Hey there, Beauty!
The IShine is unisex. Though, the page may say for men… My wife likes it well enough, though, she doesn’t like the Neroli. If she uses IShine, she’ll apply a cover scent.
What have you been trying out, ‘that actually…MIGHT work’?
Personally, I started out skeptical and thought, I’ll just try out the IShine as a test and see what comes about… and I’m still here!!! 
A314 and IShine are my fav’s of the commercial line up.
But, hey, MHarris, who is a founder of Androtics and this forum was skeptical about mones as well… I highly recommend this post on his thought process!!
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