# Intro w/ quick question... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 6, 2012, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095 "2012-01-06T03:50:23Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sethsgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Sethsgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sethsgirl)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 3:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/1 "2012-01-06T03:50:23Z")
Hello all! I just received my first order today. I ordered IS/B and TUTH Togo. Couldn’t wait to try it on my husband. He said the IS/B made him feel relaxed and happy, but not necessarily horny - perhaps it had something to do with my grouchy attitude around the same time as the application? 😉 I wanted him to try the TUTH, but was disappointed to find out it was empty! Not one squirt in it. I’m going to call customer service and hopefully they will straighten it all out. It was a real bummer… Anyway, my question is this - will the IS/B affect relatives in an inappropriate way? I’m constantly around my in-laws and I really wouldn’t want to cause awkward feelings with my father-in-law or brothers-in-law. I really only want it to affect my husband. What about blood relatives? I’m a twin with a male and have a great relationship with my father and all three brothers. I was thinking of wearing it when I go out with my husband, but my relatives are the ones who watch our kids and I’d be dropping them off and picking them up. Perhaps I should only use it at bedtime? 😉 Thoughts and advice are appreciated! Thanks. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/2 "2012-01-06T03:55:08Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. Well I guess it is a little too late to make recommendations but you did get get some interesting pheros. Yeah - funny how your wife being in a grouchy mood can kill the mood … Sorry to hear about the TUTH leakage - they will make good on it. I do not think the IS/b will have any inappropriate effects on your relatives unless they were having inappropriate thoughts about you in the first place. Just kidding - sorta. If anything they will probably be a little more protective of you - esp if they are alpha types. Just remember in the future that the TUTH was _your_ idea, not his. and do the guy a favor and tell him _not_ to use it during that irritable time of the month. Otherwise he will be left feeling confused when you hand his head to him. ---
**Author:** ![ochrismongrelo](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ochrismongrelo/32/318_2.png) [@ochrismongrelo](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ochrismongrelo)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/3 "2012-01-06T03:55:57Z")
> [@Sethsgirl](#): > > Hello all! > > I just received my first order today. I ordered IS/B and TUTH Togo. Couldn’t wait to try it on my husband. He said the IS/B made him feel relaxed and happy, but not necessarily horny - perhaps it had something to do with my grouchy attitude around the same time as the application? 😉 I wanted him to try the TUTH, but was disappointed to find out it was empty! Not one squirt in it. I’m going to call customer service and hopefully they will straighten it all out. It was a real bummer… > > Anyway, my question is this - will the IS/B affect relatives in an inappropriate way? I’m constantly around my in-laws and I really wouldn’t want to cause awkward feelings with my father-in-law or brothers-in-law. I really only want it to affect my husband. What about blood relatives? I’m a twin with a male and have a great relationship with my father and all three brothers. I was thinking of wearing it when I go out with my husband, but my relatives are the ones who watch our kids and I’d be dropping them off and picking them up. Perhaps I should only use it at bedtime? 😉 Thoughts and advice are appreciated! Thanks. Hiya! To be honest, my gf has used IS/b on me and it had more of an attention grabbing effect than anything else… like constantly wanting to be all cuddly with her and stuff… I’m not sure how it’d effect other guys because she only uses it around me… but I’m thinking the effect would be similar.. Have you got the $25 gc yet? If ya tell us more about you (like your age, interests with using the mones, how ya found the site) you’ll get the gc 😃 TUTH = yay! Good stuff. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is pretty awesome too. ---
