# IS/a makes people ignore me or seem intimidated: TAL vs TAH and trying IS/B **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [December 30, 2009, 7:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-makes-people-ignore-me-or-seem-intimidated-tal-vs-tah-and-trying-is-b/35161 "2009-12-30T07:12:32Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Sugabee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugabee/32/432_2.png) [@Sugabee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugabee)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2009, 7:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-makes-people-ignore-me-or-seem-intimidated-tal-vs-tah-and-trying-is-b/35161/1 "2009-12-30T07:12:32Z")
☹ Ive tried out IS/a for 2 weeks, in varying doses, starting from 1 spray to up to 5 sprays during those 2 weeks at different places - work, restaurant, stores, the mall. I get ignored a lot, people can’t keep eye contact with me, kind of coldish, intimidated, and no one will talk to me! It also makes me feel somewhat bitchy too. I get more attention/affection when I’m wearing nothing (no pheros) than when I use IS/a on myself! I guess I can use it for times when I want to be invisible. Does anyone have a theory behind this? ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2009, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-makes-people-ignore-me-or-seem-intimidated-tal-vs-tah-and-trying-is-b/35161/2 "2009-12-30T10:08:57Z")
> [@Sugabee](#): > > ☹ > Ive tried out IS/a for 2 weeks, in varying doses, starting from 1 spray to up to 5 sprays during those 2 weeks at different places - work, restaurant, stores, the mall. I get ignored a lot, people can’t keep eye contact with me, kind of coldish, intimidated, and no one will talk to me! It also makes me feel somewhat bitchy too. I get more attention/affection when I’m wearing nothing (no pheros) than when I use IS/a on myself! I guess I can use it for times when I want to be invisible. Does anyone have a theory behind this? What your normal personality like ? Are you more alpha or beta ? Most girls find that they are either a TAL girl or a TAH girl. IS/A is TAL which is more dominant strong capable alpha female. A lot of men especially executive types and other alpha males find this sexy. Beta males can be intimidated by this signature. Especially now that there are no copulins in the formula anymore. IS/B is softer, more girly, sweeter, gives more of a submissive vibe. Both alpha and beta males like this signature. You may be more of a TAH girl or the men in the environment your testing may be more attracted to a TAH girl. Think of it like this. IS/A is the Angelina Jolie persona. Men are in awe but only the alpha’s can deal with her. Johnny Lee Miller who she pursued, was married to and divorced. He is Beta in personality and she probably chewed him up and spit him out. The two alphas … Brad Pitt, Billy Bob Thornton. Billy Bob is a alpha with more of a bad boy streak, His direction was different then Angelina’s but he could handle her personality more. Brad who started out as a Alpha but is quickly being pushed into Beta by her strong personality. Its a sexy personality that people stand in awe of but not all men can take on. IS/A gives you some of that persona. It may not match your own well or it may be making you come on over powering. If your not naturally alpha and wearing it around those who know you well they may be feeling a bit confused, they sense change or a growing and some people pull back and observe when this occurs so you could get delayed reactions. IS/B you can compare to Marilyn Monroe. Soft sweet sexy men want to take care of her. They dont feel threatened by her. Don’t get me wrong the lady wasn’t stupid. She knew how to play up her personality and could use it to attract both Alpha…JFK and Betas Joe DiMaggio. Some women find they can pull off both TAL and TAH. But usually it takes a conscious effort to do so. I am more of a TAL girl. I feel more sexy and confident when I use IS/A. I can wear TAH but it makes me feel a little loopy and I tend to clash with people sometimes when I wear it because they try to lead me more. But it does work well for when I want more attention and to be treated softer. So that’s my theory on TAH and TAL or IS/A and IS/B Keep in mind although many women agree with me its just our experience with it and I cant say for sure with 100% accuracy without knowing you that this is the reason your having trouble. Usually when someone asks which one they should get I ask them about there natural personality and the environment they spend time in as well as how others treat them now and how they want to be treated. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Sugabee](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugabee/32/432_2.png) [@Sugabee](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sugabee)\ **Post date:** [December 31, 2009, 3:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-makes-people-ignore-me-or-seem-intimidated-tal-vs-tah-and-trying-is-b/35161/3 "2009-12-31T03:24:18Z")
I’m not sure if I would consider myself more A or B. In relationships I am alpha, with the bf being more beta, and it works out for us that way. To the public I look more beta because I am petite/thin and have a baby face, but the way I carry myself is more alpha. SO I am not sure which one I am. I don’t like people to see me as sweet, soft or submissive because I already look it. I guess my personality is more alpha even though I appear beta. Confusing eh? ---
**Author:** ![lindseyb](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/eb8c5e/32.png) [@lindseyb](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lindseyb)\ **Post date:** [January 1, 2010, 8:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-makes-people-ignore-me-or-seem-intimidated-tal-vs-tah-and-trying-is-b/35161/4 "2010-01-01T20:37:21Z")
Neither of the IS A or B seem to work for me either? But I might not be using enough. I’ve tested them both out in varying doses. I’ve been told on another board to maybe try adding a few drops of EoW to it? You could try that maybe, or switch to IS/B. ---
**Author:** ![Nehve1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/nehve1/32/959_2.png) [@Nehve1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Nehve1)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2010, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-makes-people-ignore-me-or-seem-intimidated-tal-vs-tah-and-trying-is-b/35161/5 "2010-01-02T05:09:08Z")
> [@Sugabee](#): > > I don’t like people to see me as sweet, soft or submissive because I already look it. I guess my personality is more alpha even though I appear beta. Confusing eh? You may be giving out confusing signals, yeah. With the addition of the IS/A, people may perceive you as a little girl wearing mom’s clothes and trying to be grown up, if you get what I mean. I know you can’t help how you appear, but maybe this is why people are kind of turned off when you wear it. You may not be able to make IS/a work no matter how strong your personality! :o Likely, the IS/b better complements your appearance and demeanor (before you speak, of course). You may just have to go with it if it gets you better results…It does not mean that you have to tone down your personality, though!!! (no offense at all intended 🙂) ---
**Author:** ![madison](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/madison/32/546_2.png) [@madison](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/madison)\ **Post date:** [January 2, 2010, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-makes-people-ignore-me-or-seem-intimidated-tal-vs-tah-and-trying-is-b/35161/6 "2010-01-02T05:57:33Z")
It sounds like you have an alpha personality so maybe the IS/B would be better. I would say give IS/B a try. Even though you don’t like to appear submissive etc. to people.. you never how it will work with you individually until you try it 🙂 Since you are already alpha in personality the IS/A may make you seem just to much. Probably why you are getting the people having trouble keeping eye contact, seeming cold towards you, and intimidated.