# Instant Shine ? Can it make you feel too good **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 24, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-can-it-make-you-feel-too-good/10379 "2008-03-24T19:07:53Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![big\_guns](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f07891/32.png) [@big\_guns](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/big_guns)\ **Post date:** [March 24, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-can-it-make-you-feel-too-good/10379/1 "2008-03-24T19:07:53Z")
Hi everyone, it’s been awhile since I’ve posted last. I type too slowly to keep a journal, but I had a situation arise while wearing IS and I would like some input. I’ve posted in the past that I started purchasing these [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) in order to help the relationship between my wife and I. They have helped some especially in the beginning, but not as much as I had hoped for now. Maybe they lost there effect on her. ??? Anyway, I had to go out of town to take care of some business. I was meeting friends and family, some that I haven’t seen in some time. Many, many years. Before I left I decided to spray two shots of IS on my neck, hoping to keep me awake for the 4 hour trip and to just stay happy, because the trip was supposed to be very sad. When I arrived the first person I hugged was an old friend. This wasn’t just a hug, but more of an embrace of love, more than any hug could offer. We talked for hours getting to re-know each other. Over the next couple of days our relationship became much more than friends. It seems to me, and her, that we had this love for each other long ago, but never acted upon it. We’ve expressed our love for each other and now all we think about is each other. What I’m wanting to know is, could the IS have this kind of effect on us or is there more to this relationship? I feel like a teenage kid in love and I have that nervous feeling I get when I first apply IS, but it last all day. Opinions welcomed, thanks for listening (reading) ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [March 25, 2008, 5:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-can-it-make-you-feel-too-good/10379/2 "2008-03-25T17:12:25Z")
It’s hard for us to keep this in mind sometimes because we see such dramatic results at times. But it’s important to remember that pheromones only enhance what’s already there. The energy you feel between yourselves might be genuine, but the way you interpret it might be influenced by the pheromones. It might be ‘love’, but it could also be ‘infatuation’ (esp if it feels like the teenage kid love.) I get the same nervous feeling when I put on IS. Which brings me to the next point. If you wear the same combo everyday, then you **and** your wife will become used to it. If you smell chocolate everyday, sooner or later you’ll barely notice it. I would suggest taking a break from IS, if you wish to, try some other pheromones to see how that effects your relationship. But less about the pheromones. If you remove the pheromones from the equation, then you had a good night with a close friend and might have ignited some long lost passion between the two of you. I would carefully consider my marriage before jumping to any conclusions about whether there is more to the relationship or not. If there is more to the relationship, what does that mean to you? Does it mean enough to you that you would be willing to break the current relationship with your wife? Or will you let it tempt you forever? How will you react to the possibility of a deeper relationship with your friend? Pheromones only enhance what’s already there. As you can see, pheromones won’t answer your question. You have to answer that for yourself. So if I had to sum it up, IS made the two of you feel even better about seeing each other, but if you two didn’t want to see each other, then no amount of IS would have made the occasion **that** pleasant. So basically it goes both ways. It played a part, but it wasn’t **the** part. ---
**Author:** ![big\_guns](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/f07891/32.png) [@big\_guns](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/big_guns)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2008, 11:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-can-it-make-you-feel-too-good/10379/3 "2008-03-26T11:27:30Z")
thanks for the reply, we’ve talked everyday about the very things you’ve said. We’re taking it day by day now. All of our conversation have been over the phone, we’re many miles apart now, but the passion for each other has remained. Now there are no pheromones to influence our feelings. I guess i needed some type of conformation that it wasn’t the pheromones, but our true feeling being revealed. Thanks again. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2008, 11:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-can-it-make-you-feel-too-good/10379/4 "2008-03-26T11:45:47Z")
IShine can make you feel good as well as her but it wont create something out of nothing. This good feeling coupled with the problems you posted in your first post about your marriage can make you feel the need to wander. I am not one to judge but my advice would be to be very very sure this is what you want before you pursue it. I also suggest if you do meet in person next time not to wear any mones just to be sure. My best friend is male and we have never gone beyond friendship and we never will because I am married but when I wear certain mones he does become more affectionate and attached to me. So while mones cant make something from nothing it can make something more then it should be. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [March 26, 2008, 11:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-can-it-make-you-feel-too-good/10379/5 "2008-03-26T23:27:35Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > I also suggest if you do meet in person next time not to wear any pheromones just to be sure. I can’t find the link, I read too much stuff on here or linked from here that I can’t remember exactly where it is. Anyways, it was an article about how our natural signatures are often covered up by deodorants and cologne/perfume. I don’t think they established a solid connection, but they found that the possibility for conflict existed when the couple would both allow their unadulterated pheromone signatures to come out. Essentially the article was saying that our natural pheromones help us distinguish who is a compatible mate for us and that artificial smells are taking information away from us. So, inevitably, some of us end up pairing with a less compatible mate. I think it’s safe to say that if you two already had an attraction for each other, then your personal pheromones signatures are a good match. But it might be something to consider to. I doubt the two of you will undertake the experiment and not shower for a week then smell each other intimately to see if you two are compatible or not, but just keep it in mind. Although I took it out of the quote, I want to re-emphasize what Tisha wrote. Be very deliberate about your actions. Are you really sure the action you are taking is the right action for you at the time? I guess really the question is, would gracefully leaving your previous relationship to start a new one enrich all your lives more and make all of you, if not all three then the two of you, happier?