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From your description, Ammo and Instant Shine or IO might be the way to go.
Ammo gives an all round sexy/social/masculine feel that is usable in a wide range of social situations.
Instant Shine is a fun/happy/feelgood and socially confident phero that works very vell on its own and particularly alongside Ammo.
IO - Helps loosen tongues and promote flowing conversation - A great icebreaker and again, works well with the above.
Have a read of this thread for all the basics on choosing and using pheros effectively.