# Instant Shine and suggestions...

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [August 13, 2012, 6:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380 "2012-08-13T06:28:17Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 16\
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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 20, 2012, 9:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/21 "2012-08-20T09:33:27Z")

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I just got to work.

I used three drops of DM and 3 sprays of instant shine (I just \<3 the way IS smells)…  
And my Shakira Elixir perfume…

So far nothing…(@\_@)

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2:45pm, still NADA…

Only one of my friends came by today and said You look pretty today…

Mystery guy… **. NADA!**

PS The boys are saying that I am in a very good mood today. Another kid infront of me said that my lip gloss is “poppin’ today” LOL…

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6:12 UPDATE:

Still nothing, one of my friends did say I have a “GLOW” but then again I am also chirpier.  
He says my perfume is “BANGING” and that his eyes are rolling to the back of his head with my perfume. lol

Mystery man is playful, I was talking to the guy that said i had the glow, and the guy told me that P was checking me out or giving me the “LOOK”. I asked my friend to describe the “look” through Gtalk This is what he said:

"ZG says: ok its the “i see u ova there n im considering the possibilities” look.  
Me: really?

When I looked up to him, he actually gave me this playful “Im gonna’ beat u up look.” like seizing me up! 0,o

Everytime I pass by mystery man he is still mumbling random stuff to me. Now he called me GRUMPY … I kept walking then I was like “Wait did he call me grumpy” and I came back and I asked him “Wait did u just call me grumpy!”  
And he said “YEP”.

Then I went to speak to my friend who sits in his row, and then he just kinda went there to kinda’ talk to us. I was like Oh well, I gotta go to my desk…

## But nothing else, no compliments or nothing …

UPDATE :9:48PM

People around work have been saying that him and I are communicating more. That he has been giving me looks all day.  
But I can’t say for sure that this is DM.  
I got an email today stating that my EOW/ IS/A, IH and [P83](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p83/) have been shipped, so I assume that everything but EOW (for obvious reasons) will be home tomorrow!

My friend’s girlfrriend said that he was being all friendly to me. Eh! We will see!

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2012, 4:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/22 "2012-08-21T16:39:38Z")

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Today I wore 4 drops of DM and 3 sprays of IS

No results…

Except one guy… he is normally obnoxious, but he said that he didn’t want to move from my side because I smelled so good. But Im guessing he liked my Shakira Elixir perfume.

11:51 update:

Mystery man was not playful at all today, he kinda’ ignoring me today. ☹

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 21, 2012, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/23 "2012-08-21T20:41:32Z")

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I think I am having issues having to find my “spot” per say on how to use this phers.

Im gonna’ wait for my package to arrive tomorrow but if I can’t really figure this stuff out Im just not gonna’ buy anymore…

I would love for them to work but maybe I either can’t figure this out, or maybe phers don’t work for me like it works well for others.

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 22, 2012, 7:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/24 "2012-08-22T07:58:41Z")

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I recieved : Instant Sexiness A, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), P83 and a freebie: P102

Tish, what is p102

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 6:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/25 "2012-08-23T06:48:39Z")

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So here I am at work.

I have IS/A =3 sparys. One to my chest, face and front part of the neck.  
I have DM on my wrist and ankles (4 drops)

And IH to my hair and back of neck…

10:54AM/// And Nothing!!! AT ALL FROM NO ONE! ☹

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Update 12:31PM

One of my friends came in the past hour to work. He is the one that has the GF.  
He was like “OMG YOU SMELL AMAZING!” I am wearing my Juicy Couture one today, and I said “REALLY?”  
He said “YES, I want to bone you” and then he said “OMG I didn’t say that! Sorry… please don’t tell my gf.”  
Of coarse I told him I wouldn’t. It kinda’ slipped out, it was an accident for him.  
However, I haven’t gotten nothing else. :-X

I think Phers don’t work on me!

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**Author:** ![classicalflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ad7895/32.png) [@classicalflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/classicalflower)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 8:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/26 "2012-08-23T08:44:06Z")

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> [@MalicePherU](#):
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> So here I am at work.
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> I have IS/A =3 sparys. One to my chest, face and front part of the neck.  
> I have DM on my wrist and ankles (4 drops)
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> And IH to my hair and back of neck…
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> 10:54AM/// And Nothing!!! AT ALL FROM NO ONE! ☹

That seems like a lot of pheromones to me! The combination of Instant Sexiness A and Desire Me could be a little overpowering. Remember less if often more with pheromones. I recommend finding your sweet spot first separately before combining products… although I know it’s so tempting to splash on a bit of everything when you are starting out!!!

