# intro **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 21, 2014, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182 "2014-02-21T04:42:56Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![timlewis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@timlewis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/timlewis)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 4:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/1 "2014-02-21T04:42:56Z")
Hi everyone-just wanted to introduce myself. I’m 35 and single, hoping to find love sooner than later and also to have people around me open up more and just be overall honest when talking to me. Unfortunately, I’ve had numerous “friends” deceive me so I find it hard to get close and become friends with a lot of people. I’ve always heard about [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) and used google and found this site. I’m a very friendly guy and am personable so it’d be nice to find friends who are trustworthy! So, in conclusion, my main goal here is to potentially find a girlfriend and also to have co-workers/friends not lie to me anymore-no matter if I want to hear the truth or not! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 4:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/2 "2014-02-21T04:58:21Z")
Hi Tim! Well, IH is not terribly expensive in the TOGO, and that seems like answer here. I will get you the link in just a moment. > **[Instant Honesty – Deep Relational Communication Pheromone – You Won’t Believe...](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/)** > > Instant Honesty has the amazing ability to get those around you to tell you all kinds of stuff they probably shouldn't. First introduced over 18 years ago, Honesty is famous for being the “spooky” formula that helps make friends fast, become closer... For the first time in a very long time, the 2X size is available. Most people use two sprays of 1X IH. Get the 2X size if you can and if Honesty is truly what you desire. It works as advertised. So, you would normally use 1 spray of 2X in most offices, small rooms, cars, etc. 40 applications. You may increase to 2 sprays, but that is pretty heavy. ---
**Author:** ![timlewis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@timlewis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/timlewis)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 7:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/3 "2014-02-21T07:13:53Z")
Thank you! Your opinion…would you recommend instant openness at all? How would you say that compares to instant honesty? ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 8:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/4 "2014-02-21T08:09:46Z")
> [@timlewis](#): > > Thank you! Your opinion…would you recommend instant openness at all? How would you say that compares to instant honesty? IO is best for initiating conversations. If you’re already having them, IH is far more practical. Both are good, but the best value would be IH. ---
**Author:** ![timlewis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@timlewis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/timlewis)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 5:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/5 "2014-02-21T17:10:49Z")
> [@monesmadedoit](#): > > IO is best for initiating conversations. If you’re already having them, IH is far more practical. Both are good, but the best value would be IH. Ok thanks! Now if I want a girl I liked to open up to me and admit her feelings and I’ve known her for years would you still recommend the instant honesty over the instant openness ? ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 6:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/6 "2014-02-21T18:17:19Z")
Yes, I would. ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [February 21, 2014, 8:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/7 "2014-02-21T20:23:23Z")
> [@timlewis](#): > > Ok thanks! Now if I want a girl I liked to open up to me and admit her feelings and I’ve known her for years would you still recommend the instant honesty over the instant openness ? You should have some [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) in there too - IH is great for deep, bonding conversation but its one great risk is that it can go too-deep and have them try to make you an emotional pillow/crutch. Which may initially sound good but is actually a one-way ticket to the friendzone. Adding Instant Shine will steer the IH in a more feelgood/conspiring direction, which with a bit of conversational steering on your part will have her sharing her deepest turn-ons etc, which is much better for attraction. And at 35, you could maybe do with a bit of TUTH in the mix to add a more overt sexual element - you don’t need a great deal and the IH/IS will help moderate it and keep the “walking hardon” vibe in check but will help add to the sexual tension of any encounter. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![timlewis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/73ab20/32.png) [@timlewis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/timlewis)\ **Post date:** [February 22, 2014, 1:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/8 "2014-02-22T01:23:19Z")
Thanks for the advice. What would happen if you use turn up the heat by itself? Say I think I have friend who is attracted to me but I’m not 100% certain… ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 25, 2014, 2:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/intro/61182/9 "2014-02-25T02:07:22Z")
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