# Introducing myself; Hi all !

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [April 8, 2011, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764 "2011-04-08T00:53:04Z")\
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**Author:** ![Karsa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/258eb7/32.png) [@Karsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Karsa)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2011, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/1 "2011-04-08T00:53:04Z")

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Hello !

I am from central Europe, now studying in UK for a masters programme. So 23 years old, and just recently considered mones as a viable option. I mean, heard about the stuff before, but the net is full of scams, never seen reliable reviews and so on. Just had a really bad night at a party a few days ago, got pissed off and decided to find out more. Good thing I happened upon this forum 😃

So, uhm, personality. I mostly rated as an ISFJ, now did the test again, INFJ. High scores on introverted, feeling, judging. A bit undecided between sensing and intuitive.

Anyway, I find it quite easy to get to know someone intimately and talk openly about deeper things. I can always sympathize with someone, and I’m willing to listen to their problems and help. Guess being sincere has its advantages, though being the nice guy can both provide good opportunities and close other doors. Also, even if I’m okay with the opening-up part, and getting someone to feel comfortable and smile, the problems lie well, before and after 😛

I don’t feel very comfortable in larger groups, and even if I do decently in 1on1 interactions, I tend to get unnoticed if more people are involved. Not the most confident person, and quite shy every now and then. So the problem would be with being noticed, and lacking initiative. I’m working on the part, but some additional help would be great 🙂 a boost in ‘approachability’, to get to start conversations easier.

Also being bad with the confidence means also being uncomfortable with having the initiative when it comes to getting blunt and, well, dirty 🆒 People come, complain, and then leave with a smile to reconcile and be horny with the boyfriends they just argued with. Well, it’s not like I don’t want to help my friends, but I woudn’t mind if they’d be more physically attracted to me 🙄

I’m decent looking, so it shouldn’t be a big problem. However I tend to have quite a number of lady friends that I know for some time ( so already got over the being open and honest part ), with which I experienced many situations when all the things were, well, just right. Some of them go right untill the end, but the bulk are just like, good conversation, good vibe, small personal space, good kino but lack the physical chemistry. It’s so close, and if I push it I just get a LJBF.

To mention, I mostly go towards younger girls ( my age or undergrads ). A lot of opportunities, here in university ^^ So in summary, I’d need to get a bit more confident, have girls smile to me across the bar, and some help with getting her horny 🙂 Just need to get out the nice guy framework every now and then. Action ! I don’t expect mones to do the thing for me, and I need only some advantage to push things where I want to. I’ve also started being proactive and reading a bit of PUA literature :o

I’m quite imposing ( 1m95, about 6’5’’ ), so I thought I might overdo it with A314. Maybe IG, for working environment ? ]

I was thinking about some IS, [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), TUTH. Never tried, so guess I will order some to go’s and see how it works. Any other ideas ? Also, how long do you expect for things to get up here ( in UK ) ? Meanwhile, I’ll get to skim the forum and read the basic stuff 😃 any advice ?

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**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2011, 1:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/2 "2011-04-08T01:02:41Z")

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Welcome to the forum.

IG is a good idea for giving a comforting male vibration, at work or with the ladies. IH and IO will make conversations easier to start and keep going.

Ammo will be good for after you have a rapport built with someone, to add a bit of sexual interest. Perhaps at the second meeting. It can help keep you out of the friend zone. The ammo has the same amount of anone as tuth, but also has some buffering ingredients to mute some of the less desirable effects of anone. I suggest starting with ammo for the sexy vibe and saving the tuth for later.

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**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2011, 1:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/3 "2011-04-08T01:03:41Z")

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Hey Karsa, I’m introverted too 🙄 But that can be to our advantage, you found this place right lol.

I think the socials would do very well for you to help you get more noticed and not to be as shy. You may want to try IS or IO for that. In either case it will help yourself and those around you be in better spirits and friendlier. I’ve tried IO and my friends wouldn’t stop talking!

