# IS/A or IS/B for a confident female to attract an alpha-ish male? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 19, 2008, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832 "2008-07-19T00:48:55Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Confident\_Single](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Confident\_Single](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Confident_Single)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 12:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/1 "2008-07-19T00:48:55Z")
Hey everyone! Again. After reading some reports I’m starting to think now that IS/A might not be for me. I did think that it would suit me best, my personality and the image I wanna potray (people already find me cute and cuddly, now I wanna be seen like an Angelina Jolie type). But the guy I wanna primarily test it out on is somewhat of an alpha-male, though he can be very childlike cute, cuddly and sweet. And some reports suggested that alpha males can become more hostile from IS/A cos they are intimidated by the woman’s confidence and they are holidng back..So I don’t know now-could someone please help me figure out which IS I should order? I’m trying to establish closeness as well so I’m thinking about [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Maybe if I wear them together the hostility from hi won’t appear? ---
**Author:** ![Confident\_Single](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Confident\_Single](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Confident_Single)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/2 "2008-07-19T10:45:10Z")
Found this today in a different post: ‘-A strong confident signature but the [tah](https://pheromonelabs.com/) in it lightens it up enough for me to avoid the cranky demanding self affect of IS/A.’ So does IS/B give less negative self-effects and less negative sensations? All I want from the [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is to make a guy drawn to me, maybe for him to feel more passionately sexual towards me. The only reason I considered IS/A was cos I assumed it suited my personality better and cos of the fact, as I’ve already said, that I already get cute cuddly type attention from this guy. Need to seem more foxy. But if it’s at the cost of potential hostility from him and crankiness from me, than maybe IS/B will work better? ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 10:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/3 "2008-07-19T10:52:30Z")
Instant sexiness A is great product and there are a lot more positive posts about it than negative. It is just that some women do better with [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/), I’m one of them. It doesn’t mean that it won’t work for you. Sorry this doesn’t help you much, we all had to wear the products and figure out which one we preferred. Why don’t you go ahead and try out instant sexiness A in a to go size, if you don’t like it you didn’t spend much and you can get instant sexiness B in a full size. ---
**Author:** ![Confident\_Single](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Confident\_Single](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Confident_Single)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 11:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/4 "2008-07-19T11:27:37Z")
That’s certainly an idea, thanks! Do you think IS/B can make a girlie feminine girl over the top ditzy and cute? Cos I’m sort of in-between a girlie girl and a sexy leather-pants type.Hm.. ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 12:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/5 "2008-07-19T12:22:01Z")
Not in my opinion. I think [instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) is a strong and confident signature, the higher tah content does soften it, but not as much as you’re thinking. Just as the tal content in the A version is higher and it feels stronger to me, but not so much that it is reacted to negatively by everyone, there are plenty of woman that wear it happily. Mx135 is more girlie cute and much softer than either. ---
**Author:** ![Confident\_Single](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Confident\_Single](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Confident_Single)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 1:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/6 "2008-07-19T13:36:22Z")
great, that cleared it up, thanks!!Think I’ll be going for IS/B, just to be on the safe side till I get more confident wearing [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). ---
**Author:** ![ariadne](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ariadne/32/770_2.png) [@ariadne](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ariadne)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 7:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/7 "2008-07-19T19:37:08Z")
> [@Confident\_Single](#): > > That’s certainly an idea, thanks! Do you think IS/B can make a girlie feminine girl over the top ditzy and cute? Cos I’m sort of in-between a girlie girl and a sexy leather-pants type.Hm.. I think some people have had this sort of reaction to the TAH in IS/B, but I didn’t. I originally came here looking for a way out of the girlie girl-cutesy zone and tried IS/A first, but it just didn’t work for me; I felt wrong. Then I tried IS/B and I have had great successes with it! It has a confidence element of its own that I think is underrated. ---
**Author:** ![Kitten](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kitten/32/1051_2.png) [@Kitten](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kitten)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 8:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/8 "2008-07-19T20:07:49Z")
Hiya Confident, 🙂 I’ve found that there are two types of Alpha Males. There’s the type who is an alpha due to his status and position–or his looks. And then there’s the type who is alpha in personality, not position. For the status alpha, TAL (IS/A, MX134) works great. Sometimes it works better to wear a mix of TAH (IS/B, MX135) and TAL. Depends on the guy. But generally, these types get turned on when you stand up to them a little. In a playful way of course. For the personality alpha, TAH is needed. These guys prefer a more traditionally feminine woman, so the softer you can come across, the better. They are also surprisingly tender hearted and sweet under all that tuff guy exterior, so try to be gentle. Which one is your guy? Kitten ---
**Author:** ![queenie-t](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/queenie-t/32/1580_2.png) [@queenie-t](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/queenie-t)\ **Post date:** [July 19, 2008, 8:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/9 "2008-07-19T20:18:01Z")
hmmm very smart Kitten! I never would of thought of it that way.. but that makes perfect sense! ---
**Author:** ![djacquelyn](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/djacquelyn/32/2180_2.png) [@djacquelyn](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/djacquelyn)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 2:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/10 "2008-07-20T02:55:37Z")
> [@Kitten](#): > > Hiya Confident, 🙂 > I’ve found that there are two types of Alpha Males. There’s the type who is an alpha due to his status and position–or his looks. And then there’s the type who is alpha in personality, not position. > > For the status alpha, TAL (IS/A, MX134) works great. Sometimes it works better to wear a mix of TAH (IS/B, MX135) and TAL. Depends on the guy. But generally, these types get turned on when you stand up to them a little. In a playful way of course. > > For the personality alpha, TAH is needed. These guys prefer a more traditionally feminine woman, so the softer you can come across, the better. They are also surprisingly tender hearted and sweet under all that tuff guy exterior, so try to be gentle. > > Which one is your guy? > Kitten Kitten you explained this brilliantly…I was about to make the same points/examples of a personality alpha male til I saw you had already taken care of it. And yes, they are very tenderhearted and loving under all that tarzan gear.lol Reps to you kitten djacquelyn 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![copycat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/copycat/32/896_2.png) [@copycat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/copycat)\ **Post date:** [July 20, 2008, 7:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/11 "2008-07-20T07:54:06Z")
> [@Confident\_Single](#): > > After reading some reports I’m starting to think now that IS/A might not be for me. I’m still experimenting with it (my first product). I got it because of all the recommendations and I’m sure I just need time to adjust to it before I start seeing effects. The to go version is not terribly expensive and certainly worth a try! ---
**Author:** ![Confident\_Single](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/b19c9b/32.png) [@Confident\_Single](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Confident_Single)\ **Post date:** [July 21, 2008, 12:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/12 "2008-07-21T12:02:35Z")
Thank you, Kitten!! Brilliant! I’d say my guy is personality alpha type. So glad that I’ve ordered IS/B! ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [July 22, 2008, 2:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/is-a-or-is-b-for-a-confident-female-to-attract-an-alpha-ish-male/15832/13 "2008-07-22T02:59:50Z")
Kitten you really hit the nail on the head analyzing the two types of alpha males. The second type you described could masquerade as a B male but really is not. And true, TAH really works on the Alpha-2 males. I have tested it and it really works. Not on hubby, so I really should not comment. Anyway. On the Alpha-2 males, TAH combined with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is great. Add some sexi-B! Whoa! Get thee to the drugstore!