™t trying to incite a reaction from my husband with my tests as much as I was just hoping to get a good feel of what ISA and shine would do for me. I am disappointed that I have had such negative reactions from myself and husband with them. I was hoping more for super girl affect from ISA and shine combined. I do plan on testing mx135, 138 and probably openness and honesty to goes. Would I need to call in for ISb to go? Is there such a thing as lust after me to go size or sample? ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 2:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/7 "2007-07-06T02:41:57Z")
Thank ya kindly. Iā€™ve replied once earlier but seems to have been eaten instead of delayed. MX 135 (canā€™t wait to get a sniff of chocolatini),138 and a to goes of openness and instant sexy b will definitely be among my next purchase. Would I have to call in for ISb or just make note of it at purchase? Is it possible to get a sample size of lust after me? ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 9:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/8 "2007-07-06T09:49:47Z")
mx135 has sold out! Had that in my cart a few days ago and didnā€™t purchase, wanted to complete my ISa tests first. Are there any others from the experimental mixes that are scented with chocolatini? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 10:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/9 "2007-07-06T10:27:18Z")
Dont worry its a popular product so I am sure it will be in stock again soon. I think MX135 is the only one already in chocolatini but I could be wrong. Lust after me and IS/B both only come in large bottles. They dont sell them in the to-go size. I really wish they did. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 11:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/10 "2007-07-06T11:10:35Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Dont worry its a popular product so I am sure it will be in stock again soon. I think MX135 is the only one already in chocolatini but I could be wrong. Lust after me and IS/B both only come in large bottles. They dont sell them in the to-go size. I really wish they did. > > Tisha Ditto that wish! Iā€™d love to try IS/B but after my difficulties with MX135 Iā€™m wary of buying a big bottle and then finding that it really doesnā€™t suit me. Same with Lust after me, itā€™s sitting on my site wishlist, LAM and IS/B, will probably have to remain distant wishes for a while yet. ā˜¹ May ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 12:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/11 "2007-07-06T12:58:39Z")
Same here May, while I would love to try them both I am not willing to commit to a larger bottle that might not work as well for me as it has for others here. The return policy is great, but I did enjoy and prefer the to-go sizes for testing. ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 2:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/12 "2007-07-06T14:37:51Z")
Iā€™m not sure the return policy applies to pre-release items (like LAM), putatives, test mixes and stuff you have to specifically request or ask to have modified (like Instant Sexiness B). I think it just covers the standard consumer line. I think this is the case but I could have this wrong and would be more than happy to be corrected! šŸ™‚ May ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 6, 2007, 11:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/13 "2007-07-06T23:32:52Z")
Pre-release items have a 100% refund, where the consumer line is 200%. If I am understanding what I read correctly. Oh well, Iā€™ve realized that as a new user/poster here I would probably not be allowed to purchase from the advanced menu anyway? Iā€™m consoling myself with a purchase of xcite wipes Iā€™ve wanted to test for a while, and perhaps later an Elementals purchase. ---
**Author:** ![LaurieNY](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/bbce88/32.png) [@LaurieNY](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LaurieNY)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 12:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/14 "2007-07-07T00:45:50Z")
> [@](#): > > Pre-release items have a 100% refund, where the consumer line is 200%. If I am understanding what I read correctly. Thanks, lovely. I didnā€™t know that. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/15 "2007-07-07T00:57:56Z")
Went over the return policy again to not confuse myself or mislead readers. 200% return if you are dissatisfied with consumer line and can report 7 instances it did not work for you. 100% no questions asked return or exchange also. Experimental mixes have a 100% return or exchange. Experimone line is custom made, and cannot be returned. I do not see any info available for putative returns. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 9:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/16 "2007-07-07T09:41:13Z")
Inkling You cant return puratives they are strickly for testing so they already know they may not work. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![May](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/may/32/1909_2.png) [@May](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/May)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 10:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/17 "2007-07-07T10:02:37Z")
Ah I dunno When I spoke to Jasmin about returning my MX135 she said I couldnā€™t return it and I think that applies to all MXs. I know you canā€™t return putatives, but I am really not sure what the case is with pre-release. šŸ˜• May ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 10:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/18 "2007-07-07T10:05:24Z")
Thanks for clearing that up Tisha. šŸ™‚ Just made another order. Iā€™m going to give instant sexy another chance, because for me it did seem to be good as a 1 spritz wonder. Instant shine x2 because I want to feel SHINY, openness and honesty. And an mx 135, already back in stock. All to go sizes. Iā€™m not sure which products I do want to go full size with yet. I do have the weak 2.5 tah to attempt tempering myself while using instant sexiness if my inner monster happens to be released. Iā€™ve had the headache with out any [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) use, so it may be sinus issue and that certainly helped spoil my testing. The headache itself was a large part of the grudge I had been forming against ISa. My pheromone laden bathrobe has been through the wash. šŸ˜› ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 10:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/19 "2007-07-07T10:09:21Z")
If you go to the store and click Experimental mixes you will see the policy top frame there. Is your mx135 a to go May? I could understand why to go sizes arenā€™t refundable. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 7, 2007, 12:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484/20 "2007-07-07T12:56:02Z")
According to the experimental text mixes section you can return only for your money back not the 200% like the consumer products. I believe this is another reason why Jasmin dosnt want anyone but experienced users buying these products. They are all still in testing. I have bought a few that havnt worked well for me but I wont return them because Iknew the risks when I bought them but thats my personal opinion. Experimones are not returnable Quote from site > [@](#): > > ExperiMonesā„¢ are **not** consumer products, but for serious enthusiasts and researchers only. They are custom built for you and are not returnable (although we will exchange, if faulty). Puritives are suspected mones and are strickly for testing. I have a bunch and even though I have some experience I am not good at determining what they do yet. So save those till you have been using the other products for a while. I will test mine eventually but I decided to do it after I more fully explore the other products so I can be more accurate and true in my reports. Tisha [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-sexiness-and-i-just-dont-get-along/4484.md?page=2)