# Interesting test tomorrow night (maybe)

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 6, 2009, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795 "2009-02-06T05:30:10Z")\
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**Author:** ![badbobbyj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@badbobbyj](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/badbobbyj)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2009, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/1 "2009-02-06T05:30:10Z")

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Ok so I get this email out of the blue from a gal I went to High School with (20+ years ago). Quite litterally had not spoken with her since graduation. I remember her being pretty cute and she asked me to meet her and a few other old classmates for drinks tomorrow night.

Strangely other than her they are not people I remember ever hanging with back then and in fact one person invited is someone I beat the snot out of in first grade and again sophomore year (long story but it was well deserved!). All said only about a group of 5 or 6 people all gals except for the one guy I got in the fight with and one other guy who is his life partner.

I’ve been doing quite a bit of experimenting since starting with the pheros a couple months ago but still consider myself a bit of a newb. But I thought this might be an interesting test given the circumstances.

Here is what I have that I can choose from…

a314, instant gentleman, shine(2x), Openess(2x), Honesty (2x), Ammo(2x), CTTM2 (almost empty damn leaky bottle), [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), TUTH, p83, MEO-EST

Venue is a sports bar so definately alcohol involved… I seem to recall her havinga bit of a crush on me in high school and she is still single and went out of her way to track me down. Looking for a good kick ass mix from what I have.

Any help is much appreciated!!!

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**Author:** ![badbobbyj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@badbobbyj](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/badbobbyj)\
**Post date:** [February 6, 2009, 11:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/2 "2009-02-06T23:46:17Z")

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> [@badbobbyj](#):
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> Ok so I get this email out of the blue from a gal I went to High School with (20+ years ago). Quite litterally had not spoken with her since graduation. I remember her being pretty cute and she asked me to meet her and a few other old classmates for drinks tomorrow night.
> 
> Strangely other than her they are not people I remember ever hanging with back then and in fact one person invited is someone I beat the snot out of in first grade and again sophomore year (long story but it was well deserved!). All said only about a group of 5 or 6 people all gals except for the one guy I got in the fight with and one other guy who is his life partner.
> 
> I’ve been doing quite a bit of experimenting since starting with the pheros a couple months ago but still consider myself a bit of a newb. But I thought this might be an interesting test given the circumstances.
> 
> Here is what I have that I can choose from…
> 
> a314, instant gentleman, shine(2x), Openess(2x), Honesty (2x), Ammo(2x), CTTM2 (almost empty damn leaky bottle), Instant Female Magic, TUTH, p83, MEO-EST
> 
> Venue is a sports bar so definately alcohol involved… I seem to recall her havinga bit of a crush on me in high school and she is still single and went out of her way to track me down. Looking for a good kick ass mix from what I have.
> 
> Any help is much appreciated!!!

Nothing?

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**Author:** ![SinisterSam](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sinistersam/32/407_2.png) [@SinisterSam](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SinisterSam)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2009, 12:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/3 "2009-02-07T00:05:06Z")

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> [@badbobbyj](#):
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> Ok so I get this email out of the blue from a gal I went to High School with (20+ years ago). Quite litterally had not spoken with her since graduation. I remember her being pretty cute and she asked me to meet her and a few other old classmates for drinks tomorrow night.
> 
> Strangely other than her they are not people I remember ever hanging with back then and in fact one person invited is someone I beat the snot out of in first grade and again sophomore year (long story but it was well deserved!). All said only about a group of 5 or 6 people all gals except for the one guy I got in the fight with and one other guy who is his life partner.
> 
> I’ve been doing quite a bit of experimenting since starting with the pheros a couple months ago but still consider myself a bit of a newb. But I thought this might be an interesting test given the circumstances.
> 
> Here is what I have that I can choose from…
> 
> a314, instant gentleman, shine(2x), Openess(2x), Honesty (2x), Ammo(2x), CTTM2 (almost empty damn leaky bottle), Instant Female Magic, TUTH, p83, MEO-EST
> 
> Venue is a sports bar so definately alcohol involved… I seem to recall her havinga bit of a crush on me in high school and she is still single and went out of her way to track me down. Looking for a good kick ass mix from what I have.
> 
> Any help is much appreciated!!!

I’m no expert but a314 is supposed to work pretty well on slightly older women. I have experienced this as well (long story). If you are trying to zero-in on the one woman, Instant Honesty might facilitate the bonding and let the -none in the a314 do it’s job… The ammo and IFM pair seems pretty promising too. Sometimes I over-think and over-do mixes (“all this stuff should work, so I’ll combine it all like a mad scientist!”) and everything inevitably goes haywire. I would say keep it simple, maybe a314 layered with some [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) or Honesty… Personally, the a314/IH mix has seemed to work for me. But don’t just take my word for it.

