# Is/a for people who come on strong? Is it too much? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 1, 2009, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623 "2009-03-01T18:44:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Axus](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/axus/32/2296_2.png) [@Axus](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Axus)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/1 "2009-03-01T18:44:48Z")
I’ve JUST begun to run out of my test pheros that I bought, and one of them was Is/a. I haven’t seen a lot of results with it through the 40 or so sprays contained in the to-go bottle (I usually apply 3, since any more seems to be too much for my own nose to handle smell-wise, regardless of where I spray). Maybe I STILL haven’t found the best combo of application points?..I’ve tried every combo that I could find on the forum. I’ve been told by many, many friends that I come on strong, regardless of my stature and the fact that I don’t feel like I come on strong at ALL, and I’m wondering if Is/a is too much alpha on top of my natural ‘alpha’. Should I maybe try Is/b? I’m worried that all of that domineering quality scares men away or is too intimidating for them, and therefore they do absolutely nothing…O\_o’ Obviously something I don’t want. Does anyone have any advice for me? I’m really stuck. -\_-’ ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 7:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/2 "2009-03-01T19:00:54Z")
> [@Axus](#): > > I’ve JUST begun to run out of my test pheros that I bought, and one of them was Is/a. I haven’t seen a lot of results with it through the 40 or so sprays contained in the to-go bottle (I usually apply 3, since any more seems to be too much for my own nose to handle smell-wise, regardless of where I spray). Maybe I STILL haven’t found the best combo of application points?..I’ve tried every combo that I could find on the forum. > > I’ve been told by many, many friends that I come on strong, regardless of my stature and the fact that I don’t feel like I come on strong at ALL, and I’m wondering if Is/a is too much alpha on top of my natural ‘alpha’. Should I maybe try Is/b? I’m worried that all of that domineering quality scares men away or is too intimidating for them, and therefore they do absolutely nothing…O\_o’ Obviously something I don’t want. > > Does anyone have any advice for me? I’m really stuck. -\_-’ You should _ **absolutely** _ try IS/B, it’s much softer, more easygoing, light and bubbly fun kind of girly energy. Some of us need that from time to time 😛 (like me). It’s good to be queen, but sometimes girls just wanna have fun, you know? 😉 You might also like something from the Liquid Sunshine series (my favorites were MX138 and MX140, I think at least one of those has been available recently) and MX135 (also available in MX235 and MX335, only the scents are different). ---
**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\ **Post date:** [March 1, 2009, 7:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/3 "2009-03-01T19:48:13Z")
> [@Carrie](#): > > You might also like something from the Liquid Sunshine series (my favorites were MX138 and MX140, I think at least one of those has been available recently) and MX135 (also available in MX235 and MX335, only the scents are different). The only one of these that is currently available is MX135. 235 and 335 have been out for some time. I would also recommend either IS/b or MX135. IS/b can definitely soften you up a bit, if that’s what you need. The MX135 in my experience always delivers an obvious air of ~_sparkly super star_~, which comes not only from the reactions of others but the self effects it delivers. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 2, 2009, 12:56pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/4 "2009-03-02T12:56:28Z")
lol, _what they said_ 😃 i dont think IS/A is too much, its just too close to what you already deliver 🙂 IS/B will feel very different, i think those who are naturally alpha benefit by it, although it will be a departure from your usual so it may take a day to get used to. what Carrie and Ariadne said are great choices and would be my choice too. plus the TAH dominant mixes such as these are really alot of fun. when your having fun, people are drawn to that 😉 ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [March 3, 2009, 10:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/5 "2009-03-03T22:42:51Z")
From what I’ve heard the IS/a not doing anything is a sign that men are very intimidated by you. Sooo, yes you do need the IS/b. It’s weird though, because some guys like really aggressive, dominant women and will more more attracted to you like my TG is with me when I spray IS/a on my already dominant self. I haven’t tried the IS/b I just bought yet, but I’m willing to bet it’s gonna help balance my dominant personality and get me hits from guys I’ve never gotten hits from (probably more passive guys). This could either be a good thing or a bad thing depending on the type of guy you like so I’ll probably flip flop the from IS/a to IS/b to get different hits. But if your getting no hits then you need to get IS/b so you are balanced. ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 2:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/6 "2009-03-04T14:00:39Z")
the only problem with using these mixes to balance you is that sometimes you do not feel congruent wearing a mix that is your polar opposite. there are days i ought to wear TAH heavy mixes, but because im really not there mentally, its like me wearing heels to a football game. i think experimenting with the mixes to see how we individually feel while wearing them helps us to better figure out/tailor our usage. i have both [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) A and B, and i wouldnt want to be without both. they are both necessary to my accessarizing 😃 ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 3:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/7 "2009-03-04T15:19:05Z")
Definitely try the IS/B to see if that helps “soften” you up a bit. My other recommendation is that if you find people are intimidated by you, use quite a bit of socials like IO and Shine. You may even find just those two alone can give you awesome results. IS/A can be a bit much for me too but if I use it w/ those two products, my results are spectacular. IO and Shine are a must, IMO. ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 4, 2009, 7:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-for-people-who-come-on-strong-is-it-too-much/26623/8 "2009-03-04T19:59:36Z")
I agree, you should definitely try the IS/B. And also some MX274!!! lol, I’m covered in it today, and its definitely a brightener!!!