Personally I love using IG as it subtly give you respect from those around you. I wouldn’t think it would make you intimidating (unless alot of A314) but more trustworthy or someone worth helping out.

Also for more of a socially sexy vibe there is ammo, with could be worth exploring mixed with the socials. TUTH is more for the bedroom with your gf if you know what I mean.

Definitely check out the mens section and give the socials a good look at, the most important thing is to build comfort with those around you as opposed to jumping right into sexual!!

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**Author:** ![Karsa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/258eb7/32.png) [@Karsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Karsa)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2011, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/4 "2011-04-08T02:18:41Z")

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Important, I know, I know. Just stating my priorities 🙂 I will make up an order soon, can’t wait to check the results. Didn’t expect to have people answering so fast either. The right place, indeed 😉

It’s not very clear to me, which are aimed specifically at interacting with women, and which have a general effect ( including affecting your own mood ) ?

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**Author:** ![TwistedOstrich](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/twistedostrich/32/627_2.png) [@TwistedOstrich](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TwistedOstrich)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2011, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/5 "2011-04-08T02:24:35Z")

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They can all have some level of self effect, the key is testing… also different people are receptive in different ways and like different signatures. For example, women of your age can shy away from the more sexual vibes and rather have something more approachable or comforting.

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**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2011, 4:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/6 "2011-04-08T04:00:06Z")

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Hi Karsa and welcome to the forum! I loved the details you provided, clear and straight forward. I thank you for that! 🙂

For a working environment, yes, I’d say start out with IG, though, you could also get the A314/b, spray, and compare them. The main reason for starting out with IG is because it’s easier to handle than A314 for someone who is starting out with mones AND introverted. Once you can get a good handle on IG, then, A314 will be that much more easy to take advantage of his Extreme Alpha signal… like a Clint Eastwood!!! 🙂

For socials, I’d say that IO would be great for the larger group situation. You are quite articulate, so I’d think that just opening up the gates of convo’s vibe with IO would get you comfortable to be in that situation. The other mone that I think would help for 1 on 1 and larger groups, is IS. I think of it as my smile in a bottle… not only a smile for me in self effects, but a comfortable to be around you vibe to others in my mone cloud.

To help out in getting things out of the LJBF stage, I think [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) that I just mentioned along with AMMO would amp up the sexually inclined attraction. Though, in all cases, you’ll need to steer your attitude to be in accord with the mones chemical signal… your actions, attitude and mone signal need to be in congruence to get the most out of the mones you do use.

Take a look at my sig below, both Steve O’s, Intro to Mones and Tisha’s How to know what is a Hit to get you started… once you know how to use these tools, these will help you open ALL doors of opportunity!!! Or, at least, get them opened up enough for you to push through to your goals!!!

Thanks for posting and I’ll check on you later!!! 🙂

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**Author:** ![Karsa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/258eb7/32.png) [@Karsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Karsa)\
**Post date:** [April 8, 2011, 9:58am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/7 "2011-04-08T09:58:54Z")

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Thanks for the details, 1Alpha. I’d give them a try and post the results as soon as I get them. And no need to thank me, it’s in my interest to be accurate in order to get good help from the awesome guys around here 🆒

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**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\
**Post date:** [April 10, 2011, 10:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/8 "2011-04-10T22:59:05Z")

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Welcome to Pherotalk Karsa!

My team already assisted and the rest of the guys down in the men section will continue to assist you along this journey.

Right now I am ill and unable to do anything more than just welcome you.

**Your gc was issued! 🙂**

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**Author:** ![Karsa](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/258eb7/32.png) [@Karsa](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Karsa)\
**Post date:** [April 10, 2011, 11:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introducing-myself-hi-all/49764/9 "2011-04-10T23:12:09Z")

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No problem, thank you nonetheless. I have ordered already and waiting on the stuff to get here 🙂

Take care of your health !
