# interested newcomer, here **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 10, 2008, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758 "2008-06-10T17:59:18Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![esontew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/53a042/32.png) [@esontew](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/esontew)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 5:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/1 "2008-06-10T17:59:18Z")
Hey, I’m a 21yo from Michigan curious about Androtics products. Being a scientific type of guy, I’ve always considered pheromone effects real but am extremely skeptical about [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) themselves. I’m male, asian, slim, fairly short where I live, and personality-wise sort of quiet and intense. Likeable, affable, but rather detached. Some girls find this magnetic and mysterious. Most, not. Socializing is often tiring for me. I don’t know if I want to enhance this image, or what… So far I’m interested in the idea of these products being ‘social learning accelerants’ and am thus attracted to the subtler-seeming oils - A314 being prime. I also have a few female friend targets. So anyway I think I’ve read almost the first 200 pages on the Men’s forum. I ordered Instant Gentleman based on this and have been testing it out. Got a spray of Instant Openness, too (thanks!..Jasmin?) No obvious ‘hits’ from one or two sprays yet, except for possible self-effects. However, I’m pretty socially blind as of now. Kinda itching to play with the A314… Anyway it’s nice to meet you all! ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 6:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/2 "2008-06-10T18:16:05Z")
hi! i remember when i first started pheros that i didnt get any hits also ☹ the trick is to NOT go around looking for hits but to completely forget that they are even there and when u least expect it, BAM! it might also be how much u applied isn’t enough. where are you doing most of ur applications? ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/3 "2008-06-10T18:17:58Z")
Hello Esontew and welcome 🙂 Haha you read so much 😃 but this will help you a lot in the long run and get you more experienced when you start getting more “advanced” Io with not hits?? Try a little bit more like 3 or 4 sprays. It is very good for me and i really like it! A314 you need a little more time, but it will really get you more results and respect from all kind of people! Good luck in the testing and post a little about your results soon! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 6:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/4 "2008-06-10T18:26:38Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. We were all a little skeptical at one time but after using these products for some time now I am a believer. Just keep working with the products - different doses for different situations. And keep a record - it may be easier to see the patterns emerge that way. Read up on the A314 - it is a great product can can cause people to maintain a resapectful distance from you. You can use the IO to ofset that to a degree. Don’t worry about being socially blind - you will begin to learn what to look for now that you are becoming more aware of your social surroundings. ---
**Author:** ![esontew](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/e/53a042/32.png) [@esontew](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/esontew)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 7:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/5 "2008-06-10T19:06:15Z")
Thanks, all! Quite cool to be getting responses from people I’ve been reading…I’ll try to post after experimenting some more. The IG I’m applying to the chest/throat, and IO to the wrists. Actually I’ve only tried IO once. I don’t go out much, though, so it’s been school and work (a glorified tutoring gig) so far. Perhaps these people already know me too well. I’m going to up the dosage. Yeah, read a lot but not sure how much is consolidating 😛 ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 10:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/6 "2008-06-10T22:58:19Z")
Hi there, Welcome to the forum. To increase your social ability, IO is good. It can initiate talks from people around you. How many sprays or drops are you using? You need to experiment it a bit to get the right spray/drop for you. Start with one spray/drop for a few days and increase accordingly if you don’t see result. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 10, 2008, 11:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/7 "2008-06-10T23:03:03Z")
Hello esontew Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 I am glad you have taken the time to read the forum. Dont be afraid to wander over to the ladies section. Its always good to see how things work from both sides of the fence. Go with 2 or 4 sprays of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), You cant OD on it and it will help you see results more clearly. IG is worldy sophisticated and smooth. A314 is a great formula and I think you will enjoy it. If you have any questions or need some help just ask. 😃 **Your GC will be on its way to your email box shortly** 😃 Have fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [June 11, 2008, 4:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-newcomer-here/13758/8 "2008-06-11T16:19:44Z")
Hey! welcome to the forum! don’t worry, the first time I wore my pheros I got subtle hits, and it took some time to find the sweet spot lol experimenting helps alot. As time goes by you’ll be a pro and you’ll be getting a lot of hits as well 😃