# Introduction and questions on what will suit me

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introduction-and-questions-on-what-will-suit-me/1340>\
**Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\
**Created:** [December 31, 2006, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introduction-and-questions-on-what-will-suit-me/1340 "2006-12-31T00:25:29Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 4\
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**Author:** ![snowy](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/58f4c7/32.png) [@snowy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snowy)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2006, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introduction-and-questions-on-what-will-suit-me/1340/1 "2006-12-31T00:25:29Z")

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Ive ordered and am awaiting most of the mens products in to go size: instant shine, instant honesty, turn up the heat, instant openness, ammunition, instant female magic and a314 white label.

Ive been practicing pickup for getting on three years now and I am good but not amazing. I have no problem opening sets on the street and in bars and clubs. Im 22 fairly goodlooking and ive been told by freinds that I can come accross as intimidatingly confident and aloof. Im used to girls being attracted to me but i dont close nearly as many as I potentially could because I can come accross as a too much of a player.

It seems that shine, honesty and openess 5 days a week should take the edge of this with women and men. From reading this forum A314 sounds like it might make me even more intimidating and so I should be careful when I wear it.

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**Author:** ![MarkL](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/markl/32/825_2.png) [@MarkL](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MarkL)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2006, 12:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introduction-and-questions-on-what-will-suit-me/1340/2 "2006-12-31T00:40:37Z")

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Heya and welcome to the forum here. You’ve got a lot of tools to experiment with, get used to.

Yes, the A314 could make you more intimidating … but maybe that’s beside the point. What do you get out of others experiencing you as intimidating?

If you get some insight into that, you’ll be well served.

BTW, lots of excellent folks here .. clever and wise and helpful, or at least willing to be.

You might want to think about tactics for learning how to handle the powertools before you adopt a “shine, honesty and openness 5 days a week” policy…

Cheers. Welcome again.

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**Author:** ![sigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dec6dc/32.png) [@sigma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sigma)\
**Post date:** [December 31, 2006, 12:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introduction-and-questions-on-what-will-suit-me/1340/3 "2006-12-31T00:43:11Z")

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Definately want to focus on some of the social/comfort oriented products and pheromones. [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/), Instant Openness, and Instant Shine should do you well. I definately wouldn’t recommend A314 for you. Not only is it a bit intimidating in nature, its also very serious.

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**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\
**Post date:** [January 1, 2007, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/introduction-and-questions-on-what-will-suit-me/1340/4 "2007-01-01T20:47:49Z")

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Hey there, Snowy!

Welcome to the forum. Sounds like you have lots of stuff to try, I know you’ll find something that fits.

Your gift cert should show up in your inbox at any moment. Cheers!