# Instant Shine + Instant Openness

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-instant-openness/51557>\
**Category:** Women's Journals\
**Created:** [August 1, 2011, 5:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-instant-openness/51557 "2011-08-01T05:49:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![Astrea](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/astrea/32/1928_2.png) [@Astrea](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Astrea)\
**Post date:** [August 1, 2011, 6:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/instant-shine-instant-openness/51557/2 "2011-08-01T06:53:09Z")

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> [@BabyN](#):
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> I received these pheromones a few days ago
> 
> I sprayed 1x IS and 1x IO on my wrists. Rubbed my wrists together and applied on my neck.
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> I feel… normal. I wasn’t extra cheerful or anything and I was still moody every now and then.. (I was hoping this would change with IS)
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> I didnt notice anything different from the people around me either. In fact my conversations with my close friends were different. I was more quiet and couldn’t think of anything to say.
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> I feel like the mones have backfired me. Can anybody suggest anything that I should do differently? I really believe that these mones would be helpful and probably my methods are wrong..

First of all the mones are not gonna make you cheerful. The mones are not gonna do the work for you. You need to be inline with the purpose of the mones. Put yourself in a positive frame of mind and **then** spray - they enhance and facilitate - they DO NOT replace effort on your part.

You sprayed and stayed silent? Put yourself in a frame of mind that’s sociable and these will HELP facilitate people responding to you. Were you upbeat? Were you _smiling_, _at the very least_? Why would anyone approach someone with a sullen look on their face? How would someone approach a stranger or even an acquaintance \*if the look on your face is moody? \*  
Your friends are going to be harder to respond to the mones - especially if you’re not changing anything in a positive manner. They know you and have specific ideas on who you are, how you operate and so on. They will be the last to acknowledge the changes in you. BUT YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE EFFORT.  
[How To Find Your Sweet Spot](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146)  
Did you read this? Do so. Because firstly, if your in a down state unless you make the effort to do something about that it’s gonna be a waste of time and mones. Did you read any of the stickies or suggested links? If you did, I suggest you go back and re read them; if not - do that.

Everyone is informed when they join the forum that the best approach is to test 1 (one) product at a time - so you develop a sense of what they do FOR YOU at different doses. You tried once, didn’t get inline with the mones and haven’t done anything since?

Go and start with the sweet spot link. Get informed. Then do your own sweet spot testing. That’s why it’s called sweet spot testing. Don’t spray IO if you’re not feeling social and don’t intend to make an effort. Go test on strangers in a park or down your town. But DO something.

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