I’m not sure if you have Instant Shine but it combines well with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), Instant Sexiness or Desire Me and could be a good place to start experimenting with multiple products.

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**Author:** ![classicalflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ad7895/32.png) [@classicalflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/classicalflower)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 8:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/27 "2012-08-23T08:47:30Z")

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> [@MalicePherU](#):
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> Update 12:31PM
> 
> One of my friends came in the past hour to work. He is the one that has the GF.  
> He was like “OMG YOU SMELL AMAZING!” I am wearing my Juicy Couture one today, and I said “REALLY?”  
> He said “YES, I want to bone you” and then he said “OMG I didn’t say that! Sorry… please don’t tell my gf.”  
> Of coarse I told him I wouldn’t. It kinda’ slipped out, it was an accident for him.  
> However, I haven’t gotten nothing else. :-X
> 
> I think Phers don’t work on me!

That would be a definite hit… you don’t get more obvious than that.

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 10:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/28 "2012-08-23T10:40:31Z")

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Thanks ClassicalFlower:

I been trying to find the “soft spot” for the longest. I can’t really figure it out!  
With [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) that I have been using with EOW since March or so, It has been a hit or miss.  
When I was looking for a job I would wear it for interviews. It seemed that everytime I wore it to interviews I’d get called back for second interviews, but I wasn’t sure. There is always gonna’ be that inch of doubt sometimes.  
Point is, I never really got to find that “soft spot” it was always a hit or miss.

It is true, it is tempting to mix things. I do have Instant Shine 2x.  
Im really trying to get the attention of ONE particular person … I want to be a walking/talking orgasm for that person…  
I am finding it extremely difficult.

My friend, yea that was a hit. But he has been the only one who hit on me. No one else. This new guy introduced himself and he becoming around my desk.

The guy I like, his name is Paul. He just got here apparently —dam, and he looks amazing in navy blue… (SIGH) I wish I could just tackle him and get nasty! lol but thats another topic…  
Im betting you are right, it is probably a bit more overpowering to have that giant mix of things. I was just expecting IS/A to be super “magic” per say. I have read so many reviews about IS/A that I thought it would probably work the same way. But its redundant it comes to finding the enigmatic magic soft spot that is super hidden with me.  
I think my soft spot “moves” around…

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 10:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/29 "2012-08-23T10:42:10Z")

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The same guy that did the HIT earlier came around and told me that i look nice. I said “really?” he said “Yea but you always do…”

🙂 I blew him a kiss in a todler kind of way…

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 11:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/30 "2012-08-23T11:57:32Z")

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FAIL with the hot guy!  
A metal thing flew at my desk and it dam near killed me, lol, he laughed at me.  
But that’s all that was. He has been ignoring me all day! ☹

Dam, I throw in the towel with this guy! Phers were my last cheat sheet! PFFFF

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**Author:** ![classicalflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ad7895/32.png) [@classicalflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/classicalflower)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 12:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/31 "2012-08-23T12:54:23Z")

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> [@MalicePherU](#):
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> Thanks ClassicalFlower:
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> I been trying to find the “soft spot” for the longest. I can’t really figure it out! With Instant Shine that I have been using with EOW since March or so, It has been a hit or miss.

Personally I think EoW is like that… it’s all or nothing! I’ve had better success wearing EoW around guys that I know, rather than complete strangers. To attract guys my own age that I don’t know, EoW REALLY needs to be buffered by socials, otherwise guys seem to be intimidated by it.

> [@MalicePherU](#):
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> Im really trying to get the attention of ONE particular person … I want to be a walking/talking orgasm for that person…  
> I am finding it extremely difficult.

Hmmm… have you tried [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine?! This combo is great for breaking the ice and once you have his attention, you can always add Instant Sexiness/EoW etc when it is more appropriate.

> [@MalicePherU](#):
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> I was just expecting IS/A to be super “magic” per say. I have read so many reviews about IS/A that I thought it would probably work the same way.

