# Intro **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [March 8, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/26839 "2009-03-08T02:52:57Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jules105](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/49beb7/32.png) [@jules105](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jules105)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2009, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/26839/1 "2009-03-08T02:52:57Z")
Hi, This is Jules. I am 41, female and live in upstate NY, USA. I am here out of curiosity to see if pheromones could help me. I have heard a little bit about the [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/) through advertising, tonight I am watching a show on The Discovery Channel about attraction between men and women and it got me more interested. I have always wanted to marry and have children, but due to being in an abusive relationship for 6 years, I have lost my ability to be intimate with anyone or even socialise very much at all. I really want to get back into the game of life and find a life partner in the near future. I look forward to learning more here. Jules ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2009, 11:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/26839/2 "2009-03-08T11:13:48Z")
HI Jules, welcome to the forum! Sounds like you could use a bit of a confidence boost and vavoom to get you back onto the dating scene…snag yourself that perfect someone 🙂 It’s great that you’ve done some research on phero’s and know a bit what they are about. They aren’t magic potions unfortunately but they can certainly give you that extra boost in most areas of your life. I’d love to recommend a few phero’s for you to try but it’s a lot easier to do if I know abit more about you. How would you describe your personality? How do you interact with others? Could you also tell us a bit about what you are hoping to use phero’s for, other than finding that special someone? General social situations, family & friends, worklife etc? So tell us a bit more about yourself and what your goals with using phero’s are and we’ll point you in the right direction with some phero’s to try…and get you qualified for that gift certificate 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2009, 12:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/26839/3 "2009-03-08T12:32:21Z")
Hi Jules, Welcome to Pherotalk 🙂 My family has a farm upstate. Love the area but the snow fall totals kill me. 😛 I am sorry about your abusive relationship. It can wreck havoc on a persons self esteem and confidence. I am glad your ready to get back out there because there are way more good men out there then there are ass holes. 😉 First we need to find out more about your personality and how you interact with others now. This will help us point you to products that will fit your needs better. There are products that can help you with confidence as well as attract others so mones can really improve quality of life and interaction. I look forward to your reply so I can get you started with a GC to the store. Be sure to participate in the forum when you have time. There is a fabulous bunch of people here and we have a great time. Tisha Hostess/Guide ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [March 8, 2009, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/26839/4 "2009-03-08T16:57:14Z")
> [@jules105](#): > > … I have lost my ability to be intimate with anyone or even socialise very much at all. I really want to get back into the game of life and find a life partner in the near future… Welcome Jules. [Pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) can only be part of your approach. If you attract people and then push them away you will be back where you started. There are some products here aimed at stimulating social interactions. You might consider them as a starting point. io - helps to stimulate conversations, often of a light nature. IH - helps to stimulate conversations, tending towards heavier or more emotional topics. There are also a number of products that stimulate sexual attraction. I’m sure the ladies will fill you in on them after you tell us a bit more about yourself. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [March 9, 2009, 4:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/26839/5 "2009-03-09T16:19:23Z")
Hi there, Welcome. Sorry to hear about your past relationship. Wish you all the best in future. Tell us more about your personality. Are you shy or outgoing? Do you have any people as your target? Then we can recommedn the right phero for you to try. Cheers