# IO vs IH: which helps a girl open up around me more?

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [April 18, 2011, 12:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/io-vs-ih-which-helps-a-girl-open-up-around-me-more/49930 "2011-04-18T12:15:30Z")\
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**Author:** ![lovegin](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lovegin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lovegin)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2011, 12:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/io-vs-ih-which-helps-a-girl-open-up-around-me-more/49930/1 "2011-04-18T12:15:30Z")

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Which seems to be more effective at helping a girl open up around me? IO or IH? Which have you guys had more sucess with?

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2011, 12:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/io-vs-ih-which-helps-a-girl-open-up-around-me-more/49930/2 "2011-04-18T12:23:43Z")

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For closeness and depth of conversation - IH, by far.

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**Author:** ![xev](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xev/32/1993_2.png) [@xev](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/xev)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2011, 12:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/io-vs-ih-which-helps-a-girl-open-up-around-me-more/49930/3 "2011-04-18T12:27:32Z")

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If this is someone you already have met and will be talking with one on one, or in a small quite group, I’d say IH.

But there is no way of knowing for sure except to try them out. It seems to me that people either have a very obvious reaction to betanol or none at all.

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**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2011, 5:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/io-vs-ih-which-helps-a-girl-open-up-around-me-more/49930/4 "2011-04-18T17:49:13Z")

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You can also combo them to get little variations. A little bit of IO combo’d with a little more of IH gives the person a willingness to keep the deep conversation going. Reverse that and it gives the person to keep the conversation going, but with a little deepness to keep it balanced.

The idea is to experiment to get variations that suit different scenarios 🙂

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**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\
**Post date:** [April 18, 2011, 6:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/io-vs-ih-which-helps-a-girl-open-up-around-me-more/49930/5 "2011-04-18T18:03:42Z")

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IO is quantity.  
IH is quality.

For ‘opening up’ and being silly - IO.  
For really opening up as in personally, secrets, desires etc - IH.

If you’ve got both - use both!