Whatever you choose, I really hope it works out.  
BTW if that same guy from HS gives you a hard time, beat his ass a third time! 😃

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**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2009, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/4 "2009-02-07T00:12:30Z")

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> [@SinisterSam](#):
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> I’m no expert but a314 is supposed to work pretty well on slightly older women. I have experienced this as well (long story). If you are trying to zero-in on the one woman, Instant Honesty might facilitate the bonding and let the -none in the a314 do it’s job… The ammo and IFM pair seems pretty promising too.

A314 isn’t sexual or really for attraction…it’s more for respect & the alpha vibe at work…

Here’s what I’d suggest…

- [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) for the attraction
- P83 to intensify the mix (and add some sexy umpf)
- Meo-EST gets teh women fliiiirty
- A few splashes of IS of course
- And then add on of the chatty phero’s…I’d go for IO or CTTM2

😃

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**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2009, 12:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/5 "2009-02-07T00:21:10Z")

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> [@Xiphoid](#):
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> A314 isn’t sexual or really for attraction…it’s more for respect & the alpha vibe at work…

I have to disagree with Xiphoid on this one. While it isn’t primarily designed to attract women, it still does an amazing job of it.

I’ve used it myself for that purpose and oh my… does it work!

Musk

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**Author:** ![badbobbyj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@badbobbyj](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/badbobbyj)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2009, 12:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/6 "2009-02-07T00:36:27Z")

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Well my typical work day mix is a314 and one of the socials usually shine or sometimes openess if I feel like being a little chatty. Ammo has been very hit and miss alone but I did recently head to a bar with Ammo, Honesty and p83 and had some interesting results but not spectacular given the richness and drunkeness of the environment.

The fact that after not hearing from her in 20+ years that she has emailed me every day this week to make sure I am going is probably going to help.. A bit confused by this as other than her asking me to a dance in high school I dont remember ever talking to her any other time.

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**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2009, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/7 "2009-02-07T00:40:55Z")

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> [@badbobbyj](#):
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> The fact that after not hearing from her in 20+ years that she has emailed me every day this week to make sure I am going is probably going to help.. A bit confused by this as other than her asking me to a dance in high school I dont remember ever talking to her any other time.

Maybe it’s the good old “the one that got away” thing that’s going on 🙄

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**Author:** ![badbobbyj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@badbobbyj](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/badbobbyj)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2009, 5:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/8 "2009-02-07T05:52:41Z")

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Wow what a waste of time… showed up and not a one person was there that was supposed to be… The highlight of my night was a semi-drunk 40ish soccer mom type at 7-11 in line behind me putting her chin on my shoulder telling me how great I smelled. Woo Hoo…

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**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\
**Post date:** [February 7, 2009, 11:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/9 "2009-02-07T11:56:34Z")

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> [@badbobbyj](#):
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> Wow what a waste of time… showed up and not a one person was there that was supposed to be… The highlight of my night was a semi-drunk 40ish soccer mom type at 7-11 in line behind me putting her chin on my shoulder telling me how great I smelled. Woo Hoo…

Well that’s disappointing…and rude! Did she have a good excuse at least? 😕

What did you end up wearing btw?

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**Author:** ![badbobbyj](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@badbobbyj](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/badbobbyj)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2009, 12:32am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/10 "2009-02-08T00:32:48Z")

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> [@Xiphoid](#):
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> Well that’s disappointing…and rude! Did she have a good excuse at least? 😕
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> What did you end up wearing btw?

Went with 2 sprays Ammo (2x) to my chest, 5 Sprays Openess (2x) to the inside of my wrists and elbows and under my chin and then 2 sprays Honesty (2x) to back of neck and top of head. I know that was a lot of Openess but I’m a chatty person and it does well getting everyone around me talking!

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**Author:** ![Whitehall](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/whitehall/32/1087_2.png) [@Whitehall](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Whitehall)\
**Post date:** [February 8, 2009, 5:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/interesting-test-tomorrow-night-maybe/25795/11 "2009-02-08T17:36:37Z")

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The great thing about women at about age 40 is that their hormonal profile changes. Seems like their bodies are telling them “Last Chance! Get your butt in gear, girl, and get impregnated.”

Seems like from 18 to mid-20’s they are wild and hot, then settle into a nesting routine. Until about 40ish, they seem deliberate and seem to balance their sexual appetites against other life pursuits. Libido is certainly there but they learned to control it better. Around 40 to para-menopause, the heat gets turned up “down below”. I’ve found that well-maintained women in their 40s are what I’ve wanted women to be like all my life - note my signature!

Your friend is beginning to get that urge but might not be willing to close on it. I’d give her some space but keep in contact although you’re probably interested in a younger woman if you’re both the same age.

Of course, some women here will post that I’m all wet in my generalizations. They are generalizations and exceptions abound. But I did a book review in the lounge of “The Alchemy of Love and Lust” by a female medical doctor that backs up my experiences.

BTW, that was a good [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/) mix for such a planned gathering. Ammo underneath it all would work if your friend got very close but the socials worked for everyone.