IS/A can be magic… it just takes a little time and patience! Have you started a journal? I think it could help you keep track of your progress and members will know where to look for your reports.

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**Author:** ![classicalflower](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/ad7895/32.png) [@classicalflower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/classicalflower)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 12:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/32 "2012-08-23T12:58:44Z")

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> [@MalicePherU](#):
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> FAIL with the hot guy!  
> A metal thing flew at my desk and it dam near killed me, lol, he laughed at me.  
> But that’s all that was. He has been ignoring me all day! ☹
> 
> Dam, I throw in the towel with this guy! Phers were my last cheat sheet! PFFFF

Find an excuse to talk to him! Also make sure that he is close enough to be influenced by your mones. Or take a walk around the room so you’ll leave a phero trail behind you.

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 1:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/33 "2012-08-23T13:19:57Z")

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> [@classicalflower](#):
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> Personally I think EoW is like that… it’s all or nothing! I’ve had better success wearing EoW around guys that I know, rather than complete strangers. To attract guys my own age that I don’t know, EoW REALLY needs to be buffered by socials, otherwise guys seem to be intimidated by it.  
> Reply to first statement:  
> Yea I don’t know lol. EOW is repulsive to me. I used EOW with Instant Shine because those were my first phers…it really is a hit or miss…  
> What I started to think was that phers were a mental thing. I was like dam the people in the forum either think it works because I seriously haven’t had like results per say. I kept buying instant shine because I like the way it smells lol…😛
> 
> Hmmm… have you tried Instant Openness and Instant Shine?! This combo is great for breaking the ice and once you have his attention, you can always add Instant Sexiness/EoW etc when it is more appropriate.
> 
> Tish23 recommended that I used Instant Honesty. The phers are pricey so its hard for me to buy so many! LOL This is what I have, I have Instant Shine x2, Instant Sexiness/A , Instant Honesty, Desire Me Oil and Spray, EOW, P83 and P102
> 
> IS/A can be magic… it just takes a little time and patience! Have you started a journal? I think it could help you keep track of your progress and members will know where to look for your reports.

I have thought about starting a journal but I don’t know lol Im kinda lazy but maybe I will start one tonight.

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 1:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/34 "2012-08-23T13:22:31Z")

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> [@classicalflower](#):
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> Find an excuse to talk to him! Also make sure that he is close enough to be influenced by your mones. Or take a walk around the room so you’ll leave a phero trail behind you.

I tried, but he is a supervisor and he has a ton of people always talking to him and on top of that he is now moving to the other side. So I wont even see him as often. Before he was a row over now he is completely on on the other half of a room seperated by like a huge podium… No way he can take a wiff of my IS/A

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [August 23, 2012, 2:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/35 "2012-08-23T14:17:41Z")

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Update: 6:20PM (Yes I know I live at work! LOL No they asked me to do some OT, I feel beat up though lol- well I am beat up, I fell of a mountain bike yesterday!)

I went to my locker to get some snacks, and I was walking back in and passed by the hot guy, and has like “Hi Iris”, and I was like “Hey Paul” and I kept walking but this other dude next to him started to talk to me about I don’t know what, because I can’t remember.

And then I told him that I didn’t like that they were moving and the hot guy was like “Why not? Its cooler over here, and Im closer to the break room and the bathroom this way”. Eh!

Though he gave me a weird stair but quickly, up and down down and up like in 2 seconds!

Then I walked by to my desk.

Other update : 7:22PM  
One of my supervisors who is a nice guy but he has smart mouth -just started to talk to me about random stuff like, he was able to get out his lease and talking talkin talking and he apologized for giving me a hard time and bla bla bla bla… That was abnormal, we normally do not talk about anything other than work.

There is a new chic that started working here today and all the supervisors and other man are like drooling over there and she is not even pretty… she just has a short ass dress and some wedges! It seems like my phers are working for her!

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**Author:** ![MalicePherU](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/malicepheru/32/1131_2.png) [@MalicePherU](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MalicePherU)\
**Post date:** [September 1, 2012, 6:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-and-suggestions/56380/36 "2012-09-01T06:52:41Z")

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Well, as far as the guy goes I have come to find out that through a friend that he thinks Im creepy. LOL  
He says the way I stare at him makes him uncomfortable. :-/

I am not even mean or weird with him. I talk to him like I talk to all people.

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