**Author:** ![Sethsgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Sethsgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sethsgirl)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/4 "2012-01-06T06:21:37Z")
I guess I didn’t see the guidelines for the intro (gotta qualify for the gc. [pheromones](https://a314.com/) aren’t cheap, right?) I am a 28 year old female. My husband and I have been married eight years and we have 4 beautiful children. We live in the lovely state of Va. I had heard of pheromones a few years back and dismissed them as a probable scam. However, during some recent readings, I came across them again and my interest was piqued. I’m a research junkie, so I dove in and read what I could find on the internet and quickly discovered this site. I decided to try a few of them out. I got the IS/b for myself. I had wanted IS/a thinking my personality would be closer to IS/b and therefore wanting something to offset it instead of enhance it. (Curious about the alpha female affects especially.) My husband probably doesn’t need the “encouragement” these pheromones should elicit, but I couldn’t resist the idea of trying it out on him! I got TUTH for him (okay, selfishly for me 😉 We already have a passionate relationship and he’s definitly “still got it”, but after taking care of four kids all day (one is only 6 mos) I’m usually too wiped out to be as “frisky” as I want to be. So I was hoping it would give me that extra something to help me be more aggressive. I’d love to try more out - especially the instant shine. My husband is always the life of the party and my personality usually prefers the backseat. I’m so curious to see how it’d affect me and those around me. So, there is a little more info about me. Hope it helps. ---
**Author:** ![Sethsgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Sethsgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sethsgirl)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 6:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/5 "2012-01-06T06:27:10Z")
@ bosshank - thanks for putting my mind at ease about using the is/b around relatives. My husband and all his brothers and father are definitely alpha male types, though, so I’ll take the protectiveness into consideration while using it. @ichrismongrelo - thanks for the tips to get the gc. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/6 "2012-01-06T17:00:28Z")
There is a thread in my signature block that deals with guys using pheros to help things at home. It is really for guys but give it a read. And if he seems to be open to all this maybe have him read it to. Or print it out for him. And yes I know all about tired at the end of the evening with several kids … ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 6:16pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/7 "2012-01-06T18:16:03Z")
Hi there sethsgirl and a warm welcome to the forum! You’ve gotten some attention from the guys already and I’d like to focus a bit more on the attitude to harden the softer vibe of IS/b. However, the issue is that you will find that the attraction will not come immediately. The hubby already has an ‘mental’ mone picture of who you are. With the introduction of this external mone signature, it may take a few exposures to get him to correlate this new vibe in you. I wish you well in your mone usage and tell you that once you’ve done some experimentation, checked out these commercial line of mones, you could look at TAL and TAH to get a more significant alpha girl vibe… 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Sethsgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Sethsgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sethsgirl)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 8:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/8 "2012-01-06T20:10:02Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > There is a thread in my signature block that deals with guys using pheros to help things at home. It is really for guys but give it a read. And if he seems to be open to all this maybe have him read it to. Or print it out for him. > > And yes I know all about tired at the end of the evening with several kids … I checked the link out. Awesome posts! Perhaps given the current chaos with four littles and my stress levels, I should have gotten him Female Magic! 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Sethsgirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/3ab097/32.png) [@Sethsgirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sethsgirl)\ **Post date:** [January 6, 2012, 8:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro-w-quick-question/54095/9 "2012-01-06T20:15:57Z")
> [@1Alpha](#): > > Hi there sethsgirl and a warm welcome to the forum! You’ve gotten some attention from the guys already and I’d like to focus a bit more on the attitude to harden the softer vibe of IS/b. However, the issue is that you will find that the attraction will not come immediately. The hubby already has an ‘mental’ mone picture of who you are. > With the introduction of this external mone signature, it may take a few exposures to get him to correlate this new vibe in you. > > I wish you well in your mone usage and tell you that once you’ve done some experimentation, checked out these commercial line of mones, you could look at TAL and TAH to get a more significant alpha girl vibe… 😃 Ah, I had read that about people you are familiar with already having a metal [pheromone](https://a314.com/) image stamp, but had forgotten. Thanks for that. I’m thinking of using it daily, but being subtle so he gets used to it, but not overpowered. I’d originally wanted the is/a, but it was unavailable at the time. Will try out a more alpha mone when I feel I understand the affects of is/b.