# interested to join in! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 1, 2010, 3:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199 "2010-01-01T15:59:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![strawberryx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f4b2a3/32.png) [@strawberryx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/strawberryx)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2010, 3:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199/1 "2010-01-01T15:59:00Z")
Hi all! I’m a 19-yr old female, all the way from an asian country, Singapore. I’ve been secretly reading up here for quite a while, and this intro is actually my first post! =x A friend who practices [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/), got me interested and also gave me some TO-GOs to try on. those general ones like ISA, ISB, IH, MX134, MX207, MX208. Have been experimenting around for the past few months with the help of this forum on how to find my sweet spot (tisha’s), and with the help of other people’s evaluation. It’s amazing how active the users here are and it’s so warming to see everyone’s helping each other out. This sparked my interest even more and wish to try out more mixes. However I feel that those samples I got, doesnt really fit my personality. IH and ISA is amazing in my own tests though! I think i should seek help from you guys for recommendations regarding my personality. I’m interested in improving my love life and also socially. Im quite a dominant girl in my own big clique, and also in school. I’m confident, smart, sexy, and am not shy towards new people. But I do have a problem in engaging deep conversations, to hold on to the relationships with these new found friends. Besides school, I do have my work commitments and other responsibilities, which is why I always look busy and tired. Perhaps that, and my dominant trait, make me look not approachable? So I was thinking if I should try IO? Or what other mixes would you guys recommend? Also, any suggestions for countering my non-approachability and finding love? ---
**Author:** ![LucidDreamer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/luciddreamer/32/2141_2.png) [@LucidDreamer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LucidDreamer)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2010, 4:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199/2 "2010-01-01T16:08:21Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum! So youve already tried TAL ? Cause that’s what your described personality seems like. Definitely give [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) ago. I’d also recommend MX335 or MX135 since you’ve tried to TO GO products. BTW, sometimes just smiling makes you more approachable. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![strawberryx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/f4b2a3/32.png) [@strawberryx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/strawberryx)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2010, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199/3 "2010-01-01T16:25:54Z")
> [@LucidDreamer](#): > > Hello and welcome to the forum! > > So youve already tried TAL ? Cause that’s what your described personality seems like. > > Definitely give Instant Openness ago. I’d also recommend MX335 or MX135 since you’ve tried to TO GO products. > > BTW, sometimes just smiling makes you more approachable. 😃 Hi there! nope i only tried those I’ve listed up there. so i should try TAL? care to explain to me briefly? and yes, i do smile and laugh very often 😃! thanks for your suggestions! will take those into consideration 😃 ---
**Author:** ![LucidDreamer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/luciddreamer/32/2141_2.png) [@LucidDreamer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/LucidDreamer)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2010, 4:35pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199/4 "2010-01-01T16:35:27Z")
TAL is a big part of the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A. It’s for more of a sexy confident woman vibe. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2010, 7:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199/5 "2010-01-02T07:02:16Z")
Hi Strawberryx, welcome to the forums. Decided to stop lurking, huh? 🙂 Some guys are intimidated by confident, sexy women. In my experience Asian cultures tend to be rather reserved, so that may be part of the problem, especially amongst guys your own age. They may lack confidence. You might try [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), or Come Talk To Me. Since you already have some experience, you might even try some of the experimental mixes to see if one fits you. I’m sure the ladies have much more experience at this than I do - as a guy, it’s my job to take the initiative and women never approach - so posting a request for advice on the women’s advice forum may help. There are several users in your age group with similar problems (Happykitsune is one I think, check her journal.) Good luck and have fun. Edit: have you tried instant shine? It might help put the people around you in a good mood and get you more attention. ---
**Author:** ![Cherub](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/cherub/32/1282_2.png) [@Cherub](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cherub)\ **Post date:** [January 3, 2010, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199/6 "2010-01-03T22:46:43Z")
Hello and welcome to the boards ,glad to see you already have some experience with mones …dont know much about the female products but wanted to stop by and wish you a warm welcome and wish you a HAPPY NEW YEAR! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [January 4, 2010, 9:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interested-to-join-in/35199/7 "2010-01-04T21:43:57Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.